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Posted: 11 years ago
#61
In yesterday's episode ,The Sanchi --saga made me a bit depressed,
however much I may have been resenting her behaviour & attitude
and however much I was wishing that she should meet her match
and she should be punished !
But rape is a heinous crime...an unpardonable sin...a blot on human society .
As a mother of two girls...i'd also like to communicate to as a woman,
who among many things is also a mother, yet it is not my only role .
May be because of traditions & values handed down the generations,and above all,...because it involves the modesty and dignity [?! ] of an adamant girl who was only craving for companionship ...seeking revenge by degrading her dignity !!
It is a very sensitive issue and ...yes i am yet to recover from that Nirbhaya incident . So many sleepless nights ...so much frustration,
searching for answers in human Psychology and Sociology books
but ...yes ...yet to recover !
Now i will start reading the valuable opinions of my respected and lovable friends in this post .

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Posted: 11 years ago
#62
sympathy is what happened with Sanchi. Its not just syphmphy but anger feeling sad whoever gone through such horrified experience in their life.
If Sanchi knew what is happening with her even then go ahead with then surely she doesn't need syphmphy. I agree she herself dig this grave...but end of it Sanchi is in love with Saurabh whom she trust blindly. Its about breaking trust faith.
Sanchi is evil person but that doesn't mean she needs pay this price. In fact when all this comes on court she will surely pay another heavy price. Because she liar, fooled her own family, she file false case against innocent man, try to kill mother and her yet born baby. I am sure all this go against her in court Saurabh Lawyer will surely say She always lie how come we trust such girl.
so all this mean she doesn't deserve justice. Sanchi already paid big price and in court she will pay another price for her own past record. All this doesn't mean she needs to punish like this.
Saying she deserve all this becoz her past misdeed its like Extrimist saying Women should not out step out side home, shd nt wore certain clothes shd nt go any place.
Just becoz God given Women power and capability of reproductivity so all men can treat her trash.
Its extremely sensitive issue. Many time Guy is not is falut. In this case Sanchi did make mistake that doesn't mean she derserve this assualt.
Edited by blushing - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



Where did I say she deserve it? I said I have become immune to someone called sanchi.

Dont whitewash sanchi's crimes as mere mistakes. She did one mistake after another. to destroy lives. Are they any less? On that rainy night, ganga would have been raped and killed along with her son.

Ganga left on her own accord because Ratan proved to be extremely dangerous that she felt guilty for putting lives of Singhs at stake.
Saanchi poisoined Sumi's mind, but the same Sumi didn't throw Ganga out. Sumi hoped and wished Ganga leaves one day to settle for herself once she has attained education.
Let's not blame Saanchi for G leaving the house.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#64
Sanchi's kaan bharna made ganga leave the house. Sanchi and sumitra both were responsible. . And sanchi would not have cared if rape happened to payal, ganga or even anandi.

Even a 6 year old listens when the mother says dont accept chocolates from strangers and certain precautions. Sanchi wilfully ignored all the warnings.

Here there is a crime against a woman which is condemnable.
But the woman has put herself in such conditions where some mean man can take advantage of her. Anandi warned her in the middle of the party. Sanchi also has seen how saurabh was trying to be physical with her.

I want saurabh to be severely punished and I also want the whole truth to come out.

I have never seen a mother as irresponsible as Ira. She is a housewife, lots of time with her and yet cant keep an eye on her daughter.

If I go to movies second show and I know it is not always safe. But I am acompanied and I take precautions. I travel in cabs and autos and I know anything may happen to me any time. I keep an eye on the road and also observe the streets I travel in. Keep kitchen knife, spray etc. The times are very bad. We are dealing with males who just are nothing better than animals. Cant trust even an electrician, a plumber and even a gas delivery man.


Edited by leavesandwaves - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ganga was subjected to marital rape just like Gehna. Yet sympathy for ganga is half hearted.

Mannu was the result of marital rape. Yet Ganga took responsibility for mannu though she was a victim.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Why the outrage for sanchi is more than it was for ganga?

Is it because sanchi is one of us, an urban elite, District Collector's sister?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Will anandi get the blame for hiding from Ira?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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leaves I fully beleive saachi have invited dis mess herself... but den as a girl I have my symapathis with her family n nt her... most of them alwz said her parents r responsible for her up-bringing but shiv was also upbroughted by dem... n if to say Shiv was Cm's son so cm have alwz seen shiv's behaviour n guided him den she must have done d same wid saachi also... coz lately the truth was out... nn before dis he was ira n alok's son...
saachi well what she have alwz ignored what her well wishers says... coz she believed dat she is right n not others... she have misused the liberty given to her by her parents... tomorrow if they were stricked n dint gve liberty to her we would have said dey differentiate btw boys n girls n if dey have given den Y so much,...
it should be on the children to thnk abt parents before misusing d liberty givn by dem... n frankly yesterday's epi was shown as if saachi is victim wen she is not...
N i want cv's to show dis to mke realise saachi what blunder she have invited to herself...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Will anandi get the blame for hiding from Ira?

Yes ...if they want to prolong the story of Sanchi further and farther !!!
You see... Sanchi is a lovable cutie pie for the BV team ! So definitely they make a way to
project Sanchi as a neglected girl by Anandi, and Anandi is solely responsible for this fiasco !!
Again some misunderstandings in the story... some more push and pull scenes ... and some low moans...grumblings from the hapless viewers !
Edited by SEETHA.K - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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the TM is being very insensitive. Just because someone is a horrible person that does not mean they should not get sympathy on being date-raped. It is one of the worst things anyone can go thru and nobody deserves it regardless of past actions.

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