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Posted: 9 years ago
#41
Mangala works under the garb of illiteracy and also under the garb of poor single woman. She could've complained about Urmis wedding but didn't. She could've complained about the way Nimboli was treated but never bothered. In fact she tried to hide about Nimboli because then the child will go away.
What is more important the child suffering in front of her or going away and living a better life. The child will always have regards towards her in life even after growing up. She would always want to keep in touch with her. But she never cared.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

They are dragging because there is no more story left for Anandi, except for getting her daughter back. If the revelation happens, Nandini will not take too long to accept Anandi. After that we (viewers) will enjoy few good scenes of mother daughter bonding for a while, such as N's school, education, dressing sense etc and then it will become boring eventually.

Makers have to drag this to keep the show going.

They could have made their show better by not making Mangala negative. After finding the truth of Nandini's parentage, Mangala should have given up the girl to her real mother, and then it would be interesting to see how Nandini finds it to balance between her real mother and a woman whom she loves as a mother.

They should have sent Mangala back to Jhalra to help Kamli in her fight and in the mean time, we could have seen how Anandi (the mother and not CC) contributes to her daughter.

What we are seeing is boring and if sibling rivalry is next on agenda, it will be further boring.


VERY TRUE ..THE EPISODE WILL GET BORING AND ALSO NO UNIQUENESS,SOMETHING NEW LIKE COMING ACROSS POOJA &NIDHI AND OTHER SCHOOL GIRLS,,,SHIVAM AND NANDANI FIGHTING AND TEASING EACH OTHER AS BROTHER SISTER
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Posted: 9 years ago
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MANGLA IS NOT AT ALL PRACTICAL!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Only one person is responsible for Urmi's plight and that is Anandi. Nobody asked A and she didn't ask anybody, most certainly not Urmi, before unilaterally, melodramatically announcing in court that she will take Urmi's responsibility.

Anandi alone was responsible for getting Urmi's marriage annulled and sending her father to jail, which resulted in poor Urmi being left without support. With her father in jail, how could she burdn her mother?

Anandi did not even care to find out about Urmi's pregnancy before going ahead with the annulment of the marriage and jailing of her father. Did she even once think what it would be like to be a single mother at 15? She didn't. As is her won't she grandly intervened in Urmi's matter without ascertaining the conditions.

And then having done all this, she shed tears in court abt Urmi's pain. She stood up and announced that she was taking her responsibility.

Now I come to Urmi's reaction. She Did Not say she wanted to be only in Jhalra. Far from it, she folded her hands and tearfully thanked Anandi. She was grateful that she had been offered protection.

So for all the above reasons, it falls on Anandi to take responsibility for Urmi. Why assume that the court is still dealing with the matter?

And even assuming this was the case, couldn't A have filed an application seeking early action on her request to take Urmi? Any lawyer would get this done in half hour citing Urni's health concerns. Why did she never think about the promise she made? Telling a lie in court is perjury. No judge will hold up a case like this when humanitarian considerations are involved.

Anandi never even said" oh let me speed up the process so tht Urmi can be safe."

The plain truth is Anandi undertook Urmi's charge only to get praise and applause. This done she forgot the promise.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What a contrast between Kamli and Anandi!!

Kamli is single handedly and bravely fighting her enemies on one hand and protecting her husband and sister in law on the other. She is courage personified.

Anandi has an army of supporters and her every interest, every need is looked after by caring loving people. And yet she is weak and unable to take a single decision on her own.

Mangala too was brave. Now she is evil beyond repair. I hope it is not Kamli's turn to become evil. Because she is overshadowing the lead which is a danger signal for her future. .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The only decision which Anandi is unable to take is to tell her children about Nandini.
That is between her and her child..

She knows she needs to gain the trust of the child in order to make her believe what she says is true.
She is doing that.

All the rest - the support which she gets is EARNED and hence it is given whole heartedly.


Anandi's struggles are far different from Kamili's

Kamili's enemies are enemies and well wishers are well wishers there is a clear demarcation between the two categories.She doesn't have to fight the same people who loved her like Anandi had to at every point in life.




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Posted: 9 years ago
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The only decision which Anandi is unable to take is to tell her children about Nandini.

That is between her and her child..

She knows she needs to gain the trust of the child in order to make her believe what she says is true.
She is doing that.

All the rest - the support which she gets is EARNED and hence it is given whole heartedly.


Anandi's struggles are far different from Kamili's

Kamili's enemies are enemies and well wishers are well wishers there is a clear demarcation between the two categories.She doesn't have to fight the same people who loved her like Anandi had to at every point in life.




