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Posted: 11 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: SPuja

@bold, the educated family and uneducated family- both are behaving same way. Educated family suddenly remembered past marriages of the person with whom they were going to marry their daughter and uneducated family (just to show contrast - there are educated persons in Singh family) thinking what is the big deal - it has happened in past - neither Anandi nor Gauri tried to suicide - so it is the weakness of Sanchi - Jagya as usual will spend his time out (of badi haveli) and when the family thinks the punishment is over, he will be back. Why Shakhers are taking the matters to court? What is the big deal if Jagya broke engagement and married another woman in two days? It is Sanchi's weak personality (they do not know it is her fake personality) that she tried to take her own life.

Yeah S Puja--
Well said. Just because the other two didn't commit suicide, and take them to court, they are "strong minded" its perfectly okay. The problem lies with saanchi.
They need to realize that not every woman is a doormat like anandi who will think of badi haveli's ijjat first (or non-existent ijjat as it stands, I don't see why or how the haveli has any ijjat left after suguna's out of wedlock pregnancy, jagya's issues, etc. etc.) 😆😆. They must understand that different people have different thresholds of pain and tolerance.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: ZenerDiode


Same way i brought you said that they have equal right to support their friend sanchi s crime

1) Jagya already knows A position from when ira asked her to choose between sings and shekhars after hospital incident


2) as sid said he is already informed by bhairon all happened in hospital



Look ultimately it is going to come out when Anandi speaks out. Even Shekhars know Anandi was present there.

Thinking whether someone will believe him or not is irrelevant. Be it himself or Anandi or anyone else - all have to speak openly now and leave it to judge/authorities to decide what is true and what is not.

People like friends are third person here. Not directly related to situation whereas Jagya is directly implicated in this case.

This will only cause confusion. It will not yield any good either to him or Anandi.

Anymore fuzziness on their part can be taken advantage of by this Sanchi and her trash legal team. Already their fuzziness has led her and her family to slap charges against Jagya.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: shanthi510

Nice post

There was no use in asking for out of court settlement,when shekhars arenot in a mood to hear jagiya's side
I wanted basant to ask daddu if you feel jagiya is characterless why did you approach us with sanchi's alliance for jagiya


@Bold - yeah that was a better question to ask and much better comeback than what he spoke to them.

And if Daddu argued we thought he had changed then Basant should have said that his past always existed na, so why you have problem only now? Either ways this kind of comeback would have shamed and confused that Shekhar partriarch instead of outright agitating him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#74
^^ yeah true said Skepblun
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Posted: 11 years ago
#75

Originally posted by: ZenerDiode


DS dint know about what is coming in future but but later A knew after noticing tiny tiny doubts in sanchi so she is more responsible for this mess. If A wanted she could do something but she supported her ladli SIL

she never told about bribe thing to DS who she is claiming to love most

Jagya is hiding because his relations with A are different from LS to him and sanchi s friends to her.



What DS did not know? Is it not common sense that someday it will be a problem if ex husband and ex wife meet often? And did she not know Sanchi's nature? Had she not gone through her tantrums at BH? Did she not feel skeptical and uncomfortable at Sanchi's behaviour - whether she wanted to hug them all or wanted to get close to them and suddenly pretended to be interested in hosting their guests?

She used Anandi's excuse and gave in to Sumitra's BS and pressurised Jagya to say yes.

This entire fiasco's seeds were first sown by DS only, even if you blame Anandi for not telling about bribery issue.

Yes Jagya's relations are not like Lal Singh or Sanchi's friends but he is directly implicated in a case now. He has to give facts. Otherwise confusion is only going to be a disadvantage to him. Even Anandi - because when she says she was present at coffee shop, lawyer will immediately point out that Jagya said something else. Toh aakhir sach kaun bol raha hai? Aur agar sach chhupaya toh kyun chhupaya?

Now when authorities are in picture, those who are directly implicated in the case must tell truth and not mince words.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: elasingh



Exactly...I am fed up of ppl blaming Jagia...



I think we should Award him... playboy... What you think its right time after 3 wife or keep going to 5.. 6... 7... or more... I am sure 4th one is from City not from village...



Edited by nylotto - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#77
but skep he does not want to involve A in this mess as she is from sanchis family who have filed case. if she would be not with shekhars he would defo involve her. here is the place where relation comes. shiv is ready to bring his wife s past life and defame her to give justice to his sister but jagya does not want to bring her in this mess and being questioned by shekhars for reason to support him. he thinks by heart that he has not done wrong to break engagement and he never intended that sanchi would try suicide . he is clear by heart for this issue so he does not want to involve A and making her scapegoat for saving himself
he is sure that if he is true and innocent he will be proved right whatever comes in the way
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Posted: 11 years ago
#78

Originally posted by: Skepblun

First of, is DS so stupid that she allowed Basant to talk to Shekhars despite knowing how hot headed and loose canon type man Basant is?

Second, Basant's politeness was spoiled when he shouted at Daddu. Forget ladkewale. He is a senior! And currently an aggrieved party. Basant should not have shouted like this. He provoked Daddu too much. 😕

It is okay if he wants to defend Jagya he still has to be polite. He cannot bark.

Among Shekhars, all were proper in the way they expressed their anger or disgust (except that loud Ira).

DS was also angry but at least she kept it to herself.

Gehna is also in disagreement with Shekhars and disapproval of Sanchi but at least she is polite.

If Basant wanted to convince Shekhars for out of court settlement or negotiation he should not have shouted and barked on phone.

Anyway, Jagya in attempt to be mahaan has avoided naming Anandi as witness. 😕

BOTH ex wives have been suggested to be summoned in court! 😲

Loud drama in offing.



Basant will make a roaring diplomat. I always expect fireworks from him and I am not disappointed. I laughed when he was trying to be nice and reasonable. It was like calm before storm.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#79
Yet to see the epi but as expected, Jagya did not name Anandi - and it's not an attempt to be mahaan. I don't think he wants to drag her into further mess, hence protected her
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Posted: 11 years ago
#80

Originally posted by: ZenerDiode

but skep he does not want to involve A in this mess as she is from sanchis family who have filed case. if she would be not with shekhars he would defo involve her. here is the place where relation comes. shiv is ready to bring his wife s past life and defame her to give justice to his sister but jagya does not want to bring her in this mess and being questioned by shekhars for reason to support him. he thinks by heart that he has not done wrong to break engagement and he never intended that sanchi would try suicide . he is clear by heart for this issue so he does not want to involve A and making her scapegoat for saving himself

he is sure that if he is true and innocent he will be proved right whatever comes in the way


I know all that. I have never questioned his intent in hiding the truth about Anandi being there.

All I am saying is that this was not the moment to think like that.

Not for him. Not for anyone else.

None of them can let things escalate anymore by hiding facts anymore. It is not about sides now. It is about facts. Truth.

He may have cleared his heart but he has created confusion in case - which will be bad for him, lead to questioning of Anandi's statement when she tells the truth...a confusion which can be taken advantage of by that Sanchi and her legal team arranged by her mad family.

Everyone has to use their brain now. Not heart. That stage is long past as Sanchi has taken it all too far.

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