is he the same man?

hello 2 ppl on dis forum.I am a new member on india forums.i have always loved ansh.though after replacement i was sad but continued to watch it for other characters.but today i am really surprised seeing shiv. is he the same man who stood by anandi and her family? today he behaved so badly with his wife's father.when he got married to anandi he said now ur family is mine so what hpnd today?i wanted to ask him what if ur wife treated ur family like dis?what if dadu had been to haveli and had been thirsty and sumitra denied him water still anandi didnt say anything will that b ok with shiv?what if it was not jagiya but sanchi who broke the engagment and alok went 2 apologize to singhs...and anandi not stand up and touch alok's feet and give him disrespectful looks...not even ask him water...will that be ok with shiv? i understand shiv is angry with jagiya's family but how can he forget that the same man is his wife's father too...how can he forget that this is the same man who kicked his son out of his house for years for his DIL...if he is here to talk, he must have some valid reason. really has shiv forgotten that anandi's father is his father too? or will he tolerate if anandi did same to his father?? n those ppl who r still defending shiv will u even defend anandi if she did this behavior to alok or daddu?? why r men allowed all these things and if a woman does shes considered a characterless creature?