Shiv has to assert himself

Now is the time for shiv to assert himself.

Instead of crying on anandi's shoulders.

He should talk to Ira and sanchi and tell them that nothing changed as far as he is concerned.

He should tell chotima not to be defensive and try to understand his father and his compulsions.

I like Jagya who is more straightforward and less emotional and who can face situations without too much fuss. Shiv should learn a thing or two from Jagya and Bhairon.

Shiv should use the same tactic that ira and sanchi are using. Tell them that they no longer love him as he is considered not of their blood and try to emotionally blackmail them. Be strict with sanchi and tell Ira to take care of her treasure sanchi than crying buckets over what happened.
What happened to medicines and treatment for sanchi?

I hate to see a weak shiv.

Every person has some or the other qualitites which make them different...if Jagya is implusive and extrovert then Shiv is more patient and introvert...but yes if not now maybe after some time if Ira misbehaves or shows difference in her behavior then Shiv should talk to her and tell her only she seems to think things have changed but it's not same for him but even after that ira does not behave properly i feel he should leave the house...Shiv parents's may have changed but he still remains the eldest son of Shekhars and should be resepected like by his siblings in same way

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Now is the time for shiv to assert himself.

Instead of crying on anandi's shoulders.

He should talk to Ira and sanchi and tell them that nothing changed as far as he is concerned.

He should tell chotima not to be defensive and try to understand his father and his compulsions.

I like Jagya who is more straightforward and less emotional and who can face situations without too much fuss. Shiv should learn a thing or two from Jagya and Bhairon.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Shiv should use the same tactic that ira and sanchi are using. Tell them that they no longer love him as he is considered not of their blood and try to emotionally blackmail them. Be strict with sanchi and tell Ira to take care of her treasure sanchi than crying buckets over what happened.
What happened to medicines and treatment for sanchi?

Originally posted by: groucho

You are breaking the cvs hearts...imagine a dramatic situation like this and no Anandi to solve the issue😆😉😉

Jokes aside...I agree in principle but I feel that Ira's character is too self motivated to understand. Any mother who can forget a son so easily isn't going to listen to him...foolish woman!!

CM... I agree...she needs Shiv's reassurance and will accept it. So will Alok.

I know what you mean about Jagya but I hope the cvs don't bring the Singhs into this...this is a Shekhar family matter. ..cvs are famous for entwining everyone in everything.

No groucho Jagya won't come in Shekhars family matter because it is only Anandi's right where she is not needed still push her 😆but Anandi will definitely be involved in Ganga's pregnancy matter and also she will be the one to help Pasha Most Probably😆

Well said leaves. Now it is in Shiv's hands. He is already ok with the fact that he is still a shekhar.

I agree with Libsrocks that each have their own identity and this needs to be shown in the way they handle their own situations.

Originally posted by: Jan50

Well said leaves. Now it is in Shiv's hands. He is already ok with the fact that he is still a shekhar.

He should be the big man and unite this family. Every one respects him in that family including Ira.

Though He heard those unpleasant words said b Ira , he should be above that. One can not get hung up on what Ira said about being an Ayah. It was said under hurt feelings and fear of losing Shiv.

This is the first real set back faced by Shiv. Jagia's character is shaped to e more matter of fact and

Less emotional because he has been thru a lot of set backs ( few of which was created by himself).