Balika Vadhu Written Update 6/9/2013 J's transitiong journey of life!

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saba113

@saba113

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Posted: 12 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

One cannot control others or others reaction to one's actions. What Sanchi did, does, do is not the point. What J does is. Marriage is a relationship that requires love and honesty to flourish. If he cannot love Sanchi then he has obligation to be honest with her about it. So, yup he's at the very least ruining two lives. His own and Sanchi's. It was fine to marry her up to the point where he did not love another woman and there was potential he would love Sanchi. Beyond that he is WRONG.

But, I will leave you to your own moral compass. As I said in a previous post - where I found character A in the other serial I watch admirable is that his first thought upon realizing he loved wife 1 was to want to tell his wife 2 about it. Also, when he told wife 2 about having fallen in love he did so in person in a secluded space not via telephone. Kash kash kash J had learnt from the past.

First you said he is ruining three lives now you say two😆 and anyways i will leave you to your moral compass i already said i don't agree with you you don't with me and your kash kash kash will make you say someday how wrong you are here I believe J has learnt a lot from his past and is becoming a wonderful human being I appreciate his improvements not try to put him down 24/ 7 😆with that i trust he will put all this criticism in waste bin soon Just wait and watch 😳

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saba113

@saba113

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Yes. He can marry Sa - but it is wrong to do so without full disclosure about what is in his heart. That makes him a CHEATER.

why dont you wait and see the upcoming episodes before blame game 😕

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saba113

@saba113

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

If he can't be impressed by Sanchi and care for her silly antics then he needs to SAY IT - OWN IT - DECLARE IT. He's not a 2 year old, but an adult with two failed marriages/relationships.

He said it how many times ? 😕 Rest WAIT AND SEE THE SERIAL 😆 before jumping on to conclusion Ok you and me can have a bet here for this lets see who loses

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KiranlovSriti

@KiranlovSriti

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Posted: 12 years ago

#64

Ganga even not calling Jagya, and if she calls him then she becum a leech? When Anandi did sumthing you can see her sitution, her motive, and her concern but not in Ganga's case? coz Ganga is a big comptision for Anandi. To make Anandi biger and mahan its very importen to make Ganga a leech. Anandi is Devi and Ganga is leech? Great. We know Ganga is faultless and pure hearted. These cheap thinking can never touch her. So proud of my self that I neve think this kind of cheap things for any women. Disgusting.

Edited by KiranlovSriti - 12 years ago

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SPuja

@SPuja

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Posted: 12 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

One cannot control others or others reaction to one's actions. What Sanchi did, does, do is not the point. What J does is. Marriage is a relationship that requires love and honesty to flourish. If he cannot love Sanchi then he has obligation to be honest with her about it. So, yup he's at the very least ruining two lives. His own and Sanchi's. It was fine to marry her up to the point where he did not love another woman and there was potential he would love Sanchi. Beyond that he is WRONG.

But, I will leave you to your own moral compass. As I said in a previous post - where I found character A in the other serial I watch admirable is that his first thought upon realizing he loved wife 1 was to want to tell his wife 2 about it. Also, when he told wife 2 about having fallen in love he did so in person in a secluded space not via telephone. Kash kash kash J had learnt from the past.

@blue above - completely agree. And at least he could have told Shiv (if not Sanchi), when Shiv asked relevant question before engagement that he agreed to this marriage only for his family and on his own, he still does not want to marry anyone. He was not honest to anyone as far as this marriage proposal.

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@Spring-Dew

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Posted: 12 years ago

#66

I bet he won't love anyone than Ganga 😳if he won't do then i won't see him bashed🥱

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ButterflyOnRose

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+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#67

Well i failed to understand where Jagya is not honest to anyone Did he have intuitions he cannot get along with Sanchi ? Does Shiv not know his sister's love story is one sided 🥱What he could have said to Shiv on engagement day? I have been forced by my parents into this please take your sister away 🥱He only said i know what i am doing Don't worry ? What ever he will do he knows God knows where he is dishonest to greats here When they already know everything still they are unaware Wow 🥱

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AnjanaYYZ

@AnjanaYYZ

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 12 years ago

#68

@Saba - at the point he learns that Ganga loves him and he doesn't break off relationship with Sa then it becomes 3 ruined lives. At this point its 2 - his and Sanchi's. As I stated, even without Ganga's feelings in the equation he has not ever explicitly told Sa that he cannot love her. That is DISHONEST. The character of J is such is that he will speak the truth only when the situation is much more grave not at the first available instance - which was immediately after he realized he was in love with Ganga. Like justice - truth delayed is truth denied.

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AnjanaYYZ

@AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 12 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: sidra08
Well i failed to understand where Jagya is not honest to anyone Did he have intuitions he cannot get along with Sanchi ? Does Shiv not know his sister's love story is one sided 🥱What he could have said to Shiv on engagement day? I have been forced by my parents into this please take your sister away 🥱He only said i know what i am doing Don't worry ? What ever he will do he knows God knows where he is dishonest to greats here When they already know everything still they are unaware Wow 🥱

Sidra - he realized he loves Ganga and then spent 6 months pretending all was well in a relationship with Sanchi. That is DISHONESTY. If he cannot love her - then he should have immediately told her and freed them both.

Ira even gave him an out while he was in Udaipur. He didn't take it. Instead promising to take better care of Sanchi. Fine. When he realized that he loved Ganga then at least he could have told. NO. That would not be Jagya. Its the same thing he did with Anandi and Gauri. For three years he mistreated Anandi and did not disclose his relationship with Gauri. Here he is being dishonest with Sa for 6 months while he moons emotionally over Ga. Its milder repeat of same immoral behaviour

Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 12 years ago

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saba113

@saba113

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#70

Anjana ...he is in tough spot A hole in front a hole behind , holes all sides and he was depressed what he never wanted all that happening in his life A human being he is too but calling him cheater , dishonest in my view is harsh He never knew things would become like this just like Anandi never thought mujh sai nahi ho ga she will say after marriage she thought she is ready but she was not Jagya did not know things will become like this If because of him any life is ruined any grave damage is caused then if you are saying so then ok but nothing like this happening neither will happen Blaming him for ruining any life is wrong if anyone is suffering its he only and his only mistake he wanted to live a life according to what his family wanted but they are acting as dumbs for that i don't blame him perhaps you do i don;t

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