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Muktchand

@Muktchand

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Posted: 10 years ago

#211

yah isn't people complian DS didn't bother about Abhi & for Shivam to have prasad , she went SN without eating herself

uff DS her fav and all ... Logic was given by people only

hence state if Anandi Shivam move out that does not mean they are out of DS list of family ...

Wow when scene air DS been bashed for her act ... Saying DS never bother about Abhi or JaGan kids who are they ...etc etc ...

so strange logic

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Muktchand

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Posted: 10 years ago

#212

yes DS Anandi relation can't be compare with Mannu & Jagya... Ofcourse DS guilt her own sin ... DS herself made Anandi as her legal heir ...

wonder why don't Jagya come up with idea of adopting Mannu instead of Ganga ...

Anandi came up with idea of adoption making Shiv deprived for his own kids , then Ganga for own kid ask Jagya to adopt ...why ? Ganga don't trust DS Jagya kya... I m sure Jagya would have done same ...but Ganga seems to be in hurry ... She wanted Abhi Mannu is same position in BH

selfish act ... Anandi insist for orphan Ganga for her own kid

Edited by blushing - 10 years ago

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#213

Originally posted by: blushing
yes DS Anandi relation can't be compare with Mannu & Jagya... Ofcourse DS guilt her own sin ... DS herself made Anandi as her legal heir ...

wonder why don't Jagya come up with idea of adopting Mannu instead of Ganga ...

Anandi came up with idea of adoption making Shiv deprived for his own kids , then Ganga for own kid ask Jagya to adopt ...why ? Ganga don't trust DS Jagya kya... I m sure Jagya would have done same ...but Ganga seems to be in hurry ... She wanted Abhi Mannu is same position in BH

selfish act ... Anandi insist for orphan Ganga for her own kid

So true. Anandi was bashed for wanting to adopt an orphan and it was said that she didn't want to be a mother and she didn't want to give birth to Shiv's children deprived Shiv the privilege of becoming a father blah blah such a heartless woman she was.

When Shiv clearly said that he wants to be the father of Anandi's children. It didn't matter to him whether those kids are adopted or biological. After all why would he make a distinction between adopted kid and biological kid? Wasn't he adopted by his uncle and aunt? Did they make any distinction between him and Sanchi?

Ganga the moment she got married Jagya she wanted Jagya's name as father in Mannu's school admission form when Mannu had a father already and she got custody of her child still she wanted Jagya to adopt Mannu when it wouldn't have made any difference to Jagya because Jagya loved him like Mannu was his own kid.

So much for Ganga's seflessness

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dolly

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Posted: 10 years ago

#214

ganga wanted J's name 4 mannu then wats wrong in that?? hows that not selflessness or hows that selfishness. ganga only raised the issue bcoz she wanted 2 happen it ASAP so that later on there will b no complications & moreover both JaGan were bcuming more busy so she doesn't wnat2 linge ron. its not that she din't trust DS or J. and also ratan mite b in jial but still he was considered as father.

why shud mannu retain the monster father's name?? which gud & true mother wants that her kid will b known as son of a criminal & rapist so that her kid will hav 2 listen the taunts abt being a son of rapist & criminal.

and J din't cum up wid the idea of adoption bcoz he was more busy & also that he always considered mannu as his own son but ganga was afraid of ratan singh that he mite again snatch mannu as she'd experience of it not once but twice. so she wanted 2 b safe legally.oderwis eshe always trusted J & Ds. and its not that she wanted mannu & abhi in same position in BH.

and waise wats wrong in that even if she wanted that 2 tho its not shown in the serial?? kids r equal 4 every mother so they want them 2 hav equal rites. wats wrong in it??

and she wanted mannu 2 b known as mahendra jagdeesh singh bcoz if he wudn't'd adopted legally he wud'd known as ratan's son only & was mentioned by it by all ppl.and no mother wud ever want their kids 2 b known as a criminal's kids 4 their well being even if its 4 shorter time but wid legal adoption ppl start thinking differently. it has happened & happens in real life also.

so ganga was not wrong if she wanted mannu 2 b adopted legally by J ASAP.she wanted 2 secure mannu's future saans ratan's shadow on him.and she worshiped J bcoz he gave her new life & also luved mannu selflessly which ratan never did.

he never luved mannu wen ganga was living wid them. if he ever cared abt him he wud'd allowed ganga 2 feed mannu & wudn't'd scolded 4 leaving work 2 feed him & wud'd asked his parents 2 not 2 stop her from feeding him. and he alongwid his parents & 3rd wife were planning2 kill of both mother & son once padma delivered a male heir.they were waiting 4 that.its only gud luck of mannu that padma delivered a gal & mannu got importance in ratan's family.

