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Posted: 9 years ago
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If Anandi is right for forgiving DB only because she,herself, was the lady's only target then why are so many offenders punished when their target happens to be just one person? Why is a rapist punished when the victim of his rape was just one girl? Why is a murderer punished when there happens to be only one person whom he/she murdered? Why shouldn't an abused woman be considered selfish for trying to punish her abuser when that abuser is only harming her?

In one way Anandi's logic behind forgiving DB is lame and very stupid! She was actually waiting for DB to do something harmful with other members like Shiv, Amol or Daddu! Only when one of those lives come under danger, Anandi will wake up and think to do something! Salute to such logic and selflessness! She is definitely unique! Doesn't matter if she is an idiot, she still is unique among idiots!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Omg! DB and Mangala can never be compared. Is Anoop the same as Urmi or Nimboli? How is Anandi responsible for what DB told Anoop? In fact I don't hold DB responsible for Anoops smuggling activity. He is a middle aged educated man whereas DB was an orthodox old lady. Is Anoops smuggling also Anandi's responsibility?
This is the height! It is easier for a person to fool and manipulate children but not sensible people like Anoop. Someone who had a responsible position in the army. What Anoop did was total disgrace. DB went on supporting him but he followed his own cunning mind.

So fearing the Kundan will arrive the two immature girls Kamli and Urmi should prepare in advance? Maybe they feared this day but who knew the great Mangala Devi will show her kindness and bestow Kundan upon them much earlier than anticipated. So becaus they weren't prepared it's their fault and Anoop went and did smuggling is Anandi's fault. Anandi only wanted to hide DB because she was only responsible to cause damage to her. She knew DB adored her brother and she didn't want to create a rift. Whereas Mangala hiding a criminal and rapist is not understandable at all. It's not the same yardstick at all.


Urmis responsibility is down to four people? Urmi herself an immature and now pregnant helpless girl, kamli fighting single handedly in this whole thing , Mangala and Anandi . Who is more related to Urmi, Mangala or anandi? Who is responsible for sending Kundan back home? I can tell that ultimately it will be Anandi to help her after the damage that Mangala has done.


Mangala needn't tell Kundan to go and rape. That habit is that boys natural instinct and he is automatically going to do it. Doesn't Mangala know about Kundan?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Wow so between Mangala and Anandi, Mangala becomes more responsible because she is the relative.

Yeah why not? After all Anandi is only there to give lectures and take standing ovation. Baaki kya? Work is always done by others.

And why am I forgetting, that Anandi herself lives off others, can't give a safe secured future to her own child, what will she help Urmi?

Anyways I never said Mangala is right. I only said Anandi was wrong. In my opinion hiding your offender is wrong and Anandi is wrong.


Edited by Missesha - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Who ever said Anandi did right thing by hiding what DB did.
The difference is the circumstances and the possible next victims.


Anop was a victim of his own foolishness and ego more than DB's victim.DB cannot be held responsible for what Anop did.

By that time the drug drama got over and Anandi Shiv caught DB in action even Amol knew better than to pay attention to what DB said or did.

When Anandi Shiv caught DB in action they made sure that she didn't try anything like this again on them.In fact after she had been caught DB was terrified of Anandi and Shiv and she didn't want to find herself alone with them.
Neither the family nor Anandi and Amol were in danger when they let go of DB.


In Kundan's case the next victims are weak defence less Pushkar Urmi and to an extent Kamili.

Anandi was not responsible for Anop's illegal activities which brought shame on the family and tarnished Anop's own good name as a man who lost so much while defending the country.

Anop Urmi Pushkar cannot be bracketed together.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anup urmi and Kamli may not be bracketed together but Mangala and Anandi can be.

They both released their offender, causing their family a bigger hurt.

Anandi was just as much wrong as Mangala is now. Hiding your offender is a crime. Even if Kundan doesn't bring any harm to Jhalra folks, Mangala will still be wrong for not doing her bit right. Just as Anandi failed to do her bit right.

Of course DB is now out so no one will question Anandi. But Mangala will be questioned as it is an ongoing track.

