A caretaker needed soon

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Today i saw some parentship in AnSh...i found Daddu's agreement with AnSh pretty dumb as if whatever Anandi says is correct...Anup and Ira had very valid points...when AnSh will have their own kid too who will take care of Amol then since many members of Shekhar family are not very happy with this adoption...I think AnSh will soon need a caretaker in near future for Amol...they haven't even said anything about adoption to Singhs...AnSh should control their emotions and first try to convince Ira and Anup and after precap she needs to start having strict command on Saanchi too...the environment for adoptions is not really sutiable for now in KB...seems like bad times for Amol coming ahead
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AnSh bonding with Amol was good although Anandi should have not shown her tears in front of the kid at least...Anup is already looking like a part of Shekhars and more like Shiv's father than his chote papa so for me his opinion is more important than Ira's...glad they showed proper procedure of adoption by someone visitng KB to see the environment for adoption...accroding to spoilers it seems AnSh appeal for adoption of Amol will be rejected...best was Singh part ...finally CVs understood our complain and showed Mannu with Ganga...loved Ganga's emotion as mother for child but hope someone quuetions her if she was so worried about Mannu than why did she take such risky step?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I do not know why AnSh are rushing for adoption when other important matters in family are still waiting to be solved. Family environment is not at all condusive. There's unstable Ira, crazy Sanchi and still very vulnerable and fragile Anup. Two seniors, Anup and Ira already voiced reservations against adopting a child with special needs. Sanchi's barking in precap.🤢

I also wonder if Anandi wants to adopt the kid out of sense of injustice meted out to him or actual desire to give love to that child.

I do not like Shiv's silence and his lack of discussions with Anandi over this serious matter either. He looked thoughtful when Ira and Anup voiced their concerns. But remained quiet.😕

Shekhars are a family even struggling to handle each other's own relations. How'd they handle this member?

That child is best left at orphanage and not KB asylum.😲
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Atominis i agree with you to some extent...AnSh are not adoptiong the child purely for injustice happening to him becoz they seemed to like him from the very first time they set their eyes on him
Even i feel adoption is not good in such environment specially when the child is so special...the poor child will have go through Ira's huffs and puffs and Saanchi's glare from very start and since his parents are so mahaan that they cannot leave KB he may lose his self-esteem...why aren't they showing Shiv's part in this adoption proeprly...he is just agreeing to Anandi in everything she says...Shiv i want adoption...ok Anandi...Shiv i want Anuja...ok Anandi...Shiv i want this Amol...ok Anandi...Shiv don't leave KB ...ok Anandi...Shiv do this...ok Anandi...Shiv do that...ok Anandi
i mean seriosuly he has some of his own feelings too...they are making him mirrior image of Anandi...i know he is muchwala Anandi but comeone there must be some difference in their thinking to some extent...just without any conversation they make decisions...if they are aiming to show some social message then first make AnSh a real couple
Anup must be thinking Shiv has opened some market of social service by first marrying a divorcee and now going for adoption...he will be next target of Saanchi's evil mind
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Did not expect very realistic track from the creatives, so the episode looked OK - something good, something bad, not filmy track. A care taker will anyway be necessary because the child has special needs and family members are not equipped (at least at present) to handle him, especially when they do not want to take extra responsibility. Hope creatives will be sensitive while showing disability part. Disables need equality and not charity or sympathy.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

Did not expect very realistic track from the creatives, so the episode looked OK - something good, something bad, not filmy track. A care taker will anyway be necessary because the child has special needs and family members are not equipped (at least at present) to handle him, especially when they do not want to take extra responsibility. Hope creatives will be sensitive while showing disability part. Disables need equality and not charity or sympathy.

i know i am complaining alot and deep down inside i feel this track is actually much much better that all the other tracks but i always feel if one has taken responsibility to pass some message to society than it should be done properly...i loved this track when i look at it from a normal fiction POV but when i feel they are trying to pass the message than show it properly...anyway i will now not complain more and just enjoy the show ⭐️
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@libs do not try to look for too realistic track at the end it is a serial. And family members opposition is the drama element in this track. And it will not be cheap drama, at least this much I am sure.
Loved the kid, he is really adorable. And I think he will come but will go back because no one can stay with Ira, Saanchi and now this new joker Anup.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I wish it had been a GIRL child with a disability instead of a boy.
That would have been a more powerful social message.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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one thing i dont understand if anandi has to do according to her own will then why to talk about adoption to family .is she asking persmission from family that v should abopt child or not or she is giving information to family that v r going to adopt child
adopting a handicapped child is best idea by bv cvs
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't know how to take this track as a person with a slight physical disability I have mixed views, I would like to know what problem that the parents had to give up the kid in the first place as majority of parents keep their child no matter how difficult it is and some keep them in a care home if it gets too much for them, but to put them in an orphanage is beyond my understanding.
Anandi is like a little girl in a sweet shop I want that child because it needs the most help and shiv is like saying yes to make his anandi happy and has not thought what it actually means. Shiv will be at work the majority of the time so it will fall to anandi to look after this child. I think its more madness to bring a child home with factors such as sanchi's nastiness and even ira is not comfortable with the idea. If anandi and shiv do adopt him I do hope they don't pitty him and allow the kid to do things and become independant.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

one thing i dont understand if anandi has to do according to her own will then why to talk about adoption to family .is she asking persmission from family that v should abopt child or not or she is giving information to family that v r going to adopt child

adopting a handicapped child is best idea by bv cvs


Even if anandi has taken her own decision, she cannot just present it to the family as a done deal, because ultimately the family's support will also be required for the child's healthy emotional growth.

If anandi just unilaterally brings the child into the home and ira and saanchi give him looks of contempt, and avoid him, it will be a very unpleasant environment for the child to grow up in.

Basically, anandi is not informing nor seeking permission - it is more a 'consensus building' discussion where she is trying to get buy-in from family members so that the child enters into a warm and welcoming environment.

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