HT-M-Whats next on Balika Vadhu - Page 4

Originally posted by: libsrocks

Looks like with MIL even mother is going to go against Anandi...poor girl

so looks like Jagya has given shelter to Ganga in some hospital...this option is better but what will happen to her studies in Mangalore...why do CVs compromise on career and studies to give a push to love story...looks like Jagya-Ganga are going to become another post-marriage AnSh

Maybe we got it wrong...by passionate means little unintentional closeness type night b/w Ashima- Mahi...it will look odd if they will show very intimate scenes b/w them because Ashima is not over Shiv and Mahi is not one to sleep or even get intentionally so close to girl who is still crying for someone else...and if there is something really passionate about this night then it means Shiv is the only dumb person when it comes to romance because his sibilings are far more forward then he is😲😆

libs ganga got her admission in Manglore.. in serial they haven't said that the College has started and its almost less than a week or two weeks(in BV world) her results were anounced..
so i think she will agree to stay there till her college starts n then move to m'lore

Anandi's first love which was in many ways unrequited was Jagya

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anandi's first love which was in many ways unrequited was Jagya

Ashima's first love whic was unrequited was Shiv.

What are all the things Anandi did for her love Jagya-

She gave up her dreams.She learnt to put up with his DS.She made his dreams her dreams.She worked hard to make his dreams come true.Not because she thought it was the right thing but for her own happiness.Because her happiness lay in his happiness.

Ashima loved Shiv and wanted to share her life with him but was she willing to give away anything for that happiness that comes from sharing her life with him?

Did she ever understand his dreams?Leave alone making them hers.

She was living a comfortable life in some place which she did not want to give up even for the love of her life.

She came visiting did she even try to get to know about the kind of life he lead in the village he was working?

The question is about the extent of Ashima's love for Shiv or whether it is love in the first place.

She did not fight for him because she liked Anandi.Was he ever hers to give him up for smeone else?

It is not about spending passionate night with someone.It is about how a girl who claimed to love that person and still crying over him can feel passion for another man?

Exactly Apy thats what I said...she didnt love him...she jus "thot" she loved him...so if she feels something truely for Mahi that doesnt make her bad.Its not necessary that everyone is as perfect as Anandi.(talking of solely d character).Ashi mistook her attraction for Shiv as her love and drowned into self pity...doesn't mean she is a kind of girl who will easily take "solace in the next available man's arms"...just bcoz someone is not Anandi doesnt mean they r not good enough...and this I am saying myself being a huge Anandi fan! Yes probably Ashi herself cudnt ustand whther it was love or mere infatuation but she never thot bad of anandi/shiv...its just that shes not as strong as anandi...but for sure dat doesnt make her bad or less as many here r trying to show.

Originally posted by: Malika

Exactly Apy thats what I said...she didnt love him...she jus "thot" she loved him...so if she feels something truely for Mahi that doesnt make her bad.Its not necessary that everyone is as perfect as Anandi.(talking of solely d character).Ashi mistook her attraction for Shiv as her love and drowned into self pity...doesn't mean she is a kind of girl who will easily take "solace in the next available man's arms"...just bcoz someone is not Anandi doesnt make they r not good enough...and this I am saying myself being a huge Anandi fan! Yes probably she herself cudnt ustand whther it was love or mere infatuation but she never thot bad of anandi...its just that shes not as strong as anandi...but for sure dat doesnt make her bad or less as many here r trying to show.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anandi's first love which was in many ways unrequited was Jagya

Ashima's first love whic was unrequited was Shiv.

What are all the things Anandi did for her love Jagya-

She gave up her dreams.She learnt to put up with his DS.She made his dreams her dreams.She worked hard to make his dreams come true.Not because she thought it was the right thing but for her own happiness.Because her happiness lay in his happiness.

Ashima loved Shiv and wanted to share her life with him but was she willing to give away anything for that happiness that comes from sharing her life with him?

Did she ever understand his dreams?Leave alone making them hers.

She was living a comfortable life in some place which she did not want to give up even for the love of her life.

She came visiting did she even try to get to know about the kind of life he lead in the village he was working?

The question is about the extent of Ashima's love for Shiv or whether it is love in the first place.

She did not fight for him because she liked Anandi.Was he ever hers to give him up for smeone else?

It is not about spending passionate night with someone.It is about how a girl who claimed to love that person and still crying over him can feel passion for another man?

Originally posted by: Malika

Exactly Apy thats what I said...she didnt love him...she jus "thot" she loved him...so if she feels something truely for Mahi that doesnt make her bad.Its not necessary that everyone is as perfect as Anandi.(talking of solely d character).Ashi mistook her attraction for Shiv as her love and drowned into self pity...doesn't mean she is a kind of girl who will easily take "solace in the next available man's arms"...just bcoz someone is not Anandi doesnt mean they r not good enough...and this I am saying myself being a huge Anandi fan! Yes probably Ashi herself cudnt ustand whther it was love or mere infatuation but she never thot bad of anandi/shiv...its just that shes not as strong as anandi...but for sure dat doesnt make her bad or less as many here r trying to show.

