I don't sympathise with Shekhars - Page 2

Originally posted by: rameeraa87

why r u making jagya a mahaan and telling others low bcoz of ganga ony he ppt out if ganga in jail comes bfore knowing sanchi truth he will go with ganga only

Originally posted by: charminggenie

So after ages I get back to this serial and what mess they have made!

Finally the duplicity of the so-called educated Shekhars is out in open. They have never been rational about anything.

And now with accusing Jagya like this they have proven themselves to be hypocrites of the highest order.

Firstly the marriage was literally shoved down Jagya's throat, how can Ira forget her own veiled threats of being Anandi's sasural too . How can they not understand that they literally forced the Singhs' to accept this alliance. A proposal that was born out of Sanchi's obsession for Jagya.

Are they blind not to notice how it was always Sanchi begging and forcing herself on Jagya, right from her tacky tattoo to all the forced dates Ira made him go along with the tantrum queen.

And where the hell did he misbehaved with Jagya physically- the guy was sensible enough to shove aside a girl when she was literally throwing herself on him. Dadu , as a character has never shown a backbone or forthright.They conveniently forget how it was him who saved the dignity of the very same princess.

It was always Sanchi who used everybody to get her Jagya.

Ofcourse they are going to play " we did a favor" to you card, while smartly neglecting that it was the craziness and obsession of Sanchi which forced them to concede for this proposal. Anandi , once even tried bringing out the different of personalities , yet you all shut her down by chanting "Sanchi will change" sermons. Why the hell should a girl change herself to fit in a family, what a brat like her needs is a complete reboot of personality. They knew Singhs's were never going to refuse their virgin daughter and also with Anandi being their bahu. This fake superiority and delusions of being just has made them walk on everybody!

Shiv is a caricature now, if you , oh the great wise-man , if you knew about the changing strips of Jaggu then you should have put your foot down more firmly. Why did you never had a conversation with your own sister and tried convincing her how this all is a bad idea.

What is highly disappointing is the character of Anandi, her "devi complex" and baffling reaction at Jagya for once taking a firm stand on his own, has perhaps rendered her shocked beyond wits. Shouldn't she open her mouth and tell everyone how Jagya overheard the Sanchi conversation, the pandit bribe and should accept that it was always her interference which has caused this situation.

I by no means, can never fully accept a redeemed Jagya , but here I for once clap for him for taking the reins of his life in his own hands.!

And Time for Shekhars' to stop feeding the she-monster!

You know bacteria, especially bad bacteria, feeds on sugar. It's about time Shekhars, each and every one of them including Anandi mata and Hero, stopped feeding the bacteria called Saanchi anymore sugar. This mollycoddling and now the anxiety over how to tell the precious, delicate 'egg' this news has to stop. The band aid has to be ripped off. It's about time they fed her a dose of reality. What a family these Shekhars are. They are doing their daughter and sister a huge disservice. They have set her up for failure with all the coddling they have done. The woman doesn't know the meaning of the word no because they never taught her that. They did not prepare her for the real world where she will not always be everyone's laadli. Shame! Shame on them! Huge wake up call to parents. Whatever the gender, loving your child is one thing, but if you have a hand in spoiling them rotten then be prepared for everyone's hearts to be broken. Be prepared to see your child fail. Giving a child an entitlement complex is the worst thing a parent can do.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Skep I felt very bad that day when Anandi was decribed as a 'dumped woman' by her husband who spoke of sensitivity

he did not do it purposefully but in a bid to insult Jagdish as he was angry

but in that bid he dragged his silent wife unnecessarily in the conversation

i feel her past or Jagdish's past r very very private things , not to be talked about or used as tools to hit below the belt by Ira or even Shiv

Ira constantly refers to he past and says Shiv could have got much better ...hitting below the belt

Shiv used her past and the dumping that was painful to her to hit Jagdish below the belt

I am very angry with Anandi in this track as she has not taken the side of truth and played diplomatic but i resent this as a woman

It was horribly insensitive of Shiv to refer to a raw wound of hers right in front of the family and her ex

its not even as if he and Jagya were having a conversation by themselves

its hi time Anandi is recognised as Anandi and not the dumped woman who some city prince redeemed

and its hi time Jagya is recognised for his worth ...a rich surgeoen ...as those who approach him with proposals do so knowing his past but conveniently use it as a tool to fling on his face when things don't go their way .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Skep I felt very bad that day when Anandi was decribed as a 'dumped woman' by her husband who spoke of sensitivity

he did not do it purposefully but in a bid to insult Jagdish as he was angry

but in that bid he dragged his silent wife unnecessarily in the conversation

i feel her past or Jagdish's past r very very private things , not to be talked about or used as tools to hit below the belt by Ira or even Shiv

Ira constantly refers to he past and says Shiv could have got much better ...hitting below the belt

Shiv used her past and the dumping that was painful to her to hit Jagdish below the belt

I am very angry with Anandi in this track as she has not taken the side of truth and played diplomatic but i resent this as a woman

It was horribly insensitive of Shiv to refer to a raw wound of hers right in front of the family and her ex

its not even as if he and Jagya were having a conversation by themselves

its hi time Anandi is recognised as Anandi and not the dumped woman who some city prince redeemed

and its hi time Jagya is recognised for his worth ...a rich surgeoen ...as those who approach him with proposals do so knowing his past but conveniently use it as a tool to fling on his face when things don't go their way .

@Sheetsden- I appreciate the points you mentioned, but my point is as a brother Shiv should have tried making some effort reaching out to his own sister 1st, understood her feelings. And being an educated man should have made her and others understand , that changing ones' way of life is not by any means is a medium to own something or someone.

Oh she will fail & be unhappy all her life Picasso...all those taunts at Jagya will come back and slap them on each of their cheeks. They talk abt Jagya ruining ppls lives? Sanchi will ruin THEIR lives. They curse him even tho he saved her? She will be a curse for them...a cancer, and she will never thrive or change, or learn...because her conscience seems dead...she has no remorse, she has nothing to pull her back from the lowest level which she has fallen to. For Jagya, his family was always an emotional factor for him, for them...he ultimately came back from the pits...and became a wonderful person...but Sanchi? She gives 2 $hits abt her family...including her over protective brothers.

Kools,

Originally posted by: charminggenie

@Sheetsden- I appreciate the points you mentioned, but my point is as a brother Shiv should have tried making some effort reaching out to his own sister 1st, understood her feelings. And being an educated man should have made her and others understand , that changing ones' way of life is not by any means is a medium to own something or someone.

His constant reference to Jagya's past deeds in front of Anandi is insensitive.

Where did i say he did it deliberately . Please see what i wrote . I clearly wrote that he did not do it purposefully . He did it in an attempt to insult the man who dumped his sister . But he knew about his past when he went with the proposal of his sister . Right now it was used not coz it served any purpose but only as a tool to hit below the belt . And in that attempt even his wife was dragged in and the botttomline was she WAS demeaned if one is sensitive enough to understand it and sensitivity WAS made an issue of in that episode.