29th June WU- Jagdish's Surprise Birthday Party :O

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Jan50

@Jan50

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Posted: 12 years ago

#31

@Anu_rulez, can you blame A if she valued Singhs more than her father Kazaan?

He and Bhago handed overrather palmed off heir child caring responsibility to the Singhs by

Child marriage against all advise from the teacher. Occasionally they visited Singhs with nothing more than "gani kamma" . Singhs are her parents litterally because they treated her like a daughter

Unlike other monsters lke Ganga's in laws.

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Jan50

@Jan50

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Posted: 12 years ago

#32

Contd.. That was the biggest folly of our entire so called fore fathers. If India today is over populated

It is because of this reason. They got rid of female children before their puberty by marriage. They

Never cared how she is coping up. Lot of girl's lives became a total misery. I blame the girl's

parents more.

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SPuja

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Jan50
Contd.. That was the biggest folly of our entire so called fore fathers. If India today is over populated
It is because of this reason. They got rid of female children before their puberty by marriage. They

Never cared how she is coping up. Lot of girl's lives became a total misery. I blame the girl's

parents more.

@bold above, we know the fact about over population, but in the serial, it is not shown - this is one of the worst outcome of bal-vivah, but what they show is that everybody has just one or two child. Anandi,Phooli,Gauri, Bhairo, Basant etc. are their parents only child. Bhairo, Madan Singh, Sugna etc. have two children. Only Gahna's parents had three children.

But I do not agree that Bhago-Khajan did not care about Anandi. If Anandi's bal-vivah was an exception in the village, then it could be agreed that they did wrong, but when every girl was married like Anandi, then it is not true that Khajan-Bhago did not care about her. Teacherji was an exception and her sane voice was not heard by the entire village (not only Anandi's parent).

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

#34

Bal Vivah was the norm in the community which was shown in the serial.

Bhago and Khazan had some advicing them against it but still they went ahead with it,

They had enough walking examples of bal vivah gone wrong in front of their own eyes.There was a girl in the neigbour hood who couldn't have children any more because she had ssuffered consequences of teenage pregnancy and was sent back to her parents house then there is story of Champa who committed suicide after giving birth to Gulli Then there was Phooli who became widow at an when she did not even know the meaning of marriage.All these girls were considered as burdens by their own familes.Another girl also committed suicide.Seeing all this Bhago decided that she will send Anandi off to her inlaws place instaed of waiting till she got older and entrust Singhs with the responsibility of taking care of Anandi.

For right or wrong reasons out of love for their child Bhago and Khazan have handed over the responsibility of raising their child to Singhs.Anandi survived the atrocities of child marriage because of Singhs who took their responsibility seriously.When she was wronged by their son they took the corrective measures and made sure she got a much better life than she did when she was with them.In short Singhs did what parents should have done.I don't think it was wrong if Anandi connects with Singhs more than she does with her parents.

Ganga's life was bad because she did not have supportive in laws like Anandi had.

If Sumi and Bhairon did not put their foot down Anandi would have ended up as a mother at the age of 13/14 years if DS and J had their way.So it was Sumi and Bhairon who did lot more for her than her own parents.

If Anandi doesn't feel so close to her birth parents it is the price they had to pay in the name following social norms and got rid of their responsibility.They may have taken that decision out of love for their child but still it was a wrong decision.Anandi as a child has felt abandoned by her parents.Adult Anandi understood why her parents did what they did and saw their love behind that decision and that's the reason she promised her mother that she will marry Shiv.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

#35

Thanks for the written update.

Well Sanchi and her drama continues.I wonder how long it will take for Singhs and J to realise her loving village and village life is a drama.

Hope Mahi puts an end to her drama on this.

Was nice to Khazan back after such a long time.Like someone has said the feel of the BV that it used to be is slowly coming back.Hope the CVs continue with this.

Why is Jagya telling Sanchi that he misses her?That can easily be taken as encouragement especially if someone has their mind set on believing that he cares for her too.

He may not have realised her feelings for him but still he could have told her off in a nice way since he already admitted not liking her company much.

He had no problems in putting off his own legitimate wife when he found her company undesirable.Why can't he do the same with Sanchi?If Sanchi takes this as his interest in her who is to be blamed?

