Why it was so important of Ganga to call Anandi? - DT Note pg7

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Uma

@adi2512

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Posted: 11 years ago

#61

Don't want to say anything on the aspect if it is insensitive of Ganga to call up Anandi wrt her own crisis, not thinking about what crisis , Anandi is currently in.

But I feel , this is just to prove, How Gowri and Ganga are poles apart when it comes to their perception of A - J relationship.

Gowri never cared for Anandi feelings and understanding of J , inspite of being aware that A is in the company of J thru' out her childhood, adolescence and for a part of married life. This is due to her ego, insecurities , a feeling of superiority, or all of them put together.

Ganga on the contrary values the bond Anandi shares with J as well as Singhs, respects her for the levelheadedness she exhibits, when it comes to facing a situation in any crisis, so when she is feels she is at any cross roads, naturally goes out for Anandi's counsel.

This is no way, undermining Ganga's strength nor giving Anandi the entire limelight.

What Anandi did., ? she didn't chart out an entire plan to Ganga, as to how to go about it.

She just advised in few words, what is the best way to go about it., which Ganga caught on to immead, and went on with her own devices.

Neither does Anandi feel., prideful, that Ganga is in her control., nor Ganga can move a finger w/o her interference...that's just not the nature of Anandi.

If we try to look at the relationships and understanding , each of them share between themselves with an impartial view, I don't think, there's anything wrong in showing what that has been shown.

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mahi12

@mahi12

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Posted: 11 years ago

#62

I have been saying for long time now tired of saying 🤔creatives need to cut down Anandi's influence on Jagya and Ganga's life They can deal with their life , their problems without her guidance. lectures and her unnecessary help I don't see any reason why Ganga called Anandi Ganga has great presence of mind and she should think about her previous experiences She has been sharp enough to use her mind and bring the truth of fake people so it was really not necessary to call Anandi There are so many sane people near her so what was reason to call Anandi ?Anandi for me neither she is most wise person , neither she knows Jagya and Singhs the most There are plethora of times where her intelligence has been clouded , where she has lack of understanding towards Jagya and Singhs

Interactions between four leads are fine Helping each other sometimes is also fine but forced interactions , unnecessary asking help and lectures irritates to the core and to be honest most of Jagya Anandi and Ganga Anandi's interactions from last year make no sense This is what irritates the most

Creatives cannot make people wow of Anandi presenting her the most perfect person on arth when the truth is she is not Jagya and Ganga needing her lectures , or contacting her to take her advises is too much Let them do something without Anandi too Is it too much ask for cvs ?

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 11 years ago

#63

How Jagya and Anandi's bonds and feelings came in here ? It has been already proved Ganga is quite understanding and is fine with Anandi and Jagya's special bond She respect their childhood bond They still meet with each other , talk to each other, feel for each other not love but do have soft feelings for each other Both cannot see each other in pain Isn't it enough proof Ganga is no Gowri but different from her so what is point of calling up Anandi to ask her advices ? She didn't chart out all plan but she gave Ganga the idea how to do so ? Why Why Why at least once we see Anandi is not contacted in any of Jagya s problem's, matters ? Why cannot Jagya and Ganga do things without her suggestions ?How many times Shiv called Jagya in any of Anandi's matters or he and Anandi are in some problem ?Never so can't for once cvs give a break to Jagya and Ganga too ?Either its Singhs contacting Anandi either its Ganga contacting ?Its a clear cut slap on Ganga's own strength that she cannot do things without Anandi

I don't see why to give respect to Anandi's childhood special bond with Jagya his wife has to live in shadow of Anandi ?

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ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 11 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: atominis
I do not want to compare women here. I guess Ganga called up Anandi this time because the only wise person in BH is gone. No Bhairon. No one else listens. So who else to confide in except Anandi?

Gehna 😕Even when Bhairon was there who contacted him Anandi was contacted even before that Wasn't it ?

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dolly

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Posted: 11 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: atominis
I do not want to compare women here. I guess Ganga called up Anandi this time because the only wise person in BH is gone. No Bhairon. No one else listens. So who else to confide in except Anandi?

skep i do agree wid u abt this but CVs don't need 2 show this just 2 involve A in it bcoz ganga cud'd herself mad eit out based on he rprev. experience.

and ppl r blaming her 4 being selfish basically. if shes selfish then so is A who remained in haveli even after J broke bonds wid her. she shud'd got out. but ppl said she wants 2 take care of singhs. then why can't oders take care of themselves & how can she take care of themselves wen she herself was distressed.

really this forum is 2 much just make A sum angel or prove her rite making oder ckt bad forcibly wen its not even shown as inherent nature of that ckt. bcoz wat & how ganga got mrd 2 J is not eh rfault. she wen questioned her relationship wid him she only did this so that he knew that they don't've any relationship except benefactor & beneficiory & let her go as she never knew abt J's feelings.

and wen she flirted wid J??

i think even A flirted wid shiv wen she knew that ashima luved shiv(at that time shiv was not in luv wid anandi)by giving him head massage etc.

and i think bcoz of this biasedness many A -admirers got pissed off & had started writing against her.bcoz anandi kare toh ras leela but ganga kare toh uska ckt dheela.

i never wrote against her but just this biasedness pissed me off.

