You too, Brutus ?!!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Underlying family conflicts had not been resolved ! Faith and confidence yet to restore !

Shiv is deemed to be one of the lovable tv characters by the viewers !

You too, Brutus !!!???!

Even you !!"shiv ?" now an epitome of betrayal!-... Anandi resigned to her fate, with an expression of shock and dumped"" you too my beloved husband ...wants to have a taste of power" !?

Shiv wanted to file a case against Jagya...Defamation Case ! Hearing this.. Anandi stunned and questioned him ...and tried her best to plead...to explain that ..." you have to think about other family members also ... How they all feel ?"---With stern voice he interrupted her and asked ..".what about our peoples' feelings ...their hurt ??Dont' you feel for them "? Anandi defended Jagya !!---but with hesitant looks !! Why this hesitation ?She already sensed Shivs' reticence ?Shiv denied to consider Jagya as a changed and responsible person ! Because of Jagyas' confused state of mind ...because of other constraints/inhibitions...he delayed to take this decision -after her clarification his fuming voice reverberated in their bedroom !--..." but for that we have to bear the brunt??"

"Still you are supporting his decision ?"?Shivs' another allegation on Anandi ...after all this fiasco , he felt that she has to shut her mind forever for the BH people !

With feeble voice she has given an explanation...''neither defending nor supporting but for the benefit of all... for the sake of both families he did this ---there is no compatibility between them ..he did it for the sake of Sanchi !" ...what an indistinct cause ! She has been vague about her explanation ...too !

For Shiv , Jagya left Sanchi at a crossroads !"Still she is feeling for Jagya and his family ??It seems Shiv is in amnesia...till the other day he felt that they are more than a family for him too ...now he is questioning Anandi for her affiliation to that family ... knowing fully well that they are her soul mates...mentors...everything for her ??

Anandis' convincing words and her pleads for her truthfulness did not convinced Shiv ..and there ... a permanent rift ...created by Sanchi fiasco..she has to cope up with that ! How long ? We don't know!!

A virtuous character was reduced to a hypocrite !

Confusion and misunderstanding still drives the BV storyline !

Shiv made another statement...an approval to his mothers' words...ha.. maa sahi kaha !!

It is a common social evil !"how daughters-in- law are treated differently from daughters !This Ira is a very domineering woman , who is ritualistic to the core ! She feels her bahu should be ruled over! ! Here the young women of our society want to know why they have to be a typical daughter- in - law ...removed from the rest of the family ... kept aside.. treat differently ? ! Why this indifference ? Why this disparity?

Here Anandis' soft nature and docile behaviour... her lack of clarity on sharing information with Shiv which ruffeled their emotions... to some extent their relations too . Amen !

Her over-cautious approach... postpone to reveal the truth...has created a different dynamic...with the stakes much higher..often a question of making a once-in - a lifetime...created a volatile situation ! Traditions still prevail...in the Indian society ! Shiv is not realising the follies of his sister and refuse to realise the facts !

A matter of circumstantial ifs and buts at this level...causing stress for the family and for their relationships too!

Bh people just left her to follow her in laws ...never try to contact her...though once by Bhairov and snubbed by Daddu[I think] ! Yes... they are very much entangled in Jagyas' hasty decision and busy to attend their mandi and godown business !How they left her with her choked emotions ??

Dadisa...you too, Brutus ?! --left her to her fate at this crucial juncture ?

Being an avid follower of this serial,...in the beginning .. YOU gave us a ray of hope"an opportunity to have a clear picture of the social evils -- and their impact on the society ... at that time we felt that , there are some people to teach us ... we imbibed..some values by watching this BV ...now you are stooping too low to conquer the trps ... by lowering the merit of this once praiseworthy serial !You too,...--??Why this ?! Why this ?!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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The story line is passing through a stormy phase ...for sensational scenes ; they created a character ...Sanchi...but now that character has grown up...to this level , a monster-- where there is no coming back ! How they are going to change her is ..a curious aspect for us --as viewers ...but she is playing with our nerves !"it is worsening !! here suicide is not a matter of IF any more ...but a question of WHEN ?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Why blame Dadisa alone ?
DS has penanced long back for all her sins of getting child brides for all her sons and grandson. She did what was not considered a crime then. Child marriages were considered the norm in the villages and DS did not deliberately do something cruel.