Originally posted by: Malika

Dont u/stand how does this prove ashima to be any bad or characterless???Does passionate night really mean dey did it??It can be a uncomfortable situation with mutual attractions.Strange some ppl r too quick in forming preconceived notions.And even if shes involving with mahi it doesnt make her any bad...she claims she still loves shiv and lost him coz he chose anandi but its just that for some ppl it difficult to let go of their attractions/infatuations easily...they become prone to self-pity.Doesnt mean if they feel something for someone else it makes dem a girl who can find solace in any man's arms.I think thats the reason why most girls who suffer unrequited love/attractions feel pity for themselves...coz the society look down upon them 🤢

Originally posted by: aparnauma

What I have said in my earlier posts were in response to the posts that come up time and again saying how Shiv was better off with Ashima because she loved him more than Anandi does and he is much better off with Ashima.

Because I always believed that Ashima only thought that she loved him and she herself broke her heart.Even if Anandi was nowhere on scene he would have felt about her that way.

Even when A was nowhere close to feeling love for him she did a lot more things for Shiv that Ashima did not do despite claiming to love him.That's what gave Shiv the feeling that her love was worth many troubles that came his way while he was trying to make her his own.

Agreed Ashima is no mahaan like Anandi and does not have the capacity to give like Anandi did.

But her love for Shiv was not evident in any of her actions so far.Her love was not strong enough to come and live in the place where he was working.That is the first thing a woman has to do change her place of living and move to her husband's place.

Even ordinary women make a lot of adjustments wrt their career once they desire to settle down with the one who they fell in love with.Ashima was not even willing to do that for her love.

I was only questioning her love for Shiv not her behaviour.Her love was not strng enough even to make a few adjustments like change in life style and career adjustments.

If she really had felt such strong emotions for Shiv would she be able to feel the passion for someone so soon?Was my question behind my comment in the original post.

Its obvious that Ashima never loved him.Those ppl who think Shiv was better off with Ashima than anandi probably dont understand AnSh, so I dont bother abt such views.But i disagree that AShima's behaviour was not questioned and insulted on this thread. The statement "Ashimas of the world can only cry and cry and then get solace in the arms of the next available man" is such a downgraded statement(sry if that sounds hurting!) But whats her fault?? just that she misunderstood her infatuation as love?Okay she doesnt know that she never loved Shiv and is still stuck upon that emotion. But then what?Even Anandi took a long time to come over Jagya...almost years.SO why cant Ashima take time to come over her liking. And its just been a few months since Anandi Shiv got married...then why is ashima expected to be happy or healed suddenly.Even if she didnt love him she still somewhere had feelings for him...she had a soft corner for him.Just because she has not realized her mistake doesnt mean shes a kind of girl who can just cry.Not to forget shes the one who has been "deliberately" keeping herself away from her friend.Bcoz she knows shes not that strong to treat the man she likes just as a friend...so she keeps away.And this is a sign of strength not weakness.And thus I disagree that girls like her just cry and then find solace in the arms of the next available man.She may not be as strong as anandi but she aint weak either and nor is someone who will just cry.

PS - My view is purely based on what i hv seen of her till date and i wont be surprised if they turn ashima negative to again prove that village girls r better than city girls.

Originally posted by: libsrocks

after getting so many experiences with BV i think we should not comment on what has not yet been shown 😆...But on serious if feel bad that people are telling Ashima has a lose character...every girl has her individual personality...just because Anandi fund it difficult to move on does not mean everyone girl is so difficult...i support both Ashima and even Ganga for this...what is so wrong as characterless about Ganga f she falls for Jagya first...in fact i feel if Jagya would have fallen for Ganga then it would have looked odd because he was claiming to love Anandi whereas Ganga never said that she loves Ratan

They would have been fine like many arranged marriage couples but not exactly happy.Bcoz true happiness in a relationship means finding someone you can love unconditionally.Its about being with someone who understands your needs as an individual and whose needs as an individual u r willing to understand and support.This equation would surely have been missing between them.

Originally posted by: Malika

Its obvious that Ashima never loved him.Those ppl who think Shiv was better off with Ashima than anandi probably dont understand AnSh, so I dont bother abt such views.But i disagree that AShima's behaviour was not questioned and insulted on this thread. The statement "Ashimas of the world can only cry and cry and then get solace in the arms of the next available man" is such a downgraded statement(sry if that sounds hurting!) But whats her fault?? just that she misunderstood her infatuation as love?Okay she doesnt know that she never loved Shiv and is still stuck upon that emotion. But then what?Even Anandi took a long time to come over Jagya...almost years.SO why cant Ashima take time to come over her liking. And its just been a few months since Anandi Shiv got married...then why is ashima expected to be happy or healed suddenly.Even if she didnt love him she still somewhere had feelings for him...she had a soft corner for him.Just because she has not realized her mistake doesnt mean shes a kind of girl who can just cry.Not to forget shes the one who has been "deliberately" keeping herself away from her friend.Bcoz she knows shes not that strong to treat the man she likes just as a friend...so she keeps away.And this is a sign of strength not weakness.And thus I disagree that girls like her just cry and then find solace in the arms of the next available man.She may not be as strong as anandi but she aint weak either and nor is someone who will just cry.

PS - My view is purely based on what i hv seen of her till date and i wont be surprised if they turn ashima negative to again prove that village girls r better than city girls.