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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

He could have very politely told her off.He may not be leading her on but his behaviour is being construed as her leading her on in her mind.

Even during the phone conversation he did realise that she was coming on to him did feel uncomfortable.He could have backed off or changed the conversation.That's what people usually do if they want to esacpe from unwanted situations.Or he could have easily told her thta he needs to get off the phone because he had something else to do.
If that happens a few times the other person does get the hint that he/she is not interested in him/her.
He does not see any harm in being friendly with her which is fair enough given their families are connected but he should have tried to put a distance without being rude to her.


It is happening obviously because he doesn't know how to handle relationships which he had never done before in his life.Never realised the value of relationships.

If Sanchi foists herself on him he himself also has to be blamed along with Sanchi's parents.

bold..i completely agree...he did the same when initially he was friends with gauri..and then got involved in gauri...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jagaya has politely told Sanchi many times and even excused himself many times on phone conversations with her Drove his car off when she was saying to him she will miss him during his KB visit There are many such examples but has she understood any? She only has advanced not stopped He was shocked to the extremes when she gave him the love teddy but did this girl get any hint ? NO The guy has given her many hints so its not right to say she is increasing in her advances because of him where he has given several hints to her crystal clear i am not interested in what you are doing your advances towards me Here she actually emotionally blackmailed him to say all that and he was only polite to her not to make her feel bad otherwise she was showing herself to be guilty she troubled him a lot while taking care of him thats why he said that How can he put her off here or hung up ?and do we think she will stop here she will keep trying until she won't directly listen from his mouth If she really is so smart to get hints why she could not get before and even here he gave her many hints if she has two pieces of sense in her she will understand but she is too consumed in her obsession and desires to get him she cannot understand any thing

and whats wrong in his behavior? He is only being nice to her but one fact he doesn't know no one should be nice to Sanchi as Sanchi always takes it to wrong direction
Edited by hina13 - 12 years ago

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