ganga convinces Jagya but starts feeling insecure - Page 17

Originally posted by: tiny15

I agree wid u. A was vicim & not gauri. she was partner in crime.

@bold i agree. even tho in whole of jagya -gauri fiasco in past both r 2 b blamed but here diff. lies that Jagya accepted his lies & misdeeds (if we r talking abt his 5yrs. lie 2 gauri)& gauri 4gave him but after that he didn't do anything bad 2 her or lied on every step or tried 2 separate he r from he r parents tho he never liked them.but gauri lied on ever step after he rmrg, put false balmes on his family & esply anandi & also tried 2 separate him from them.and wen she was exposed she didn't accept it as her misdeeds & asked 4giveness but rather accepted it like she'd done sumthing rite & is proud of it & instead of asking 4giveness 4 all her lies she taunted him 2 go back 2 his family. i think that was the thing which made Jagya go back 2 his family & thinking that anandi mite b waiting 4 him.

and thatswhy we say jagya is much better than her as he not accepted but realized his misdeeds/sins & also repented & redeemed genuinely & also took responsibility of his misdeeds on himself & still saying i m 2 nblam ewhile gauri is still not out of ehr self-pity & self-victimization mode.

Originally posted by: Missesha

I think like Puja said in one of her posts in some other thread, that serials run on misunderstanding and not clarifying facts upfront.

Why should Gauri build hopes of patching up with the guy, who dumped her twice? Hasn't she had enough? She is already building hopes based on her assumption instead of checking what J up to was in past 2 years. She is a fool.

And why should J not be upfront about his current status to G. The situation demands and he should tell. He should not give in to Shivani's pleas and Ganga should stop being mahaan.

Coming to Anandi, I don't hold her responsible for J's third marriage. I only had this one complaint for her. That is when she took the responsibility to see that J marries once again for his own / family's happiness, why did she write off Gauri as a possible bride? Why didn't she feel that, like J, G too has made mistakes and may have redeemed. Why she didn't give her a chance? By chance, I mean persuading J to re-think about G rather than assuming it is closed and bringing in a third bride. And this is because Anandi as a character cares for everyone and sometimes over cares, but does not undermine anyone. I couldn't have expected the same from DS or Sumitra.

Also it is not morally right to walk off on someone because there was no legal binding. J-G lived as man and wife in every sense (minus the papers) and therefore Singhs should have thought of G on moral grounds since they had accepted their son back and forgiven him. But they somehow wanted to get rid of her.

Having said that, the way J married dramatically, without anyone's approval; Anandi or Ds or anyone had no control over it. So A should not feel guilty. However A's worries for only JaGan and not G, does come across as partiality at this point. Time will tell more.

Originally posted by: blushing

she is always like this she has not changed at all...Shivani knew this that's why Ganga's presence in J life as wife needs to be revealed asap...

Gauri is only happy to know A is not in J's life...I hope Gauri will ask J whether he move on after A being married to Shiv.

Gauri knew J leave after knowing her true color so how can she expect him to be waited for her..ideally Gauri shd ask J Did he move on like A

agree completely.and i think shivani shudn't'd asked this favour from J,singhs & ganga.

Originally posted by: blushing

she is always like this she has not changed at all...Shivani knew this that's why Ganga's presence in J life as wife needs to be revealed asap...

Gauri is only happy to know A is not in J's life...I hope Gauri will ask J whether he move on after A being married to Shiv.

Gauri knew J leave after knowing her true color so how can she expect him to be waited for her..ideally Gauri shd ask J Did he move on like A

bang on Gauri always knew Jagya will hate me if my acts are revealed to him Doing each misdeed she knew he will not like this , it will hurt him , he will be angry She herself knew my acts are worth of trashing me thats why she was so scared my truth should not come out and on that day it wasn't he who first broke it was she challenging him go to Jaitsar and cry in your mother's lap i don't care wherever you go Why she was angry when she always knew i was wrong ? She never remembered he left me First thought that came on her mind after they broke was challenge with Sumitra

Originally posted by: tiny15

agree completely.and i think shivani shudn't'd asked this favour from J,singhs & ganga.

bcoz a sjagya said wat if she came 2 know later on won't her health affect.gauri is not lying on death bed that she"ll die if hear abt J's mrg.

