Why I am angry with anandi

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 11 years ago

anandi is doing the same thing again that she is an expert in.
Taking the blame on herself.
Dadibua destroyed the sabji with loads of oil. and anandi wanted to save her by saying that she put more oil by mistake.
In return she got more taunt.

Anandi is also jhooti. Not to to save someome really deserving but to save someone who does not deserve.

anandi can never be a strong woman who stands for truth come what may. Even protecting herself.

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 11 years ago

Dadibua was expecting that amol is not good at studies as he is not their khoon. All her hopes went haywire as amol got very good marks and also got many gifts from doting family members.

I like his direct approach and not mincing words.

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 11 years ago

Haveli people are enjoying summer eating cool gols and mannu is smiling happily.

And they are playing cricket too including dadisa.

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Posted: 11 years ago

DB is irritating. Totally suffocating all women of the house. 😡 No wonder her son abandoned her.

Shiv has been noticing her behaviour for a long time now. I am just waiting for the day when he gives a polite but firm reply to her.

Why should he have to explain his choices? Why take him to be someone who is under spell of Anandi? As if he has no mind of his own! I hate how every supportive husband is dismissed as a henpecked one!🤢

I love Shekhars for loving Amol the way they do. 😊

Why can't Anandi have a happy family? Why they insert crap people in her life again and again?

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aparnauma

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Posted: 11 years ago

I agree Anandi need not have done that.

She could have just kept quiet if she didn't want that old lady's feelings hurt.

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She is entitiled to have her beliefs and speak out her mind in front of his brother and his family

But her imposing her beliefs and on top of it not taking responsibility for her deeds which may have caused harm to her brother doesn't speak well for her.

Anandi as usual thinks that this lady should be dealt with great compassion and understanding🤢😡

Anandi should realise that this lady is no dadisa who fought hard to keep her family together and in the process she was hardened

This lady was probably so harsh that she drove away her family with her harshness.

Sooner Anandi realises the truth the better and compassion also is not the choice of medicine

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Missesha

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Posted: 11 years ago

I am also angry with Anandi. And honestly too bored with her goodness. Come on, why did she have to take it on her?Why does she want to pull a bad image for herself? She could have simply said, DB was too excited to cook for all

DB is very irritating and the whole oily subzi, aachar etc is way too regressive for BV.

Waiting for Shiv to blast some day. But before that I want Shekhar women to stand up for themselves. They have had enough of pacifying bua. It's time they tell the bua to mind her own business.

Edited by Missesha - 11 years ago

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Rashmi

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
anandi is doing the same thing again that she is an expert in.
Taking the blame on herself.
Dadibua destroyed the sabji with loads of oil. and anandi wanted to save her by saying that she put more oil by mistake.
In return she got more taunt.

Anandi is also jhooti. Not to to save someome really deserving but to save someone who does not deserve.

anandi can never be a strong woman who stands for truth come what may. Even protecting herself.

saving someone who doesn't deserve doesn't make her jhooti.

But agree that she shouldn't have done it. I hope they show her replying to bua if it repeats. Also wish to see she shares this incident with Shiv.

Good part of the scene was Shekhars were least bothered about whether it was Anandi's mistake or not. They believe in her now.

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anshurg5

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Posted: 11 years ago

Yes, Anandi need not interfere in this matter . She should have either kept quite or have told that DB wanted to cook tasty food for her brother herself but for this she can not be called jhooti. It is a very strong word for her sympathetic attitude

I feel that her goodness should be her strength not her weakness.

Perhaps DB has understood by this that she can carry on her blame game and Anandi will not reply back her out of her politeness.

Btw Iooks like Ira is going to give her back soon. She first corrected her in the kitchen about Anandi and later tried to put her opinion about 'bahar ki chaat'.

Me too hope that before Anandi her sasu -moms will take a stand against this disgusting DB. Enough of her appeasement, she does not deserve it.😈

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aparnauma

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Anandi is also jhooti. Not to to save someome really deserving but to save someone who does not deserve.

anandi can never be a strong woman who stands for truth come what may. Even protecting herself.

I won't call her jhooti.I would say that she is being unnecessarily kind towards that lady.

With that scene with Shiv and Amol she did say that Dadibua has faced lot of hardships and therefore they should try tounderstand her and be kind to her.

I didn't really see any weakness in Anandi there.It is only misguided compassion towards that dadibua.

Edited by aparnauma - 11 years ago