Sick with this type of mentality!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Some people blame the wife/ woman when she loses her husband/ man calling her ashubh etc.

They say her fate killed her husband, her stars are not good, she has some dosh etc etc but how does this affect the life of another person??
Though man and woman are united through marriage each has their own fate and will be effected by it.

Why don't they understand if a person is destined to live he will live come what may. Also if a person is destined to become a widow it will happen no matter what. Why link these two and blame the spouse ? .

I've seen such type of comments for Anandi elsewhere and it happens in real life also, mostly in case of women. Not just outsiders but some relatives and friends do it though not on face they pass unpleasant remarks behind them. Why people judge and criticize these faultless victims?


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Originally posted by: Stalwart.


Some people blame the wife/ woman when she loses her husband/ man calling her ashubh etc.

They say her fate killed her husband, her stars are not good, she has some dosh etc etc but how does this affect the life of another person??
Though man and woman are united through marriage each has their own fate and will be effected by it.

Why don't they understand if a person is destined to live he will live come what may. Also if a person is destined to become a widow it will happen no matter what. Why link these two and blame the spouse ? .

I've seen such type of comments for Anandi elsewhere and it happens in real life also, mostly in case of women. Not just outsiders but some relatives and friends do it though not on face they pass unpleasant remarks behind them. Why people judge and criticize these faultless victims?



I think they do it cause it makes them feel they are lucky/better than the other person. I pity such people who derive pleasure in belittling faultless victims. It shows that they do not have anything better to do in life. and that's the only way they could pass some time and make themselves feel better.

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