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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

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If anandi had been in ganga's place, she would have started feeling guilty that she married Jagya second time in haste.

Now as many members have pointed out, will anandi feel guilty that ganga and actually Jagya are in this position because of her also? Sometimes acts done with good intentions but in haste will also have consequences.

I know I have defended anandi because she was the messenger and it is not fair to shoot the messenger.




Anandi shouldn't feel guilty at all. She should be happy that J didn't go for an arranged marriage on listening to her. . Here J-ganga loved each other and married caring two hoots about everyone else. So they are on their own. Not just anandi, even DS need not feel guilty about J's 3 rd marriage. He never listened to them for them to feel guilty.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya

Gauri's track is only to make the mahan into super-mahan... she has so much trust in her husband that even gauri cannot separate her from him.. this is the moral of the story... yawn...🥱

What anandi could not do, this super-mahan will do very easily ... yawn...🥱



Lol . The clones exceeding anandi in being mahaan. Anandi will cry out of happiness 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: aparnauma


</div>Disappointment for Gauri but why does she want to get back to him after all this?
<div>Does she really think that her life with Jagya beats anything else she can have in life?

Did he ever give her any mental peace and happiness in life and she thought Anandi is lucky that she got Jagya backin her life 🤢

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<div>If she thinks being with Jagya is the best thing for her then nothing can stop her from self destuction



Totally agree Aparna. Gauri is such a nut. on one hand she hates him , on the other hand the directors make her say that the girl who married him is the lucky one. I hope the directors recheck dialogues and edit them.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ganga could convince Jagya because :

A) She is secure about her status as Jagya's wife. She has got the love and respect of everyone as J's wife.

B) Jagya himself opposed the idea of concealing his marital status to Gauri. If Jagya would have got ready to do the "natak" instantly then it's unlikely Ganga would have liked it.

Gauri was unhappy when Jagya was doing the natak for Bademasi and though she did play along with Jagya but finally blurted out everything because :

A) She was always insecure about her status as J's wife as their relationship was illegal one.
B) She found Jagya to be happily doing the hubby-wife drama with Anandi which hurt her and made her more insecure.

Ganga is not insecure about Anandi because -

a) Ganga is indebted to Anandi for helping her to get out of her wretched life.
b) Ganga knows that Anandi is too happy with her life and will never run after Jagya - in fact it was Anandi who has rejected Jagya.

Ganga is insecure about Gauri because:

a) Ganga knows that Jagya left Gauri and Gauri has not forgotten the pain.
b) Ideally the Singh family should have made an attempt to reunite Gauri Jagya after Anandi's marriage with Shiv. Gauri did lie to Jagya or insulted Singh family but then Jagya has made many mistakes too! Even Dadisa lied when she felt necessary for Anandi's happiness!

Singh family had always spoke about "neeti" and "forgiveness", they should have accepted gauri to correct things of the past. Bhairon even mentioned about it but Dadisa was too keen in keeping her ladesar in Jetsar and did not approve it.

It's not about Gauri being bad or Anandi being good - Gauri never "snatched" Jagya from Anandi - Jagya himself went to her and she was just being possessive and insecure about her relationship considering the numerous factors which we all know - once Jagya left Gauri for Anandi, did Gauri run after him ? NO! In fact she refused to meet him and Ganga knew everything very well.

Somewhere down the line, Ganga knows that Gauri got the worst deal in this whole fiasco and hence Ganga is insecure that Jagya's guilt and Gauri's obsession for Jagya might be a trigger for them to come close.
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Nice post.

@blue above - true. Gauri did not snatched Jagya from Anandi, but she was partner in crime because she did not leave Jagya even after knowing that he is married. Jagya was the bigger culprit - but Gauri cannot absolve herself of wrecking havoc in an innocent girl's (Anandi) life.

@bold blue - I do not think Ganga will feel insecure. But if she is actually a good person - she will surely feel bad for what Jagya and Singhs did to Gauri. If someone knows that his/her family has done injustice to another person - he/she will feel guilty even if they cannot express it openly. Perhaps Ganga is going through all this even though she says "aapki kya galati".
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Posted: 11 years ago
Gauri is clear case of obsessed lover...she hung up on J so badly
Now after its revealed that not only A but J also moved on happily with Ganga surely it will hit hard for Gauri
Gauri shd furious on her parents as well as Shivani for hiding this from her
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: blushing

Gauri is clear case of obsessed lover...she hung up on J so badly

Now after its revealed that not only A but J also moved on happily with Ganga surely it will hit hard for Gauri
Gauri shd furious on her parents as well as Shivani for hiding this from her



anandi also took years to get over Jagya and so is gauri. Sanchi became neurotic over Jagya for some time and Kabra saved her in time. Ganga, knowing everything gladly accepted Jagya.

Kuch baat to hain Jagya mein.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: atominis

Why the hell should Anandi feel guilty in this mess?😲

She has nothing to do with it.

It is problem of DS and Jagya only.

There is a perception that Anandi is wrong because she didn't insist on Jagya tying up the lose ends before forcing third marriage on him.
I still don't understand how that is Anandi's fault. She was only asking him to do what the family wanted of him.
Obviously had it been legal they would have gotten divorce since it is not legal a proper closure was required from both sides and it is the business of the couple and no one else's.

One more thing if Jagya felt that she is forcing him he could have very well told Anandi off.He gave into her because HE WANTED TO.
Edited by aparnauma - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
@leaves A took time becoz she was victim
here Gauri does not feel she done any mistake only J is wrong
even J exposed her then leave her Gauri blame J she did not feel guilty or blame herself
this will take more time to heal...Gauri soon landed in mental hospital...if her obsession take over her completely
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: saba113

ganga insecure of Gauri 🤣Ganga is not insecure of Gauri but Gauri will soon get 440 volt shock Ganga is Jagya's wife and Gauri 's dream shattered again to be Badi haveli ki beendini🤣

I don't think Ganga is insecure of Gauri😆 May be she is feeling awkward After all who will love to see any woman lovingly holding hands of her husband or perhaps poor Ganga is confused as how biggest victim of my husband just a day ago was hating him to the core for his bewafai now so soon holding hands with just one announcement he is not with Anandi and all hatred gone Gauri thinks she can become haveli ki beendini her childhood dream so showering love on Jagya now Kya aurat hai😆

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: aparnauma

There is a perception that Anandi is wrong because she didn't insist on Jagya tying up the lose ends before forcing third marriage on him.
I still don't understand how that is Anandi's fault. She was only asking him to do what the family wanted of him.
Obviously had it been legal they would have gotten divorce since it is not legal a proper closure was required from both sides and it is the business of the couple and no one else's.

One more thing if Jagya felt that she is forcing him he could have very well told Anandi off.He gave into her because HE WANTED TO.

bold completely wrong He gave into because she hit him on his guilt towards her not that he wanted to He didn't go beg to her come force me she again and again hit him on his guilt to force him to agree not indirectly but directly , making him feel he will do very wrong to her and his family if he didn't agree to her unfair demands

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