@bold agree. i think thatswhy she 4gav ehim & ready 2 move on tho don't know i've feeling that she must'd heard abt ganga being his wife wen J intro her 2 gauri's parents & shivani.

@bold blue yeah why was she expecting that he"ll wait 4 her wen she herself asked him 2 go away. J also did same wen he came back 2 A but atleast even during that period he accepted his faults & alos blamed himself which gauri never did.

atleast jagya came out of self-pity & victimization more much earlier than gauri.

Originally posted by: jermey1

Just some questions i am really confused if Gauri had really redeemed won't she be approaching Jagya herself and asking forgiveness for what she has done ? What kind of redemption is this twice rejecting him off after separation so what could possibly Singhs and Anandi do here ? How can they hope she will be reunited with him and make Jagya keep taking rounds and rounds of her May be madam great would have redeemed or one day will ?Why would Jagya expect reunion with that woman who thrice rejected him and has no ounce of shame to accept her misdeeds neither want reunion because she lost a challenge ? Even now here she hated him to the core and melted as soon as she knew he is not with Anandi means she can still get what she wanted from childhood and its a coinicedence she landed in here she never had any intention What a love , that woman loved Jagya as per revenge on his family when wanted revenge and seems succeeding i love you when failed go away i don't care so why Singhs and Anandi should force him to be with Gauri ?

Singhs knew that Guari was insecured because of Anandi's status in J's / Singh's life. So when Anandi was not in picture anymore, then why couldn't they think of giving her a chance. The problem is that Singhs thought G was the only one who was at fault in all this and now that J has come back, he should never go back to her.

Originally posted by: blushing

I think that time Channel CV were completely forgot about Gauri & so much in hurry bring Ganga in J life 😛 I think PS wanted Anjum to comes back...that time its was not possible so Channel introduce Ganga now Channel again bring back Gauri with new face. 😃

poor writers in Channel's mess they suffered most ...writing most absurd character like Sanchi as replacement of Gauri 😡 now Gauri herself landed 😆

well it was clear to us from a long time Jagya Gauri will break up no reunion so i don't think Ganga's entry is due to Anjum's exit Many people here predicted before hand when Ganga was not even in serial and we didn't know Anjum is leaving forever there will be another woman in Jagya's life who will be his eternal soul mate and i was one among those people😆it was not pure guess work it was analyzing

Even Sanchi's folks never asked Jagya about gauri and what if gauri comes back.

They were in a hurry to fulfil their laadli's wishes.

Ideally shiv or alok should have gone to Mumbai because he is entrusting his precious sister with someone whose status is still unclear.

Ira was so taken up with her laadli that she forgot so many things which a normal parent would have looked into.

Some folks here want a repeat of Jagya gauri closing their bedroom door on Anandi with Ganga in Gauri's place and Gauri in A's place.

Wah what fun! It is Jagya who always gets to shut the bedroom door with different women inside and different women standing outside! It truly is a man's world.

Esha, agree with you. My rant is the same : that BH peeps and A never even thought of Gauri when arranging J's 3rd match. This is totally unrealistic. At least discuss Gauri and dismiss her. They just took advantage of the law and pretended she didn't exist.

In today's world even a live-in relationship cannot be broken like this. For the simple reason that then men will keep abandoning women with no accountability. One half of the couple is distraught and pining and the other half remarries with no thought to the past.

Originally posted by: blushing

well J comes out that phase becoz he saw AnSh were rock solid even his tactics and DS emotional blackmailing can't separate them

J saw A throw all old belongings give clear message that she move on even Shiv get that assurance from A time to time. Shiv also asked her to reconsider A clearly said NO.

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here complication is worst becoz Gauri is not aware of Ganga J relationship.

agree but J came out of self-victimzn mode b4 amnesia drama itself. he blamed himself 4 his misdeeds & clearly said wat hes getting is due 2 him only & is deserving also. even after he saw anandi wid shiv & came 2 know abt their wedding he didn't try 2 go back 2 her but wanted only 4giveness. and wen he didn't get then he went in2 revenge mode. don't know why CVs did that?? he still thot that hes responsible 4 all his miseries unlike gauri tho he wanted revenge from anandi 4 not waiting 4 him.