Balika Vadhu Written Update 6/9/2013 J's transitiong journey of life! - Page 8

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Sidra - he realized he loves Ganga and then spent 6 months pretending all was well in a relationship with Sanchi. That is DISHONESTY. If he cannot love her - then he should have immediately told her and freed them both.

Ira even gave him an out while he was in Udaipur. He didn't take it. Instead promising to take better care of Sanchi. Fine. When he realized that he loved Ganga then at least he could have told. NO. That would not be Jagya. Its the same thing he did with Anandi and Gauri. For three years he mistreated Anandi and did not disclose his relationship with Gauri. Here he is being dishonest with Sa for 6 months while he moons emotionally over Ga. Its milder repeat of same immoral behaviour

Originally posted by: saba113

To Ira he only said i will take care of Sanchi and not give you chance of complain He never said i will live all my births with her 😆and That was no way out for him and the questioning came out all too late with a big risk of a tiff between two families

and where he was mooning over Ganga emotionally he was distancing himself from her and Sa seriously his behavior is same with her while 6 months ago when he did not realize his love for Ganga even then ?Still he was same ?

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

How can a mother not complain if he loves another woman and gets irritated by her messages? Its two-faced and a lie. And marriage is a promise in hindu culture of 7 lifetimes, so that is what he is promising by agreeing to marry Sanchi. If that is not a commitment he can keep then he should not have told Ira that he would marry Sanchi. When he realized 6 months ago that he loved Ganga - then that was time for him to break off with Sanchi. Instead for six months he was trying to "forget"... and "remembering" Ganga.

Originally posted by: sidra08

its unfortunate Anita this forum has become a complete war zone Even updates are not left no respect for anyone's opinion and such comments are posted which forces other one to come up now calling Ganga leech , shameless why not it will lit fire other one will respond in some language Some people have deliberately ruined the peace of forum Why not have healthy debate instead of using such terms ?

sigh i gave up i don't expect this state ever changing

Originally posted by: andv

Sidra I understand, some comments can hurt, but at the end of the day each person is responsible for their own opinion right? Unfortunately such comments come from either side. What makes me feel bad is why should we have sides in the first place? Why can't a character be judged solely on his or her own actions? If one is criticized why should the character from the so called other side be used as a yardstick to counter argue? You have been on this forum for long and I also consider you as a friend so on that basis can I request you to please ignore comments which you don't like? If each of us get confrontational, things will go out of hand and a discussion which could be beautiful and enriching can look nasty. Please don't think that I am directing this at you, it a very general statement that I am making. I am not preaching either, but this forum has been very very good at respecting each other's opinions. Let's not divide ourselves like this. Please! its only a friendly request.

Originally posted by: andv

Sidra thanks for taking my request in the right sense 🤗. I totally agree, this forum is like a second home and hence all the members are very dear.