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Posted: 9 years ago
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Just came across a news article on news channel website about a woman who became pregnant when she was sixteen years old and had a very unhealthy life style which involved substance abuse and poor nutrition.
It was a heart touching story of a mother whose childrens' lives and health was destroyed by her life style and the children who are paying a price for their mother's weaknesses.

You feel contempt and anger towards the woman feel bad for her children and some way feel sorry for that woman too.

But what is laudable about the woman is she came into public space to tell her story and how her life style destroyed her babies so that people will take home a message.She braved the contempt which the world shows her just because she wants the world to learn lessons from her wrong doings.

This is the world we live in.

http://www.ndtv.com/world-news/a-life-undone-by-her-mothers-drinking-1267734?pfrom=home-lateststories


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Posted: 9 years ago
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I dont love or hate a character and for me all the characters are equal. I usually take up the side of the character which gets unusually bashed. In the past I took up for Jagya and also Ganga. I remember how Ganga was ridiculed and mocked. Though I can understand the reason behind bashing, I feel overdoing is somewhat makes me feel for the victim of bashings.The only character who I did not support was Gauri even when she got bashed up. I felt sorry for her but not sorry enough to take up her side. I felt even bad for Sanchi more than for Gauri.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I have full sympathy for Jagya as he is traumatised and he is too good a person to ask for a favour and he will even give his life to save Nimboli. The point I made was only for technical reasons. Infact I have the softest corner for Jagya and his kids.l
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I criticised Shiv too and many times anandi also got it from me.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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For me Jagya is at fault for the way he treated Anandi and his parents
He may have thought of himself as a victim of child marriage but that was no excuse to treat his child bride so badly.
If it had not been for the basic good nature of the family Anandi's life would have ended up like all those ababdoned child brides we saw during her child hood.

In his victim hood and feeling sorry for himself he completely disregarded the fact that the child bride paid double the price he did because of child marriage.

He was only victim as far as child marriage was concerned but the rest his estrangement with his parents failure of his marriage with Gauri he was responsible.

He was ashamed of his rural background and his life in village and of his parents not just about his child marriage all these did shape his behaviour with his family.

I can never sympathise with him because of all these reasons.

He expected Gauri to swallow his lies but was unforgiving when he discovered that Gauri lied to him.

He saw that his abandoned child bride made a life for herself and acquired all the qualities he desired in his wife therefore he wanted her back.It didnt matter to him that she didn't want him anymore.

I may not have problems with his present character but nothing will make me forget what he had been like.

I will not be surprised if his character dips again when he sees threat to his interests. He may not handle so badly as he had done before but all the same his actions under pressure does show that he can compromise on his principles.
Edited by aparnauma - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anandi paid the double price She got more good from Singhs than their own daughter Sugna if anyone paid the worst price of child marriage were Sugna and Jagya who were ill treated by their own family Sugna when that poor girl became a widow Had Shyam not come in Sugna's life Singhs had destroyed her life completely and Jagya was abandoned by his family , cursed , bashed , abused for daring to go against his child marriage even when his balika vadhu was married off by his family still the poor guy was not allowed to make his life but was again forced by his family to do things as per it goes in favor of his balika vadhu . When people talk about Anandi's victimhood i am completebecause i don't see her victimhood anywhere All i see the best she got
People here to prove Anandi as Jagya's victim blame Jagya so much that he treated poor thing so badly while their own favorite Anandi was crying buckets for him , sleeping holding his picture , and wanted to live in his love forever O really very badly treated by Jagya🤣
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: saba113

Anandi paid the double price She got more good from Singhs than their own daughter Sugna if anyone paid the worst price of child marriage were Sugna and Jagya who were ill treated by their own family Sugna when that poor girl became a widow Had Shyam not come in Sugna's life Singhs had destroyed her life completely and Jagya was abandoned by his family , cursed , bashed , abused for daring to go against his child marriage even when his balika vadhu was married off by his family still the poor guy was not allowed to make his life but was again forced by his family to do things as per it goes in favor of his balika vadhu . When people talk about Anandi's victimhood i am completebecause i don't see her victimhood anywhere All i see the best she got

