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Originally posted by: Skepblun
The poem is beautiful. 😊
Indeed kids are born out of lust/carnal urges only.
But I guess "controlled" or "sanctioned" relation gets preference and is not looked down upon.
People want reassurance. Kid from a gene pool you know nothing about, can be unpredictable. With kids from their known concept of "family", people at least can predict or have a sense of control.
All through life people try to connect dots and make predictions based on past/known patterns.
Of course your own kid can go horribly wrong and upset all calculations the way Sanchi is in BV. But then it's easier to take responsibility of one's "own". Other is instantly dismissed as "outsider" only and his blood is blamed.
Honestly nothing is in our control. And ownership is a myth. Predictions do not always go right. But one's own kid at least gives an illusion or "comfort zone" of reliability, predictablity and sense of ownership. Hence all hoopla over this.
We can't generalise in any way. If there are adopted kids who are good. Then there are also cases of adopted kids who were nightmares. Such cases were shown in Savdhan India also. Boy killed and looted the entire adoptive family and never considered them as his own.
Every adopted child isn't a Krishna nor every biological child a Ram.
Alok and Meenu may have thought just that !
They may have thought - all is perfect. Why bother telling and upset Ira and Shiv unnecessarily ? Only we two know it as of now - life is perfect - let it go on.Does anyone really think they were bad people ? That they were wrong to want to shield Ira from the pain ? They kept the pain from Ira out of love for her - they had no intention of hurting her or Shiv.I hope eventually when they all find out - Ira N Shiv wl at some point realize that this was done not to delude n cheat but to protect and care.The motive is always important.
But I bet if that boy had not known he was adopted - he may not have been this callous !Yes - there are monster sons and daughters too - but that is exactly why telling a kid they are adopted - is such a bad idea !!The adoption House - tells you to share thnis info as soon as the kid is as old as 3 or 4 even - just so they grow up with this idea and don't feel shocked later. But can you imagine what a struggle it wud be in the teen years ??The kid wud feel everytime there was a disagreement on the night curfew or raising the allowance or grades or anything at all- that he is being targetted and being pushed in a corner coz they are not his "real" parents. Coz "real" parents wud have been "MORE LOVING" !!Whereas - the adoptive parents may give that kid their hearts' blood and the kid may still feel it was not enough !!Think from the parents POV. If they love the kid absolutely and want a smooth wrinkle free relationship and hence delay telling and then wonder - why bother telling - all is going well - then have they really any "bad intentions" in hiding ?