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...now in this situation!
They themselves don't know what they think or what they want! On one hand they speak in worst terms about Jagya's character, his past, his insensitvity etc. and how they were against this alliance from day one. But on other hand they are pressurising him to agree! Why?!
They claim Sanchi has done this or that for Jagya. But conveniently glossed over the lapses in her behaviour that clearly showed "how" much she had changed? And if according to them Jagya can't change then how did they assume their own daughter's old habits had died and she'd changed?
They many times sent Sanchi over to Jetsar and themselves also called Jagya there. How can they solely blame Jagya for meeting their girl and "using" her?!
How did he use her? Has he even touched her?
Yes Jagya went wrong in reassuring them earlier when they'd asked him, not telling them the real reason why he'd agreed to the marriage and even now, not telling them truth of why he refused.
But the allegations that they are leveling against Jagya are not justified either. Solely blaming him and behaving as victims or thinking of their daughter as a bechaari dukhiyaari is not done.
If they always had a low opinion of Jagya, were not convinced about this alliance and now Jagya has refused, then why do they want to take it further? Why lament this break up? What's the point of forcing a guy to change his decision after he's refused? How will Sanchi be happy this way in their opinion? How do they think this alliance will carry forward in long run? They can't keep pressurising throughout life, na?
Coming to Anandi, I wonder what goes on in her mind! đ˛ I know she's in a very messy situation. But I can't make sense of her expressions or talks to herself. First she looks at Jagya as if he made a blunder. Then she looks at him in pity and wonders why he's bringing this upon himself.
Tonight she was first standing in sadness. Later she lamented what Jagya had done and how sad "her" family (Shekahrs!) was! Wasn't she concerned about the sadness that was prevented in both families? She is not thinking of Singhs at all.
She wasn't thinking of chappals that Jagya would get back home either. She was wondering about Sanchi's sadness when she'd learn the truth.
I was hoping she'd go in some corner and call up someone like Bhairon or DS in Jetsar and tell them the real reason why Jagya did what he did so that at least there Jagya is not butchered.
But I guess she was silent because Jagya has shaken his head and signalled her to keep quiet and not tell anything to anyone? If this was a kasam, there was no need to honour it!
I have no sympathy for Shekhars. They spoilt their daughter rotten. They agreed for such a rishta and were shameless enough to approach Singhs with it just to fulfil their daughter's demand. They knew their daughter couldn't adjust there but thought her spending time with Anandi will make her learn something. They were foolish emough to have SaJa meet often. Foolish to think that smiling or doing bit of housework or wearing salwar-kameez showed Sanchi had changed or was ready for marriage! Foolish to forget her inherent nature and bad behaviour. Foolish to forget how much she detested villages and village people. Foolish to not think even once that Singhs would find it tough or perhaps agree only because they were Anandi's in laws.
They are also foolish to have given excessive freedom to Sanchi, not having any clue of what she does. Daughter's been bribing the pundit and they don't know! đ˛ She was throwing herself at Jagya and forcing herself in his room when he visited KB but no one knew! đ¤˘
You remain clueless or in denial about your daughter and still shout, "Meri beti mein koi aeb hai?"
The way Ira said it, one knew her perception and how she'd react if told the truth.
They are so possessed with "love" of their daughter and so proud of their izzatdaar family that they are not going to accept the truth even if it is told to them!
Shiv said they couldn't stoop to Jagya's level. That shows his superiority complex and his real opinion of Jagya. If he had such a low opinion of him then why agree for this proposal?! And how did he conveniently forget real nature of his own sister if he was so aware of Jagya's nature?
Though I do commend him for being civil unlike his crazy mother who's giving curses to Jagya! (He only broke the engagement, not a marriage! And did she forget he was the same man who saved her daughter from rape?! Badi aayi baddua dene wali!)
I believe they needed to be wiser about it from the beginning. Even now at least one of them should have tried to look beyond the surface and examine why Jagya said no. Also, it would have been worse if such things had happened after marriage. So they should be relieved Sanchi won't have to suffer in real sense. If Jagya says yes now still it won't be a happy marriage. Then why crib?