Shouldn't DS be calling and inviting Shekhars if she wanted them to attend her grandson's birthday bash?

Why are the Shekhars banking on Jagya's negative answer instead of trying to drill some sense in their daughter's head?If she is not listening why can't they just leave her to learn her own lessons and be there for her while she recovers from the kicks that life has delivered?

Shivraj Shekhar's way of dealing with the damage is by making sure his wife is there with Sanchi.How long will this work?

Precap - Looks promising.I hope the episode lives upto this promise

Toral's performance was good esp in the scene with Khazan and in the phone conversation scene with Ganga.Toral has come a long way.She was totally unwatchable when she started and now her performances seem to go with the flow of the story instead of interrupting the story and sticking out like sore thumb.But she still has some more distance to go before she is completely there.

Other than Toral's it was Jaineeraj as Alok who came up with good performance as an angry frustrated father.

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 12 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Why is Jagya telling Sanchi that he misses her?That can easily be taken as encouragement especially if someone has their mind set on believing that he cares for her too.
He may not have realised her feelings for him but still he could have told her off in a nice way since he already admitted not liking her company much.
He had no problems in putting off his own legitimate wife when he found her company undesirable.Why can't he do the same with Sanchi?If Sanchi takes this as his interest in her who is to be blamed?

Being polite and nice to someone is wrong? This is Ira's approach be polite and nice to her daughter and get blamed for her actions because she always wrongly use it if Sanchi is taking his politeness as his love then she is dumb why blame Jagaya 😕and moreover Sanchi made him say that on his own he didn't say anything like this or did he say to her that i miss you ?what he can say to her when she is asking him are you missing me and along with it went on and on i troubled you a lot ordering you to take rest , take your medicines on time etc this that so he in a friendly way said to her no you didn't trouble me but i miss all that you took care of me really well This is just normal courtesy which Sanchi is taking too far and is misunderstanding

and there is difference between old Jagaya and this Jagaya That one who put his legitimate wife mam off lacked patience in him to handle an undesirable situation He use to become angry this one is mature enough just can't get angry and put Sanchi off without any reason For him she was only taking care of him so why he should put her off for that ?😕he likes it or not but breaking Sanchi's heart for this is wrong as he doesn't know her real intentions yet she has fallen in love with him thats why she is taking care of him and Anandi assured him Sanchi was only trying to pay him back for what he did for her so how he can put Sanchi off for now ?He has no reason with him

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

#37

He could have very politely told her off.He may not be leading her on but his behaviour is being construed as her leading her on in her mind.

Even during the phone conversation he did realise that she was coming on to him did feel uncomfortable.He could have backed off or changed the conversation.That's what people usually do if they want to esacpe from unwanted situations.Or he could have easily told her thta he needs to get off the phone because he had something else to do.

If that happens a few times the other person does get the hint that he/she is not interested in him/her.

He does not see any harm in being friendly with her which is fair enough given their families are connected but he should have tried to put a distance without being rude to her.

It is happening obviously because he doesn't know how to handle relationships which he had never done before in his life.Never realised the value of relationships.

If Sanchi foists herself on him he himself also has to be blamed along with Sanchi's parents.

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 12 years ago

#38

Well i really don't think here any relationship handling is coming He doesn't hold any relationship with Sanchi apart from just being friendly to her The actual thing is which he don't know its really wrong to be nice to Sanchi because she always misinterprets it and misuses it and everyone gets blamed for her actions so everyone should stop being nice to her If he would have changed the topic of discussion or hung up would she have stopped ? NEVER because this also he has done before He has given several clear hints to her he is not interested in her advances if she wants to be friendly with him most welcome rest don't cross limits still she is unable to understand until she won't directly hear from his mouth she will never understand

Of course he will blame himself and regret why he was nice to Sanchi He should have understood one cannot be nice to her

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RainbowKitty

@RainbowKitty

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Posted: 12 years ago

#39

Thanks for update 😊

Episode was good on Singhs part but Shekhars 🥱

Ganga so happy and excited for doctor saa's birthday😳 Of course he is so special to her she will do everything to make his special day more special to make him feel special and happy😳Can't wait to see how she will surprise him and what gift she will give to him😳