However Anandi was wrong and her attitude unleashed DB on KB. Blaming Anop doesn't make Anandi's wrong right
Edited by Missesha - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Before letting DB go get away Anandi and Shiv asessed the risk and the possible damage the lady can do.
They decided that family will not come to any harm but hoped to catch that the man who is selling harmful stuff can be caught through DB.



Did Mangala do that?



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Oh really? They assessed? No, Shiv was all set to expose DB to his family and Anandi stopped him with a kasam saying Daddu will be hurt.

There was no assessment whatsoever. They just hoped and assumed that DB will not do something like this again because they have ticked her off.

This is why Anandi was so wrong.

One, she took DB lightly and bought her sob story that she was drugging Anandi out of good will. Two, she withheld info in anticipation that Daddu will not be able to handle it, but actually daddu managed to kick her out.

Daddu had always supported Anandi over Db. So had Anandi opened her mouth earlier, KB would have been spared of DBs antics

Anandi is wrong because she released her offender. They didn't assess any possible damage the lady could do. And hence the lady did damage the family.

Both Anandi and Mangala are wrong in their respective cases.
Edited by Missesha - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What ever happened in Shekhar household after the drug incident DB was not responsible for any of those events.
It was Alok's impatience with his brother Anop's ego and stupidity which were responsible.

DB is someone who took advantage of these like saprophyte which thrives on garbage.

Garbage was produced by Anop and Alok not Anandi nor was it produced by DB.DB may be guilty of harming Anandi and bullying Amol and insulting Shiv but she cannot be accused of causing Anop Alok conflict or escalating differences between the brothers or Anop's behaviout.
Putting the blame on DB for Anop's action is not right.


But here what ever happens in Akheraj household post Kundan's release it is Kundan's doing and Mangala knowingly let off Kundan despite professing her concern for Urmi.


Letting go of criminal who is likely to harrass and hurt innocent defence less people is a bigger crime than letting go of a criminal who committed a crime against you. This is what Mangala did.
Edited by aparnauma - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#29
If either ways 'Anandi is right' is the motive of the discussion, then it can't be helped.

If Anandi releases a criminal and that criminal targets someone, the victim becomes the wrong doer.

If Mangala releases a criminal and if that criminal targets someone, then the victim remains victim and Mangala becomes the offender?

How does this theory work??

DB had clear motives to destroy Shekhar family. Earlier her problem was with Anandi, because Anandi was getting so much importance despite being an abandoned woman, married for second time.

Later when Hardik left DB, DB intentionally wanted to harm Shekhars, so that Anandi also ends up losing her family. She intentionally created fights between the two brothers and kept taking advantage of Anoop's weakness.

Anoop is wrong in his part and Anandi is wrong in her part and DB was a criminal equal to Kundan (probably worse) because she was a disguised criminal, whom Anandi allowed to breed. However, had Anandi taken corrective actions on time, DB may not have any opportunity to take advantage of Anoop's weakness.

Kundan is atleast a known criminal and people know what to expect of him.
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At least no one is justifying Mangala here for releasing Kundan, but there is lot of defence happening to cover up Anandi's flaws. Wrong is wrong, just because the lead does it, it does not become right.

I will stick to my views that Anandi's inability to take corrective actions led to the downfall of KB (and I am not barring Anoop's mistakes)


Edited by Missesha - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#30
when chacha chachi of pushkar will be punish by court .after than truth will be revealed that anandi is bilogical mother of nandini

i guess this kidnapping track of pushkar will be shown for one month after that nandini will come to know anandi is real mother

after that may be amol return back and cvs may show pooja mannu story once again

i guess when shivam will get furious at nandini or may be try to slap nandini out of anger .anandi will hold hand of shivam and will disclose to shivam that nandini is ur sister .when anandi will come to know that shivam is angry with nandini because he think anandi show more love to nandini .then anandi will reveal truth that nimboli is ur twin sister .anandi will reveal this truth as she cant. see fight between brother and sister

or may be kishore can reveal truth

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