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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't know if I should bring the comparison of Ganga and Padma here, but there is a vast difference in both their situations.

G is an orphan and has no support system or anyone to stand by her. She is uneducated and has a kid to take care of. Its a fact that she did all the housework but she had no choice if she wanted to be near her kid who was her only hope of living. She stayed with Rat only for her kid's sake so that he would not grow up to be like his father and she could play her role in giving him good values. She did try to escape in spite of that after knowing that her kid would be taken away from her by those monsters but was caught in the bargain.

What Padma did today, she would not have been able to if Rat and his gang were around. There is very little that anyone can do (regardless of a male or female) if they were to face a gang of people single handed. Padma, has a brother who is a police inspector hence she has someone to turn to and that too someone with authority. Hence its easier for her to speak up or take the step she took.

About what Sachi told G: Well Sachi said it in very bad taste and she only means to harm G. So I would take it with a pinch of salt. Nevertheless from G's perspective, as long as Sumi was not so vocal and insulting towards G it was totally fine for her to stay at the haveli given that the Singhs forced her to stay and promised to protect her. But with time and with Sachi's entry, things started getting worse with G. She was ridiculed, insulted and treated badly. In such a situation, yes I too hoped she just left the house. Nevertheless, its easier said than done. Not being in a position yet to fend for herself and the responsibility of a kid is not easy for her to take such a drastic step. In this situation, I hoped the Singhs and G could have thought of an alternative accommodation like living in a woman's shelter along with seeking police protection. Things would not have aggravated to such an extent then.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#12
well, the show meant to be entertainment so it was...the lady padma, was and is a selfish one, as she married such man who was already married and had a child, tht time she supported him against ganga and now the things hav change and made her bechari but she is not the one as she is the one jumped in marriage with ratan singh...no one will respect a women till she herself start respecting a women

and abt the violence and cruel fact...they are the real thing..no need to hate them as they are mirror of our own society...these things happen in our own surrounding...the truth show is always bitter...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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In singhs family only sumi is taunting her and disliking her.Every other member loves her from the bottom of their heart.She will show her self respect in front of those people who gave her kasam that never say that you will leave,you are the family member.Ganga knows when she will get admission she will leave haveli so why creating a scene!

In sanchi's words ganga has no self respect but sanchi was filled with self respect when she was irritating jagya with her continuous disgusting flirts even after seeing jagya is not liking it.Aww,she is a bachchi,how can she understand this but she has all brains to plan and plot of changing everything about singhs.

Anandi has no self respect because she digested all the nakhras and insults in past from gauri and in present from both ira and sanchi.Whole shekhars family has no self respect when every time they digests all the absurd talks and doings of sanchi!Ganga has no self respect because sumi is taunting her.Sanchi is right.Sumitra is right!Padma is right!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Those who are think i mentioned Saanchi's point to degrade Ganga are wrong...i did not mean such thing...what i mean to say was many a times we have seen Anandi and Ganga getting snubbed by their in-laws and they got respect only when they protected their self-respect...so in a way Saanchi was right to say that a woman gets respect only when she starts respecting herself...i just thought what Padma said if Ganga would have said something like this before maybe she might have escaped but i guess i am wrong to say this...one can say it's not at all easy for Ganga to go protest against her in-laws as they are bunch of monsters...if a woman fails does not mean always she is weak but it means that the opponent s just stronger than her...i am not bashing her...in fact after Shiv she is one of my favourite character...but it's high time Anandi gives back to Saanchi because sometimes i feel Shiv is least interested to take control over Saanchi because Anandi herself gets away with whatever Saanchi does.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shankythebest

In singhs family only sumi is taunting her and disliking her.Every other member loves her from the bottom of their heart.She will show her self respect in front of those people who gave her kasam that never say that you will leave,you are the family member.Ganga knows when she will get admission she will leave haveli so why creating a scene!

In sanchi's words ganga has no self respect but sanchi was filled with self respect when she was irritating jagya with her continuous disgusting flirts even after seeing jagya is not liking it.Aww,she is a bachchi,how can she understand this but she has all brains to plan and plot of changing everything about singhs.

Anandi has no self respect because she digested all the nakhras and insults in past from gauri and in present from both ira and sanchi.Whole shekhars family has no self respect when every time they digests all the absurd talks and doings of sanchi!Ganga has no self respect because sumi is taunting her.Sanchi is right.Sumitra is right!Padma is right!

@Shanky no one degrading Ganga...we are just saying that what Saanchi said is very true not that we support Saanchi and we are in no means degrading Ganga...she was very decent for not saying anything to Saanchi or Sumitra...we are just telling our views but we also know it;s whole superficial because in Ganga's condition it;s not easy to stand up
Agree to some extent in bold

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Libs,I am not saying you are degrading Ganga,I know all of us are giving our views.I know you and your posts.But I felt bad today padma is seeming better than ganga!But what actually she did so unique today that she is getting praises.That woman never faced any difficulty in her life.She is saying she will give mannu such sanskars that mannu will be as great as his great father.Did she realize for once what was the condition of ganga.Did she felt bad for ganga!By saying 'I am not ganga that I will endure everything' doesn't prove her brave and great.Because she used to behave the same way with ganga and mannu like others in ratan family.

Sanchi talking about self respect is a big joke.We all know why she is barking about self respect so much and she got good answers from ganga.

You always praised ganga but today with your posts it seems padma sanchi has become greater than ganga.I read your post yesterday how you said ganga can't be blamed though you can understand sumi.So I felt bad because padma,sanchi are the worst kind of creatures exists in this world.People will feel bad just like sumi if anandi will be compared with ganga,it can be considered because both are positive characters in their own ways,but comparing padma and sanchi with ganga saying probably ganga lacks self respect is unfair.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#17
what happened today? 25jul. did ganga surrender to Ratan?
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Posted: 12 years ago
#18
yeah she came running when she heard jagya fighing...now all are bound and ganga surrendered...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nri-tv

what happened today? 25jul. did ganga surrender to Ratan?

I knew it ...that she would forget her kasam only when he hears her dactarsa's name. She came out and fell over his unconscious body and threatened ratan that if anything happens to dactarsa... blah blah... and then agreed to give him her son... For her love for doctorsa, she sacrificed her son.

Wonder what happened to ---'she would rather die than give her son to that murderer?' dialogues ???



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Heya Libs ...

True even i am also attracted to this track ..not because the track is good but they are good at keeping us glue to serial getting outsiders one by one ..we all wanted to see who saves whom and how every one saved without damage 😳..

Today's episode is good ..though i have a big feeling that ganga drowned in her feeling let know everyone she loves jagiya and make herself fool in front of Rathan..it didn't happened so i am happy..

I never wanted ganga to come out ..instead i wanted her to do something unique she didn't so though she came out their is no use ..she took the same old path of sacrifice mode and letdown everyone ..

Most important and lovely understanding between anandi and shiv ..they both so mutually respect each other and took decisions ..Both of did a good acting their 👍🏼..

Hope by tomorrow they will end this Hostage dramma 😃

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