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aparnauma

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
They may stay there for a while and their for a while outing may turn out to be as long as saurabh's bail outing.😆

The brief appearance of amol was good. Hope DB will forget to torture him as she now had a different target.

DB's torture won't work on Amol now.Amol learnt to handle her.He just turns other way and gets on with his life.She spoiled the ice cream he was making for his dad instead of sitting and crying he made himself busy by preparing the ice cream all over again.😆

He turned out to be Anandi's beta and most adorable clone of Anandi.😉😆

He doesn't let her scare him anymore😃

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Men are different. their cruelty lies in their indifference It may not be physical but it can inflict everlasting wounds

Their indifference cannot be equated with the strong wish to kill a baby and its mother and planning that way and waiting and waiting for the news of their death . What do indifferent men do . They outgrow a woman , like another one and ask for a divorce . Sometimes the wife has kids sometimes she does not . Wives suffer coz they cannot accept that the man has moved on emotionally . Here i am not at all talking of Jagya and Anandi , totally in general as this statement interested me . A lot of their emotional suffering is their own doing . Coz they choose to wallow in self pity and past memories and refuse to accept a basic fact of life ...change . The want for change .

Want for the death of someone is a totally different ball game altogether .

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Missesha

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Posted: 11 years ago

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If wishes were true beggars would ride horses.

While wishing for someone's death is completely evil, life or death does not happen based on a person's wish.

If Ganga was to die she would have died anyways, but because she was destined to live, nothing wrong happened to her.

The point of forgiveness does not arrive from the magnitude of the crime, it comes because someone made an effort to change, to seek forgiveness, because they realised they were at fault and because they are no longer harming anyone with a malicious intent.

Those are exactly the reasons why Jagya, Ratan, Ds or others were forgiven.

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swathimanjula69

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Posted: 11 years ago

#44

100% true. she should Explode like this to Saurab. then things will fall on right track. will not be any melodrama's at kabra house

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SPuja

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Missesha
So are Gulli-hardik, now going to be extended members of KB parivar, and rest there forever?

Looks like KB has become dharam-shaala. First DB comes, then her pota and bahu.

Hardik also had the audacity to marry a girl, without ensuring his own accomodation, job and means to earn a living.

To top it all members of BH, AnSh and Gulli's grandparents, were happy at the thought they got a saviour to marry their ababdoned daughter in the same mandap. But did anyone really think about the future of this girl with a guy who has broken ties with his parents, has no job of his own, and was hoping to live-off with his grandmother, who apparently is living off her brother's earnings.

Seriously getting a girl married is so important in BV. Not her future.

That is why I called this track as regressive. Creatives failed to show where Hardik stands - is he employed and came to India to bond with his dadi (though he looks young like a student) or if he is still studying or he has any professional qualification etc. Apart from Hardik's spontaneous decision for such a life changing thing like marriage - the audacity of elders and Anandi/Shiv was more surprising. Hardik's parents were not even contacted on phone and even KB people do not know that Shiv has assured Gulli's grandparents (not sure of wordings) that Gulli will live in KB/welcomed in KB - he is suddenly taking a big decision (without asking his grandfather or parents) overruling the nearest relative (present there) of Hardik😕. Everybody gave utmost importance to immediate marriage just because the boy and girl wanted to marry each other. Saas-bahu has now become favorite topic for creatives.

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SPuja

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Posted: 11 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Men are different. their cruelty lies in their indifference It may not be physical but it can inflict everlasting wounds

Their indifference cannot be equated with the strong wish to kill a baby and its mother and planning that way and waiting and waiting for the news of their death . What do indifferent men do . They outgrow a woman , like another one and ask for a divorce . Sometimes the wife has kids sometimes she does not . Wives suffer coz they cannot accept that the man has moved on emotionally . Here i am not at all talking of Jagya and Anandi , totally in general as this statement interested me . A lot of their emotional suffering is their own doing . Coz they choose to wallow in self pity and past memories and refuse to accept a basic fact of life ...change . The want for change .

Want for the death of someone is a totally different ball game altogether .

I am surprised - is it so simple!! Women are like old clothes or toys - outgrow one and go for the other. And the wife has to accept that the man wants change. What if she is a simple unemployed housewife? What if she has emotionally invested too much in the relationship and the man thinks it is just a time pass? The emotional suffering is wrong, the philandering is right?

Compared to this wishing bad -even death for someone is nothing, unless the one wishing is the God himself. We cannot do anything by just wishing - it just show how low our thinking is.

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 11 years ago

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The point of forgiveness does not arrive from the magnitude of the crime,

Beg to differ , it DOES influence the attitude or wish of the one who decides to forgive . For instance the parents of those who have lost their children to serial killers indulging in necrophilia can be frozen in grief although they have been religious catholics and consistently learnt the value of forgiveness in sunday church . At the same time if the severity of the crime is different ...if they have lost their kid to some practical thoughtless prank of another college kid who did it with the sheer inexperience of youth , at a certain point in their life they CAN bring about to forgive . Again , not about the serial , in general , my observation .

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 11 years ago

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I am surprised - is it so simple!! Women are like old clothes or toys - outgrow one and go for the other. And the wife has to accept that the man wants change. What if she is a simple unemployed housewife? What if she has emotionally invested too much in the relationship and the man thinks it is just a time pass? The emotional suffering is wrong, the philandering is right?

Er ...said none of this .

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tinoo

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Posted: 11 years ago

#49

I don't know why the track is considered regressive.

In a country where there are many unfortunate rape victims... Who will face difficulties in getting married despite there being no fault of hers... Hardik comes across as a refreshing role model for young men... His lines that day "I am not looking at her past, I want to look at her future, our future" were beautiful and the message of the day. Gulli is not at fault that she was conceived out of wedlock either...and that she doesn't have a father to give her a name...yet people ostracise her for that too. We can't control whom we are born to.

Within that context, hardiks act is a wonderful example of how a man should appreciate a girl for her inner beauty and her qualities and values...as opposed to peripheral external issues which the girl has no control over.

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SPuja

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Nothing wrong in the marriage and Hardik's gesture - I am tired of clarifying this again and again. He seems to be not caring for his parents or his grandmother - just his own wish. Unless and until Hardik is employed - this gives a wrong message that marriage can be done as and when one likes - elders like Shakhers are there to take care of their livelihood. There was no emergency to marry like that. Shakhers are not his family - I hope Hardik and Gulli will stay at KB for just a short time and then go on to make their own home.

By the way I have not heard of any marriage where the boy's side or girl's side do not know each other and the boy and girl met just two-three days before and got married.

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