They themselves don't know what they think or what they want! On one hand they speak in worst terms about Jagya's character, his past, his insensitvity etc. and how they were against this alliance from day one. But on other hand they are pressurising him to agree! Why?!
They claim Sanchi has done this or that for Jagya. But conveniently glossed over the lapses in her behaviour that clearly showed "how" much she had changed? And if according to them Jagya can't change then how did they assume their own daughter's old habits had died and she'd changed?
They many times sent Sanchi over to Jetsar and themselves also called Jagya there. How can they solely blame Jagya for meeting their girl and "using" her?!
How did he use her? Has he even touched her?
Yes Jagya went wrong in reassuring them earlier when they'd asked him, not telling them the real reason why he'd agreed to the marriage and even now, not telling them truth of why he refused.
But the allegations that they are leveling against Jagya are not justified either. Solely blaming him and behaving as victims or thinking of their daughter as a bechaari dukhiyaari is not done.
If they always had a low opinion of Jagya, were not convinced about this alliance and now Jagya has refused, then why do they want to take it further? Why lament this break up? What's the point of forcing a guy to change his decision after he's refused? How will Sanchi be happy this way in their opinion? How do they think this alliance will carry forward in long run? They can't keep pressurising throughout life, na?
Coming to Anandi, I wonder what goes on in her mind! đ˛ I know she's in a very messy situation. But I can't make sense of her expressions or talks to herself. First she looks at Jagya as if he made a blunder. Then she looks at him in pity and wonders why he's bringing this upon himself.
Tonight she was first standing in sadness. Later she lamented what Jagya had done and how sad "her" family (Shekahrs!) was! Wasn't she concerned about the sadness that was prevented in both families? She is not thinking of Singhs at all.
She wasn't thinking of chappals that Jagya would get back home either. She was wondering about Sanchi's sadness when she'd learn the truth.
I was hoping she'd go in some corner and call up someone like Bhairon or DS in Jetsar and tell them the real reason why Jagya did what he did so that at least there Jagya is not butchered.
But I guess she was silent because Jagya has shaken his head and signalled her to keep quiet and not tell anything to anyone? If this was a kasam, there was no need to honour it!
I have no sympathy for Shekhars. They spoilt their daughter rotten. They agreed for such a rishta and were shameless enough to approach Singhs with it just to fulfil their daughter's demand. They knew their daughter couldn't adjust there but thought her spending time with Anandi will make her learn something. They were foolish emough to have SaJa meet often. Foolish to think that smiling or doing bit of housework or wearing salwar-kameez showed Sanchi had changed or was ready for marriage! Foolish to forget her inherent nature and bad behaviour. Foolish to forget how much she detested villages and village people. Foolish to not think even once that Singhs would find it tough or perhaps agree only because they were Anandi's in laws.
They are also foolish to have given excessive freedom to Sanchi, not having any clue of what she does. Daughter's been bribing the pundit and they don't know! đ˛ She was throwing herself at Jagya and forcing herself in his room when he visited KB but no one knew! đ¤˘
You remain clueless or in denial about your daughter and still shout, "Meri beti mein koi aeb hai?"
The way Ira said it, one knew her perception and how she'd react if told the truth.
They are so possessed with "love" of their daughter and so proud of their izzatdaar family that they are not going to accept the truth even if it is told to them!
Shiv said they couldn't stoop to Jagya's level. That shows his superiority complex and his real opinion of Jagya. If he had such a low opinion of him then why agree for this proposal?! And how did he conveniently forget real nature of his own sister if he was so aware of Jagya's nature?
Though I do commend him for being civil unlike his crazy mother who's giving curses to Jagya! (He only broke the engagement, not a marriage! And did she forget he was the same man who saved her daughter from rape?! Badi aayi baddua dene wali!)
I believe they needed to be wiser about it from the beginning. Even now at least one of them should have tried to look beyond the surface and examine why Jagya said no. Also, it would have been worse if such things had happened after marriage. So they should be relieved Sanchi won't have to suffer in real sense. If Jagya says yes now still it won't be a happy marriage. Then why crib?
Anupamaa