Love Dadisaa and Ganga's bonding Dadisaa trust Ganga so much and therefore she gave all arrangements to her because she knows Ganga will do her best Sumi cannot really open her mouth much in front of Dadisaa

Sanchi called Jagaya How she can really be at peace without calling him and she forced him to say all that with her emotional torture and Sanchi is taking his answer as he also likes her , missing her 🥱Poor Jagaya he only tried not to make her feel bad but he don't know he is inviting trouble for him by being nice to her Sanchi is pretty strange first she calls a person and asks him are you missing me along with using such words like i troubled you so much while taking care of you and she is saying all that almost on verge of crying and the other person is trapped what to say here and has to say no you didn't trouble me i miss your care and on hearing this Sanchi is on cloud nine he misses me . he likes me 🤪

Sanchi was saying she cannot forget Jagaya even if she died She can never forget him even if tries Well of course you will never forget him because you are going to keep him in your memories forever not that your one sided love story is going to succeed in anyway

I don't think Jagaya is naive here who cannot understand Sanchi's advances He does doubt her but understanding his situation its out of his expectations that Sanchi can think like this for him This is something which he cannot even expect in his dreams so he is not confirming his doubt

Jagaya was so happy he can go out now Go to hospital for work Awww i can understand Its really a torture to stay at one place and just rest Can't do anything more Being sick and tied in one place is really a torture

Nice to see Khajan Singh back after such a long time Anandi recognizes her father ? 😲 really😆Thank you cvs for finally listening to us and showing Khajan Singh too He too exists for you

Sanchi is heights of double standards 🤢She ridicules Khajan for his "village mentality" while she is dreaming of becoming one soon. 🤢 Sanchi madam in Jaitser people just come like that also and Badi Haveli people don't feel bad Badi Haveli's gate is always open for anyone to come in and whats village mentality here? When she came to Jaitser without informing Jagaya or Singhs that was surprise in her language but when Khajan has come thats his village mentality 🤪Shekhars take her to some mental asylum

On hearing about Jagaya's birthday how happy Sanchi was and she was cursing herself also why she came back if she knew about it before she should have stayed there to make Jagaya's birthday special and memorable for him Well you are going to make it special worst memory for him now as you are going to ruin it I fear poor guy will receive a shock on his birthday because Shekhars are coming with Rishta of SanchiI wish they reach there after his birthday Car breaks down something like that because its a special birthday for him and Singhs as they are together after a long time Shekhars cannot ruin it because of their dumb daughter

Why Shiv send Anandi with Sanchi to buy gift? Anandi will definitely buy something according to what Jagaya likes and Sanchi will then cross cloud nine as well She will be sitting on tenth cloud Jagdish loves me he liked my gift🤪

Shekhars are really so much helpless in front of the youngest member of family They cannot even control her They are now banking on Jagaya to back off from this proposal to get a control over this dumb girl's obsession. Its totally ridiculous. Its this attitude of theirs thats made her like this.

Can't wait to see when Jagaya will Refuse to Sanchi's proposal . Sanchi and Ira 's reactions then 😈 Earth slipping away from both's feet . Ira blind mommy will see the truth of her laadli daughter how she is clapping with one hand here and Sanchi will fall down flat on her face from her high dreams I will watch all this rubbing my hands with excitement All hopes on Jagaya now to show Sanchi her place and opening Shekhars eyes too

precap Sanchi is rudest to the extremes 🤢Khajan was talking in her favor He was talking about talking with Bhairo but Sanchi as usual without hearing anything completely neither understanding jumped on conclusion and lashed out at Khajan Finally Anandi spoke how dare you to talk like this Thats great

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lovesunshine

@lovesunshine

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Posted: 12 years ago

#40

Anandi was correct on shouting at sanchi...as Sannchi is getting uncontrollable..she does not have even one percent of shiv's genes...😡doesnt know how to treat elders...the way she was chiding anandi's father😡...anandi has given it back brilliantly to people like gauri, ratan singh and that bad politician of jaitser (forgot his name)...i ts high saanchi gets it...i am waiting for saanchi to be shut it...she is driving me mad..

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