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Posted: 11 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I am ready to be flexible and see some light even in the darkest corners. If we can forgive Jagya, why not sanchi?

bold ... is this a reason to forgive her ? 😕 This woman Sanchi has been cruel enough to wish death of babies in mother's womb Jagya was never heartless He was a fool with the way he handled things in the past while he had clear ways but he was not heartless or cruel This woman has been inhuman with the way she tried to malign characters of victims she knew Ganga has been victim of Ratan Singh 's brutality still she was blaming her , wishing deaths of unborn babies , mean and nasty to children and which good work she really did equal to Jagya Nothing ? Which mistake of her she anyway tried to rectify Nothing so how this comparison is made if we can forgive Jagya then why not Sanchi?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32
What's wrong if people can forgive Saanchi? If Ratan, Ds, J, basant, Gauri etc can be forgiven then why not Saanchi?
Forgiving someone is a personal choice. Why should any member be questioned if they choose to forgive Saanchi?

If they had a heart to forgive Jagya and others, then why should they be questioned on forgiving Saanchi?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Jagya too has been quite inhuman in the way he behaved with Anandi. He humiliated her in front of all his friends by introducing her as a distant relative. He insulted her feelings time and again. He ruthlessly broke up with Anandi, who was his wife for 12 to 15 years. He walked in with a new bride. He dared to celebrate his first night over Anandi's tears and closed the door on her face. He ruthlessly blamed Anandi for the loss of his child.
If the above Jagya can be forgiven, whose deeds made Anandi a living corpse then Saanch too can be forgiven. After all, no one had to suffer for Saanchi's deeds accept Saanchi herself.

Jagya still managed to marry Ganga, got freed of court case and even both his children are fine.

While due to Jagya's wrong deeds Anandi had to suffer so much.

Saanchi is still paying price of her stupidity by putting up with her rapist in the same house.

So if anyone wishes to forgive Sa then, why are they questioned?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Missesha

So are Gulli-hardik, now going to be extended members of KB parivar, and rest there forever?

Looks like KB has become dharam-shaala. First DB comes, then her pota and bahu.
Hardik also had the audacity to marry a girl, without ensuring his own accomodation, job and means to earn a living.
To top it all members of BH, AnSh and Gulli's grandparents, were happy at the thought they got a saviour to marry their ababdoned daughter in the same mandap. But did anyone really think about the future of this girl with a guy who has broken ties with his parents, has no job of his own, and was hoping to live-off with his grandmother, who apparently is living off her brother's earnings.
Seriously getting a girl married is so important in BV. Not her future.


@bold - Is that true?😲 Never thought he's a parasite. When he said he left his parents and has only DB now, I assumed it was for moral support, and not a full fledged financial support. I still hope, what I assumed was right cause otherwise it will look really ODD to see him living with Gulli in Anandi's house. They never even met him till a few days ago😕.

On a lighter note, I often wonder what made him love DB so much
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.


@bold - Is that true?😲 Never thought he's a parasite. When he said he left his parents and has only DB now, I assumed it was for moral support, and not a full fledged financial support. I still hope, what I assumed was right cause otherwise it will look really ODD to see him living with Gulli in Anandi's house. They never even met him till a few days ago😕.

On a lighter note, I often wonder what made him love DB so much

I also hope what you assumed is right. But the fact that they are all going to KB for now makes me think, they may settle there forever. I am not sure though.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: kikyo

bold ... is this a reason to forgive her ? 😕 This woman Sanchi has been cruel enough to wish death of babies in mother's womb Jagya was never heartless He was a fool with the way he handled things in the past while he had clear ways but he was not heartless or cruel This woman has been inhuman with the way she tried to malign characters of victims she knew Ganga has been victim of Ratan Singh 's brutality still she was blaming her , wishing deaths of unborn babies , mean and nasty to children and which good work she really did equal to Jagya Nothing ? Which mistake of her she anyway tried to rectify Nothing so how this comparison is made if we can forgive Jagya then why not Sanchi?



Kikyo, everyone made mistakes. Male and female reactions to certain situations are different. Some women are very passionate and crazy that they cant take No. And souten jealousy is a trait some women go to any extreme. Men are different. their cruelty lies in their indifference It may not be physical but it can inflict everlasting wounds. We just cannot brush someone's mistakes lightly just because we like them while making a different set of rules for others. What is welcome is change and change should be welcomed. Whether we like it or not. Do we want sanchi to be nasty forever?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: Missesha

What's wrong if people can forgive Saanchi? If Ratan, Ds, J, basant, Gauri etc can be forgiven then why not Saanchi?

Forgiving someone is a personal choice. Why should any member be questioned if they choose to forgive Saanchi?

If they had a heart to forgive Jagya and others, then why should they be questioned on forgiving Saanchi?


Sanchi underwent the most traumatic experience compared to the rest. She wished bad for someone. While the others did bad to the women who came into their lives. At some point of time I forgave J(before he started two timing and making comparisons between women in his life again). So I could easily accept Sanchi too after all that she had undergone.


It's just that her actions are getting annoying now (except in yesterday's episode where she spoke up). She does not have to put up with Saurabh. Nor does she have to stay quiet when her husband was interrogating her about Sa sleeping in a bedroom apart from theirs. What if she was sleeping in some other room? He did not have to interrogate her that way. He was such a jerk to do that . She could have said " Cut the crap. Take me out of this house if you think i'm doing some crime by sleeping in some other rooms" .
Edited by The_Alchemist. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38
One need not necessarily do good deeds to prove oneself eligible for pardon. If one changes oneself, harms none anymore, That itself is enough for me.
Jagya and gauri are doctors and their duty is to heal. If that is considered good deed, no problem. Because they are ready to go out of their way to help others. But sanchi is no doctor or no social worker to start doing good to others. It is enough if she does harm to none which she is doing now.
Edited by leavesandwaves - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39
Don't know why they never told us anything about what he as been doing before coming over to India.If they planned a marriage track with him they should have told us whether he is a student or has an income of his own.

From the conversation between DB and him it looked as if he came to India because he couldn't connect to his parents anymore so he came to bond with her.

Looks like this DB's family is another dysfunctional family.DB ran away from home to get married to a man of her choice and soon that man left her for another woman and her son left with his family leaving her behind in India and now her grandson left his parents in US and came to be with her.

Wonder whether they will stay back in Udaipur or return to Jaitser. The way Hardhik going ga ga over everything about Jaitser and liking Indian way of life it won't be surprising if they return to Jaitser.

Also the way Gulli was expressing her concern about the school the possibility cannot be ruled out.

But for the time being they will stay in Udaipur I guess.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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They may stay there for a while and their for a while outing may turn out to be as long as saurabh's bail outing.😆

The brief appearance of amol was good. Hope DB will forget to torture him as she now had a different target.

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