Balika Vadhu Episode Discussion Thread #3 - Page 105

Originally posted by: SPuja

Who is M? Simple - the lady is mother of Nimboli. She gave birth to a child under the Akhera's sword. Anandi's Nandini died that day and Nimboli born.

And I don't think a one year old baby started to cook - not possible for a human baby.

Originally posted by: hisusmita

Who is M? Simple - the lady is mother of Nimboli. She gave birth to a child under the Akhera's sword. Anandi's Nandini died that day and Nimboli born.

And I don't think a one year old baby started to cook - not possible for a human baby.

Originally posted by: hisusmita

What Mangala could do for her girl - she did. Why should we want her to do something beyond her means? It is not a condition that the mother should be able to compare to all other mothers otherwise she is not a mother.

Oh, I forgot, the creatives think differently. What Bhago could not provide - Sumi did - did not Anandi became Sumi's daughter leaving Bhago. So, we should expect Nimboli also will become Anandi's daughter because Anandi can provide much more.

Originally posted by: SPuja

She should not cook at 11 also when mother is there

Harki is such a bad mother but Kamli was studying, not cooking

Originally posted by: hisusmita

I agree A is the worst mother and M is the mother of N

If she is the mother of the child

how Harki dared to burn her hands?

Why the little one had to develop means to tolerate the tortures by holding her fingers tightly

Why she could not save her when Akhi beat her mercilessly

Why she was sleeping with Chagni, the maid for last 11 years?

Why she had to do so much of work where Kamli was studying?

Why she was tied on the tree top whole night? Why the mother was so scared of Akhi and stopped herself to go in her rescue?

Why she didnt tell her to go to school when Kamli was studying?

Why didnt she thought once when she decided that she will live happily with her sauten?

Inspite of so much of love why N was so alone and she sided M with the family and kept herself alone while playing with those stones?

Why she had to do all the cooking at home when the mother is there?

Why she had to clean all the utensils of eveyone?

Why she had to clean all the clothes , even of Urmi's

Why she had to go to vegetable market to buy all stuffs

The mother should understand and do it herself

Now she is running away and she is smart enough , has her own means of knife to protect her from lusty men than why she never thought of her future

Inspite of her being there how can Kundan thought of molesting her, Now dont say she does not know K and his intentions

If she is her daughter why didnt make her understand in her way how to handle Kundan? Knife is never a solution for a child. She could have killed any one and landed in jail.

Why after so much of love she never shared Kamli Gopal thing with her, It came out unintentionally but she never thought of teliing her Teesa.

Why didnt she feed her all these years? Why she gets overwhelmed seeing a mother feeding a daughter, She should be satisfied of supermom M's love

Originally posted by: hisusmita

In villages - girls do cook, even Anandi did. Kamli story has many bloopers - if she was studying - how she could not copy a phone number properly? My point is simple - the girl is Nimboli - Nandini died because of her mother.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Parents are someone who have responsibilities towards children it is not just rights.

Anandi's child was lost when she was out on a dangerous mission. She did not give up her child to anyone to look after.

She had been searching for the child all these years.This should be be believes because it was told through a few scenes as well as conversations.

If people can believe that Mangala changed the diapers of Nandini even when no such scenes has been shown the fact that Anandi has been searching for her child should be believed too.

If she wants to claim rights she should take up responsibility too. What responsibility did she take all these years?

Now she knows that Anandi is the mother of the child and is wilfully coming in between mother and child

Anandi's stand has been clear - she appreciates Mangala's role in her daughter's life but that doesn't mean she should share her daughter with her.

Mangala is no mother to that child and neither does her so called love seems motherly. It is absolutely sickening to watch her.

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Anandi's stand had been same. She was upset when Mangala ran away with the child and knows that the lady loves her daughter very much. She was right in getting angry with that woman when she said to her that she cannot meet her daughter and staked ownership over her daughter.

Even in this episode - the stand had been same - Just that it is expressed in a more vocal manner.

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Meenu Ira Shiv - Meenu gifted her kid to Ira. But when the truth came out Shiv had been a mature man and he had been his own man with an identity that is made by himself.It didnt matter to him who is choti maa and who is badi maa or who is maa and who is chotimaa same thing with the fathers as well. They are just two sets of parents.

Mannu - He was very young and the truth came out in a manner which shouldn't have come out. Understandably a lot of damage has been done in his journey to find himself. Ratan gave up his rights in the interest of his own child. Jagya did feel insecure but he wanted Ganga to tell the truth to Mannu. Insecurity would not have stopped Jagya.

Here Anandi has not abanndoned her daughter nor did she give her way.Sow why should she share with anyone? Why is obliged to share her daughter with Mangala that too when the grounds on which Mangala is claiming her flimsy?

Amol - He was legally adopted. When the parents came looking for him Orphanage did the necessary verifications and then only informed Anandi. The child's parents were searching for that child.She told Amol he should give them a chance. It is the parents of Amol who did not want him at that time but he eventually went to them out of his own volition Anandi did not stop him.

If Anandi respected the rights of the parents of that child who has been searching for their child for so many years she has every right to expect Mangala to respect her rights over the child.

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Mangala feeling insecure in understandable but her behaviour is unacceptable.

Her claims as mother have a hollow ring to it.

Originally posted by: saaniakh

I just wish they make Anant marry Mangla n take her far away she will get ready made daughter Nidhi too this way we can get rid of unwanted characters taking the screen space while leads r standing helpless crying