Balika Vadhu Written Update 6/9/2013 J's transitiong journey of life! - Page 6

Originally posted by: saba113

Just read it now You are saying he loves Ganga so break up with Sanchi like its so easy for him Its NOT COMPLICATED😲 o wow can you please narrate how this is so easy for him 😕Does he know Ganga loves him? The episode hasn't aired yet where he gets to know can he risk his family's honor and Ganga's honor by announcing this in front of everyone i love Ganga so want to marry her Won't it lead to tiff between Singhs and Shekhars and Singhs will be ashamed ?, Ganga's character will be slandered His mother already hates her and moreover what more he can do speak bad about Sanchi Can't do that Announce in front of Shekhars and Singhs me and Sanchi cannot get along well I believe that will lead to a lecture to him try to adjust because Sanchi is lying to everyone pretending to be good girl trying to adjust with him even Anandi was lecturing him about that so what will that lead to lecture to him Try to adjust

He promised his family and he is living up to it Is that wrong ?

Originally posted by: santhiyaa_J

It is easy to say but difficult to understand🤔 if he would love sanchi also u will bash and Ganga also u will bash🤪

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Where J is wrong is that per the story he's realized he loves Ganga - and has done so for 6 months... Yet, he is not being honest. He is emotionally cheating Sanchi, himself, and Ganga. That is not right or fair or appropriate. If J had really changed then this is his test.

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Quite simply - at its core, its wrong to marry one woman while in love with another. Forget whether Ganga loves him or not. That is irrelevant. The moment he realized that he loved Ganga. He had an obligation to end or inform his relationship with Sa - at least contemplate it. If he cannot love her then he is cheating her. Yes. It will lead to problems. But, it is the RESPONSIBLE thing to do. Tell Sanchi that he does not love her and ask if she still wants to proceed with the marriage or break it off. What is morally correct in this situation is not complicated.

Originally posted by: saba113

AHEM did not understand anything in rest post sorry but this part pulled me where he is emotionally cheating Sanchi and Ganga ? where he is ruining their life ?Sanchi he never loved her The fact Sanchi knows very well She thinks he will love me and again and again it is been clear to her he is not interested in her yet again she is after him so he is dishonest He is ruining her life Wow In my view she is ruining her own life and his too and Ganga is he damaging her life 😕when , where , how ?😕what he did with her ?He never helped her thinking he loves her when he realized he loves her he distanced himself from her so he can forget her and she too can move on from him and be independent Is he ruining her life in this way ? or making sure her life won't be ruined ???

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Jagya when he agreed to marry Sanchi he should have told her straight away that he is marrying to make the family happy not because he wanted to get married.

She knows this perhaps why you guys are forgetting this he already told her and she said that to him on proposal day Have a bet with me 😕

Now having said yes to Sanchi and realising that he wanted Ganga he should have broken his relationship with Sanchi or tried to put Ganga out of his mind or tried to get closer to Sanchi if he still felt that making his family happy is more important than staying in a relationship with where he cannot feel anything towards the woman he was committed to.

Originally posted by: saba113

many a times in the world people are not lucky enough to marry the person they love but yet again they lead to successful marriage with another person that does not mean they are cheaters they try their best and this what exactly Jagya is doing He has already made a promise with his parents and said he will marry Sanchi he is living up to it sacrificing his love Distancing himself from Ganga and cheating would be that if Sanchi the victim would not know he does not love her and is not interested in her She knows very well so where he is cheating ?

anyways we live on two different planets in this case lets agree to disagree as far Jagya is concerned he will come out as a shining star from this all i know that i trust him if you don't cannot change your opinion😃

Originally posted by: saba113

he is trying to put Ganga off his mind if she cannot go how can you he did neither Seeing even this episode you are saying he is not trying to adjust with Sanchi sending nice to her silly picture Now who can love Sanchi 's silly antics and say wow wow with a broad smile 🥱