If I am in anandi's shoes - Page 3

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I will rather see her married and cooking for Anant. It is not lame to live and lead that type of life.
I dont want to cry when BV ends. I want to smile and be happy.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I will rather see her married and cooking for Anant. It is not lame to live and lead that type of life.
I dont want to cry when BV ends. I want to smile and be happy.

Who is Anant that Anandi should spend rest of her life cooking for him?
She is better cooking for herself and her children.

Originally posted by: russhmeSS

Who is Anant that Anandi should spend rest of her life cooking for him?
She is better cooking for herself and her children.

Evcryman is a who before marriage. Anandi took a long time to accept even Shiv.

Originally posted by: russhmeSS

Who is Anant that Anandi should spend rest of her life cooking for him?
She is better cooking for herself and her children.

Marriage to a boring man? In real life almost all are boring and uninteresting after the honeymoon period.

Life is not Mills and Boons stories.

Every person should cultivate some hobbies to make life interesting. One cant depend on spouse to make life lively.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Evcryman is a who before marriage. Anandi took a long time to accept even Shiv.

Just because she accepted Shiv, doesn't mean that she should accept Anant also.

Both the situations are way different. Back then, Anandi was a young girl in her early twenties who had scratches on her mind from her relationship. It wouldn't have harmed has she stayed alone that time as well, but she got another opportunity in form of Shiv. She got love and care from Shiv that a woman seeks from a relationship.

Now that void in her life doesn't exist any more. She is in her 40s, is financially independent, has two kids to take care of, and most importantly has an aim for herself in form of whatever social work she does.

Is there really any need of a new marriage?

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Marriage to a boring man? In real life almost all are boring and uninteresting after the honeymoon period.

Life is not Mills and Boons stories.

Every person should cultivate some hobbies to make life interesting. One cant depend on spouse to make life lively.

If spouse can't make your life lively, why to get into such marriage? 😛
Better to make your life lively on your own!! 😆

Originally posted by: russhmeSS

If spouse can't make your life lively, why to get into such marriage? 😛
Better to make your life lively on your own!! 😆

Originally posted by: russhmeSS

Just because she accepted Shiv, doesn't mean that she should accept Anant also.

Both the situations are way different. Back then, Anandi was a young girl in her early twenties who had scratches on her mind from her relationship. It wouldn't have harmed has she stayed alone that time as well, but she got another opportunity in form of Shiv. She got love and care from Shiv that a woman seeks from a relationship.

Now that void in her life doesn't exist any more. She is in her 40s, is financially independent, has two kids to take care of, and most importantly has an aim for herself in form of whatever social work she does.

Is there really any need of a new marriage?

Marriage is for companionship and there is no age barrier for it. In western world 40s is relatively young. And they dont consider themselves old even when they are in seventies. In India also people are changing. Now women are marrying after fulfilling their career ambitions and after they cross 35.With Shiv she got romance and love. With anant she will get companionship. Children will not depend on parents after certain age and they develop their own wings and fly away. It will be comfortable if there is someone when approaching old age.