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 11 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: sidra08
How Jagya and Anandi's bonds and feelings came in here ? It has been already proved Ganga is quite understanding and is fine with Anandi and Jagya's special bond She respect their childhood bond They still meet with each other , talk to each other, feel for each other not love but do have soft feelings for each other Both cannot see each other in pain Isn't it enough proof Ganga is no Gowri but different from her so what is point of calling up Anandi to ask her advices ? She didn't chart out all plan but she gave Ganga the idea how to do so ? Why Why Why at least once we see Anandi is not contacted in any of Jagya s problem's, matters ? Why cannot Jagya and Ganga do things without her suggestions ?How many times Shiv called Jagya in any of Anandi's matters or he and Anandi are in some problem ?Never so can't for once cvs give a break to Jagya and Ganga too ?Either its Singhs contacting Anandi either its Ganga contacting ?Its a clear cut slap on Ganga's own strength that she cannot do things without Anandi

I don't see why to give respect to Anandi's childhood special bond with Jagya his wife has to live in shadow of Anandi ?

sidra i agreew id u.

and moreover just make A sum gudness angel now forum is making things abt ganga's ckt??shes selfish. ita in her inherent nature etc.etc. i if ganga's action we say a s wrong then so is anandi's so many actions can b termed as selfish & insenstive.

i mena i never knew that just make ur fav. sum gudness personified ppl will degrade oder ckt even wen its not shown as his/her inherent ckt.

poor ganga's fault is that she fell in luv wid her saviour & her saviour mrd her against his family's wishes & rejected their so-called gud choice an urban gal & moreover shes anandi's SIL.

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 11 years ago

#67

Wow kudos😆 Really someone rightly said there are two Balika Vadhu serials telecasted because I have not seen even one episode where Ganga flirted with Jagya when he was engaged ?What was her flirting ? Please I will like to read Balika Vadhu 2 story which is different from Balika Vadhu I have followed religiously at that time Never missed a single episode She always wanted to leave wasn't it DS who gave her kasam to stay in the house never think of leaving ?She left the house when Jagya and Sumitra's differences exceeded Didn't she ? so at least put the serial facts correctly if don't remember then please go through update sections Poor creatives will pull their hair apart what we have shown and great stories are written here ?

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MaxMayfield

@MaxMayfield

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Posted: 11 years ago

#68

actually its not out of character for Ganga to call up A?😕 Ganga doesnt have any friends...anybody who she could talk to, discuss her problems with - all her life...even before replacement and after it (A's I mean)...Ganga found a friend, a guide in A...so what is the problem if she just discusses the matter with her...?

Infact leaving Jagan and Ansh story unconnected is the biggest flaw of BV in terms of storyline these days - I find the dynamics of four of them very interesting...and it could really be used to show how both couples could add on to each other and uplift the society together...I just love to see them in one frame together...infact when S came to help J out in HS's case...it was absolutely awesome plot point...would love to see it happening other way round too - u know S gravely injured and J saving his life or something

JMO...no intentions to fight or anything..!

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 11 years ago

#69

Yes dolly in that way Anandi can be blamed too If Ganga is selfish then how Anandi was/ is selfless and most sensitive ?Anandi always respected Jagya's choice of marrying Gowri right and she knew very well Jagya is being disowned by Singhs because of her so why she didn't let them unite and let everything cool down by herself moving to her parents house ?DS had an heart attack when she tried to leave but she could later go ? Singhs are a big family they can take care of each other but her presence in the house fueled differences between jagya and Singhs because Singhs were sympathizing with her and kicking Jagya out and what she was really doing there for Singhs ? She was there because of her own emotional attachment She rejected her parents by saying you married me here so i will stay here only and Bhago left heart broken Wasnt it selfish and insensitivity ?

I have not seen when Ganga was flirting with Jagya but people say so then we can also say Anandi was flirting with Shiv by doing his head massage in his office ?

Begging to marry a guy but still not ready neither over from her ex memories Wasn't it selfish and insensitive Only concerned about her own self ?What a selfish woman

Isn't it same Anandi who was shouting at Jagya what is your relationship with Ganga she was bothered Jagya Ganga's bond is not fine with Sanchi i really wanted to ask this woman You know very well Sanchi is not fine with your so called special bond with Jagya too then why don't you stay away too ? What is your relationship with Jagya by the way ? What double standards

The list is long if people call Ganga selfish Anandi is bigger selfish than her

Edited by sidra08 - 11 years ago