Aji wanted 2 adopt a kid nothing wrong but wen shiv was asking her 2 hav her own kids then why this condn 1st we"ll adopt then kid then hav our own kids? if she wudn't'd been able 2 conceive and asking shiv widout telling him that he mite feel sad i wud'd understood but why she wanted 1st 2 adopt then hav her own kid.this is selfishness not thinking of shiv's feelings.she cud'd said yes we"ll hav our own kid but we"ll also adopt a kid. and wen she adopted the kid then again she put a condn we won't hav our kid till maol gets allrite. is it not foolishness & heartlessness??amol cud'd taken many yrs 2 get well so shiv shud wait 4 her??so as i said all shud toe her line even if its illogical & foolishness.

so much 4 the selflessness of the great Aji

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Muktchand

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Posted: 10 years ago

#215

When did Anandi put that condition ...😕 Anandi told its her & Shiv's decision ... its DB who taunt Anandi

later on Shiv too said same while confronting DB that its their on decision to have kids or not

its not Anandi's alone decision atleast there was no scene shown where Anandi asking Shiv not have kids till Amol walks...

Anandi told Shiv & her joint decision

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hisusmita

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Posted: 10 years ago

#216

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Anandi became refugee the day Jagya left her😆🤣

The day Jagya left her, Jagya became refugee . I cant forget the scene when the beggar was offering Jagya a burger and when Jagya got angry the beggar said, ea to mujhse bhi bada bhikari hai

Anandi is not like Ganga. came to BH and chipkofied with Jagya like leech.

Singhs brought Anandi as their bahu with all the respect , dignity and love. No one thopoed Anandi on Jagya. If that can be said same thing can be said for Anandi. Becoz its Anandi who was deprived of her studies, lost her childhood.

If Anandi was thopoed by the family on Jagya's head why Jagya came running to Anandi in disguise to meet her. They had their honeymoon happily ,

Its only when the glitter of city life attracted Jagya he found Anandi useless and ran after Gouri.

But such a big refugee was he that he decided to live in with Gouri but didnt have the capacity to maintain his illegal married life. He again needed Anandi's help to get money.

Jagya abandoned her, but that way Jagya proved he was a two timer. adultery cant be an excuse for BalVivah. The way he humiliated, insulted, made her feel worthless is too mean.

He may have left Anandi ,But in that way Anandi's relation that was formed with Singhs since she was 8 years cant be ignored. That bond formed with Ma and bapusa is valuable. Why for their worthless son Singhs will leave their daughter who looked after them when their son felt ashamed of telling his friends that he belongs to a village and even didnt disclose his identity.

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Muktchand

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Posted: 10 years ago

#217

when adoption topic came

Anandi did not say we will adopt first then we will have own kids

Anandi said with time they will bless with kid , to become parents having own kid is not necessary ...

she doesn't want to wait till they have their own kids

this is exact dialogue

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Awfulggt

@Awfulggt

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Posted: 10 years ago

#218

Originally posted by: blushing
when adoption topic came
Anandi did not say we will adopt first then we will have own kids

Anandi said with time they will bless with kid , to become parents having own kid is not necessary ...

she doesn't want to wait till they have their own kids

this is exact dialogue

even if she said that, it can't be wrong. There are couples I know who think the same. One of them get the idea first, then they share it with the partner...and if partner also likes the idea , they go for it. It is simple. Shiv liked the idea and wanted to adopt a kid too...why is this even a point of discussion?

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#219

Originally posted by: blushing
When did Anandi put that condition ...😕 Anandi told its her & Shiv's decision ... its DB who taunt Anandi

later on Shiv too said same while confronting DB that its their on decision to have kids or not

its not Anandi's alone decision atleast there was no scene shown where Anandi asking Shiv not have kids till Amol walks...

Anandi told Shiv & her joint decision

Actually when they first discussed this adoption issue - She told him she wanted adopt. Shiv said yes immediately but asked why she decided not to wait for her own kids before adopting. She just said let the kids come in their own time meanwhile she found this boy whom she wanted to bring into their life.

Later on they decided to focus on Amol give him all their attention and time.Just like many parents decide to have a gap between first child and a second child.

If Amol was their biological child and had needed special care wouldn't they have waited for Amol to become more independent before they had their next child?

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Muktchand

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Posted: 10 years ago

#220

Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.

even if she said that, it can't be wrong. There are couples I know who think the same. One of them get the idea first, then they share it with the partner...and if partner also likes the idea , they go for it. It is simple. Shiv liked the idea and wanted to adopt a kid too...why is this even a point of discussion?

since people are feeling sorry for Shiv since cruel Anandi made him deprived from having kids of his own

Well both ladies Anandi & Ganga are first one to suggest regarding adoption, their respective hubby agree with them

So why Shiv been deprived ... Just like Jagya he too agrees with his wife ...

only difference Anandi was talking about ab orphan kid Ganga was talking about her own kid ...simple

How come Jagya's yes is different than Shiv's ...

Fact remain Jagya did not come up with idea of adopting Mannu legally... Jagta already feels treat Mannu as his own son ...

Similarly Shiv too have desire having own kids but he too agree with Anandi... Later on Amol becomes part AnSh life