In real life too, most of the times our enemies are the very people who were once our well wishers, but due to either situations, circumstances or differences in opinions, they end up becoming road blocks in our lives / dreams.
At that time, depending on the situation, we have to make our stand clear, put our foot down to do what is needful and work through the situation.

But Anandi will never take a practical approach or look for a win-win situation. She would rather get emotional and sail through various decisions imposed by others and then behave as if nothing was in her control. This type of immature behaviour leads to only destruction either for oneself or for others. That is what Anandi has mastered in.

Anandi's situations are far more manageable. It is she who likes to complicate things.

Kamli's situation is a real trauma. She has not invited any of these. For her, the options were always either death or fight. She has been choosing the latter so far. And so far she had excelled.

No wonder, after Mangala, Kamli has started to garner appreciation, and that is why her fight is being reduced to an easy fight compared to Anandi's
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Posted: 9 years ago
#48
Urmi appreciating Anandi and showing her gratitude for the same doesn't mean that she wants to move in to SN.
She feels secure with Kamili around and why not Kamili is the one who tried to protect her even from the time before they even met each other and she is showing enough commitment to get the guilty punished so why would Urmi want to leave Kamili unless it is absolutely necessary?
She doesn't know Anandi except that she is Nimboli's mother but Kamili she has been living with her.


The necessity for Urmi to move out has been created by none other than Mangala. When she had the opportunity to get Kundan locked away for a more serious crime and thus protect Urmi who is at danger of Kundan's violence she let him get away.

If Mangala had not gone visiting Kundan saying that she wanted to ensure Urmi is safe she wouldn't have been held responsible.

If Mangala has so much love and concern for Kundan and holds his parents responsible why doesn't she go to Jhalra? She herself said that the boy played in her lap and he is like a child to her?

Why refuse to budge out of Nandini's life and make herself useful by sudharofying Kundan and she can ensure that he grows up to be just like another Mangala


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Kundan was anyway to be released. So shoudn't have Anandi along with Mangala, Urmi and Kamli planned before hand on what to do next and how to protect themselves when Kundan is released?

Isn't Anandi, the supposed smart one and the one with more security and power compared to the other three? So what is / was Anandi's contribution / suggestion to secure Urmi / kamli's life? Why is it solely Mangala's responsibilty, even after Anandi volunteered to provide her social services?

Moreover why is Urmi still living in her sasural and carrying on with the pregnancy when lawfully, she and Kundan are not connected?

Urmi was primarily her parent's responsibiltiy who got her married into a wrong place. There she was looked after by the good ones like Mangala, kamli and Nimboli. And finally, the social worker volunteered to look after Urmi. Why did she intervene when she was not in a position to handle it?

Mangala is wrong in releasing Kundan, but how does she solely become responsible for Urmi's fate?And why is the social worker excused for making a lapse?


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Who are the people who wronged Anandi?
1. Her parents. Are they anything like Harki and Akheraj? No they loved their pnly child Anandi and they did what all the others in their society do.

Sumi and Bhairon or rather Bhairon who is an enlightened man who could have done more but couldn't go against Dsa. Bu they did everything they could for her

Dsa - the lady accepted the child as Devi ma's gift to the family even before she met her and she made the child's life miserable because of her ignoarance stupidity and arrogance but did she care for that child any less? No.Even when she believed that the child can't be a good Beendini because of brain damage decided to get another beendini just like Harki and Akheraj did for their son Dsa said the child will be part of the family as the daughter of the family and she will get the same rights as Suguna.
The lady stood on her word.
Should Anandi go against this lady who swallowed her pain of being seperated from her her dear darling grandson for the sake of Anandi's welfare and security?

Should she go against Jagya just because he fell in love with a girl and wanted a wife of his choice?This is the same Jagya who stood up for her in front of Dsa. Should she forget all that he has done for her and ensure that he went to jail for bigamy?

Should she cause pain to Daddu by getting DB kicked out? DB didn't have anything against anyone other than Anandi. Even when Anop was being unreasonable she used Anop against Anandi diirected Anop's frustrations towards Anandi and it is Anandi's Bhaili which was more affected than Alok's business.

In all these things it is she who ended up paying bigger price.

Kamili's parents do not deserve to be treated the way like Anandi's or Urmi's parents.

Pushkar's uncle and aunt are not like Shekhars

The people whom Kamili had to deal with there is no love lost between Kamili and them they are not complicated relationships like Anandi's.
They are all one dimentional.

Akheraj is a murderer Pushkar's uncle is a murderer - what they have done is criminal.

The only criminal act that Anandi let go of was the bigamy that too the bigamist is a victim though to a much less extent.

Anandi was a child so she couldn't punish her parents and Singhs for child marriage.








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