So what? - DTN pg 2

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Posted: 9 years ago
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How can she forget so soon? That anandi brought her new dresses, jewellery, gifts while Shivam got nothing all the while. Anandi is giving super attention to her at the expense of Shivam.

Even if anandi packed two more laddoos for Shivam, so what? Anandi did not starve her like Harki did.

Shivam is her son and Nimboli is only a guest. So Nimboli has no right to question and show a long face. Ungrateful kid.

That packed items are unhealthy and health conscious people will wince at it if it is a regular fare.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes, even I felt the same looking at nimboli. All the gift showering on her had not made her feel grateful towards Anandi but she got habituated to them. She needs to learn a lot from Anandi abt how to behave. There seems to be very big challenge before Anandi. So much to teach her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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even i felt bad for anandi .the day nandini enter bh anandi give all worldly comfort to nandini she take care of nandini when nandini suffering from fever but look just because of two laddoos how easily forget all types of comfort given by anandi

and showing rude face expressin to anandi .this is utterly mean behaviour of nandini

she even wear jwellery dress given by anandi at shiv niketan dance comp but there is no sign of greatfull ness on nandini face instead show attitude very bad behaviour of nandini

why nandini did not show such attitude to harki when harki make her to do all kind of house hold work and even do not give proper food to nandini

and now in bh anandi is not making her daughter to do any kind of house hold work but instead anandi give all type of comfort to nandini

just because she get two laddoos .she is behaving badly with anandi and forgetting all love of anandi poor anandi

nandini has live with anandi for so many days .for staying with anandi for so many days nandini underestimating anandi love

nandini even did not say chokhi chudail always give me all type of comfort so what if chocki give me only two laddos

and she even did not show faith in anandi may be chocki chudail forget to put two more laddoos chocki chudail cant do such partiality .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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May be the kid has now got used to being center of attention.
She was showered with too many goodies and expensive things (things that she never had access to) and may be that's why she doesn't know where to draw a line.

Generally, if people know their identity / status / relationship with other, drawing a line becomes easy.

Here it's very confusing for Nimboli. On one end she is only a guest, but on other end she gets treated as if she has equal rights as Shivam. Obviously the kid will be confused and will behave strangely.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Don't think the kid is ungrateful but insecure.
She doesn't know why people like her if they like and she doesn't understand why people who dislike her dislike so much.

She could not understand why Akheraj and family hated her and shunned her like the way they did and if they didn't like her why did they make her beendini

She never understood why Mangala liked her she never understood why her mother threw her in garbage bin when she was only a baby.

Now she knows why her mother threw her in a garbage bin - because she is a girl.

Now the lady is preying on the child's insecurity.Making the girl aware of the fact that she is nobody while Shivam is Anandi's son more importantly a boy.

It is becoming obvious that the lady can tie that child to her only when the child faces hostile circumstances.

In Akheraj house the circumstances were hostile so the child was close to her and here the situation is exactly opposite so the lady is creating circumstances in child's mind because she couldn't create negativity in the people's minds.🤢


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Posted: 9 years ago
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ladoo is ok but chips and busicuit ?? it would have better if parantha with green leafy vegetable given at lunch box .now days in school teacher check lunch box of student that what kind of break fast they bring at school .now days parents r srictly told by teachers that parent should not give any food made of maida not even noodles intead parents is ask to pack green vegetables chapati parantha at children lunch box

now days teachers strictlkty told parents they shuld pack only health food for their children
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think snacks which Anandi packed were chakli, namak para with ladoos. It's ok once in a while if they r home cooked. But not healthy if it's on daily basis.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Such unhealthy food in those boxes.
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High time Anandi recognised that her daughter is in danger and the danger will damage her mind.
Sooner she realises it is better. Akheraj and Harki couldn't damage the child's spirit and positivity because the child knew that those people are not good people so she doesn't accept their behaviour as right.

Mangala is someone the child trusts and thinks the world of her and if Anandi is not careful the child will become an other Mangala who preys on peoples' fears and insecurities.
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The child never saw Anandi treating her differently from the way Shivam was being treated so this apparent discrimination is a bit too much to take.But the problem is that the child accepts everything Mangala tells her.

The longer time the child spends away from Mangala the better it will be for the child.
She did go to school out of fear but in school she realised that her fears about education are baseless so she decided go to school because she liked it.

Don't need the child to distance herself from Mangala'slibe of thinking and embrace Anandi's thoughts.
The child only needs to be by herself to come into her own and see for herself what is rght and what is wrong. Morning she was pissed off with Anandi all thanks to Mangala's cunning tactics but by evening she has forgotten that and she was back to herself and that happened only because she spent time away from Mangala doing her own thing.

Anandi needs to open her eyes now. It is more important that the child stays away from Mangala rather than the child accepting her.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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ITA with all the opinions aired thus far re: unhealthy food, and Nandini's OTT attitude for a couple of ladoos. On the bright side, even in spite of Mangala's 🤢 sick behaviour, I could not but help appreciate little Gracy's acting. She is such a natural little actress, and today the timely and subtle changes in expression, body language and demeanor was a real treat to watch.

As far as the story line goes, Mangala's village antics of identity-politics and kitchen politics of distancing people from one another, sowing seeds of doubt, and manipulating Nimboli are getting really repetitive and boring. I wish they would try something new. I cannot believe that in this long-drawn out revelation-of-mother-daughter track, we have to keep watching Mangala's double dealings. I wish Mangala would be daring enough to fight her battles for Nimboli's love openly with Anandi and Dadisa rather than exploit the kid behind everyone's back.

**DT NOTE: Comment has been edited - as per revised forum rules, members are told to address characters by their actual name rather than any nick name etc. as a result of members using nick names to bash characters. Therefore, for future reference please cite the character's complete name in discussions i.e. Mangala and not any abbreviation of this name.**
Edited by Yuvika_15 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i was shock to c item pack in lunch box for nandini shivam .i was continously looking at snacks and thinking is it right to give such breakfast ?

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