But after seeing what happened with Anandi - she realized her mistake, amended for her mistakes by asking for her forgiveness, encouraging her to study and choose her own career and eventually snared the best guy she could for remarrying her and giving her another shot at a happy married life.

DS has totally atoned for her so called "sins".

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hooked

Why blame Dadisa alone ?

DS has penanced long back for all her sins of getting child brides for all her sons and grandson. She did what was not considered a crime then. Child marriages were considered the norm in the villages and DS did not deliberately do something cruel.

But after seeing what happened with Anandi - she realized her mistake, amended for her mistakes by asking for her forgiveness, encouraging her to study and choose her own career and eventually snared the best guy she could for remarrying her and giving her another shot at a happy married life.

DS has totally atoned for her so called "sins".

On the contrary I blame DS for involving anandi in jagya remarriage talks.
She was the first person who called anandi at night and crying that jagya is not ready to get married. What was the need to talk about jagya matter to anandi ? DS is so selfish and does not give a thought that its not good to involve anandi in jagya life. DS took shiv liberty and patience to tolerate jagya for granted. Her constantly calling anandi in every ceremony of singhs household when jagya was still recovering from the loss of anandi.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hooked

Why blame Dadisa alone ?

DS has penanced long back for all her sins of getting child brides for all her sons and grandson. She did what was not considered a crime then. Child marriages were considered the norm in the villages and DS did not deliberately do something cruel.

But after seeing what happened with Anandi - she realized her mistake, amended for her mistakes by asking for her forgiveness, encouraging her to study and choose her own career and eventually snared the best guy she could for remarrying her and giving her another shot at a happy married life.

DS has totally atoned for her so called "sins".

Here the question is --with all the worthy things she did for Anandi...she is supposed to have a word with her...so that it will give solace to her ...at this crucial juncture --she needs support...solace and guidance ! Dadisa felt the same way for Jagdish...for that she requested Anandi to guide him till now !Giving support and solace is a never ending process in our Indian society !I am not questioning ...I am wondering - dadisa-being an elderly person ...so close to her ...she has to lend a helping hand..by giving few soothing words ...so that she will get solace !
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Thanks..dear !😊
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Knowing fully well about his sister's temperament--- understanding Anandi to the core ... is there any logic left to understand Sanchi---or for that matter to misunderstand Anandi ?

Where his perception went wrong in this matter ? Is it because of his love for his childish sister ?...or under the influence of his mothers' words... Is he blaming Anandi for which she never did ..or reacting too much instead of doing repair work ?! Is it his inability to see things as they are ... instead of fact finding...he is in rage and taking wrong decisions
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Okay...for a moment Jagya, anandi and other members of BH are wrong...but why Shiv is being part of hisfamily in dragging the issue ??? He is married and has some responsibilities towards his wife forget about her family...I am hating him coz like most men he is not able to maintain the balance between his several roles...and is rather providing space to his mom & sister to ridicule his wife, forget about fuelling the matter by talking of defamatation case...this is not expected from an educated person...his priority should have been to close the matter asap and bring peace in his household...but NO...afterall he is shekhar and Ira's son and Sanchi's brother...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The main point here is instead of playing a lead role .. by taking the matters in to his own hands-- he is contributing fuel to the fire by sidelining Anandi ...-she is the only person who knows too much... and ready to reveal...he shut his eyes and ears to facts and taking decisions in haste !
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Posted: 12 years ago
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He has been simmering in rage for too long. By now a reasonable person would have calmed down and would have done a lot of thinking, especially introspection. It's at times of great crisis that epiphanies occur. This seems to be evading the great Collector. Is he really so traumatized at his sisters rejection? Or is his ego hurt? I think, more than anything, his ego is hurt and he wants revenge to satisfy his ego. He failed (according to him) to protect his sister because he vetted this relationship. He vetted Jagya. Also, he knows that his sister coerced him into this because of her zidd but he is deflecting blame onto his wife because she is pyar/tyag ki moorat. In a sense, with his recent dialogues of Jagya's past denotes a jealousy of the relationship Jaan now enjoys despite the betrayal of the past. Is his magnanimity only a facade?

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