People here to prove Anandi as Jagya's victim blame Jagya so much that he treated poor thing so badly while their own favorite Anandi was crying buckets for him , sleeping holding his picture , and wanted to live in his love forever O really very badly treated by Jagya🤣

agree saba and another great point Jagya treated his parents so badly Lols When did he treated his parents badly ?it were Bhairon and Sumi who treated him worst than any human parent can do . Bhairon was that father naa who killed his son for him just because he did not want to live with his father's chosen balika vadhu forum , Bhairon was that father who was as least bothered about his sick son and more bothered about shiv's comfort that he was not willing to keep a sick unconscious Jagya at home and wanted to throw him at some hospital ? and what was Jagya 's crime He left his balika vadhu and Bhairon's ego was bruised Sumitra that mother who was ashamed of giving birth to Jagya because she failed to convince him that he and Anandi are soul mates Wah what great parents and both so called victim parents knew their son loves them more than anything else Sumi challenged Gauri right on her face because she knew how her son loves them so much , Bhairon wanted to complain to Jagya when Gauri insulted him because he knew Jagya break off Gauri's face This shows someone's blames on Jagya how much true they are ???😆 Both Bhairon and sumi knew Jagya loves them and both were only punishing him because he was not loyal to their choice Anandi , he did stay loyal to his child marriage and this Bhairon himself confessed and here someone is trying to prove Jagya ill treated his parents ?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Anu the problem is many people here finding Jagya's character growth much better than Anandi Jagya as a character is much better than Anandi whom cvs badly failed to make victim of child marriage as well as her character graph has gone down that many of her past fans too have become her critics so stories had to be created tin Anandi's defense o put Jagya down 😛
anyways some people can dream till eternity Jagya's character will dip He comprises with his principles for his interests

Truth everyone will see how this dream and blames will be super flop like all others have been 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

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He expected Gauri to swallow his lies but was unforgiving when he discovered that Gauri lied to him.

lols did Gauri apologize to him ? did she ? you expect him to take aarti ki thali and worship her after her lies exposed to him ?Why others have rights to be angry if anyone does wrong with them not Jagya ?How many times Jagya forgave Gauri for all her rude behavior but did she stop ?she went on and on and in the end instead of apologizing for doing wrong with him she was asking him to get lost and cry in his mother's lap she does not care You wanted Jagya to forgive Gauri without her moving tongue to apologize show any remorse? Wow kudos to you What a fair criticism
but still Jagya forgave her without her even trying but she showed no remorse and was in no mood to make up , even close her relation properly and you are faulting Jagya for that How wonderfully neutral criticism

and which of Jagya's actions are showing he is compromising with his principles for his interests under pressure? If that would be the case he would not have wasted his time and energy in protecting Nimboli but hand over Anandi and Nimboli to Akhiraj and free his wife after all Anandi and Nimboli herself wants to be handed over to Akhiraj

keep waiting till infinity for Jagya to become bad so you can shine your Anandi on him
Edited by Hina- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@saba , anu , hina ... what i find most funny is some same people who at one place keep blaming Jagya , keep making Anandi as Jagya's victim at other these are same people who keep calling Jagya as Anandi's bestest friend Now someone can please tell me how any abuser can also be the best friend of his victim ?😛The person who treated me badly can never be my best friend.
Isn't it funny that Anandi's so called abuser as claimed by some people is also claimed as Anandi's bestest friend Anandi ever had and she was sticking with him , she is sticking with him even now and openly tell people he is her best friend She told to Anant ??

Jagya's parents very well knew their son loves them so much that sumi challenged Gauri , Bhairon wanted to complain to Jagya about Gauri insulting him Anandi stopped him Both Jagya's parents were punishing him only because he went against his child marriage and left his balika vadhu It has been so clearly shown in serial Jagya's parents abandoned him not he abandoned them He did everything possible to get back with his family but they kept abusing him , cursing him and rejecting him I find it amazing how people forget about it 😛

I find it funny how it is being said Jagya was unforgiving to Gauri at her lies as if the poor Gauri begged forgiveness from Jagya but he was cruel he did not forgive her ? How bad of Jagya 😆The lady did not even try for once rather she challenged Jagya yes she did this , now what this maa ka ladla will do , go whereever i don't care for you . After using her husband as a tool to plot revenge on his family , doing all those nasty things which wounded his heart and Gauri knew that it will hurt him , instead of apologizing to him the lady kicked him out of her life and here Jagya is being blamed he was unforgiving to Gauri Really clapping for such unbiased logic

i am not surprised some people are trying hard to put down Jagya because thats their favorite thing to do how else Anandi will be glorified otherwise 😛and i am sure people will be remain surprised because their dream Jagya's character will dip and then they can bash him will remain a sweet dream 😛

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