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Posted: 12 years ago
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Is haveli the only place left for Ganga? if Ganga was that scared of Ratan Singh, then why did she leave his place? Why didn't she continue with her slavery at his place and continue seeing him sleep with his new wife?

Ganga left RAT because she wanted freedom and it was a bold step for sure.

Then it was a co-incidence that she got J and his family to take care of her, but now someone in BH finds her to be a burden and hence G should think of finding ways to leave or give Sumitra the peace of mind that she wants.

I am not supporting Sumi's actions, but it is clear that Sumi does not want to entertain a stranger anymore in her house who could be a potential threat to any of her family member, so it ultimately falls onto G's shoulders to think what she can do to leave BH gracefully and thank the people to whom she is indebted to.

But instead Ganga is taking active interest in Singhs personal matters when she is basically an outsider, which Sumi is disapproving of.


Edited by Missesha - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ganga should leave BH, then only jagya feelings about Ganga will be out.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Only sumitra is against ganga. Not the others. They are ready to face the risks as in the past too they faced many risks. It is not that ganga has brought risk for the first time.

How about throwing sumitra out instead of ganga?😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nitha

Ganga should leave BH, then only jagya feelings about Ganga will be out.




this argument sounds sensible.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Only sumitra is against ganga. Not the others. They are ready to face the risks as in the past too they faced many risks. It is not that ganga has brought risk for the first time.

How about throwing sumitra out instead of ganga?😉

BH is Sumitra's OWN house. Ganga is just a stranger who is being sheltered there. And she is not currently married to Jagya, to call BH her own.

This is where self-respect comes. Why does G have to reduce herself to another maid, just because Singhs have done so much for her. G is a person with strong values, so instead of becoming comfortable at Singhs household with 'no status' its best that she maintains her dignity and walks out gracefully.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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it is not that sumi does not like ganga because jagya is in trouble she just dislike ganga without any reason yesterday when ganga passed in exam sumi not at all happy showing attitude towards ganga which is very weird
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

BH is Sumitra's OWN house. Ganga is just a stranger who is being sheltered there. And she is not currently married to Jagya, to call BH her own.


This is where self-respect comes. Why does G have to reduce herself to another maid, just because Singhs have done so much for her. G is a person with strong values, so instead of becoming comfortable at Singhs household with 'no status' its best that she maintains her dignity and walks out gracefully.




Why does he require any status when Jagya, Bhairon all are with her? She is not a stranger anymore. Why to get offended when only Sumitra is nasty and others or not? That means giving more value to nasty sumitra than nice ones. There is no guarantee that she will get self respect once she steps out. Known devil is better than unknown devil.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Every one wants that Ganga should leav Haweli. Me too want this to happen. But m not agree that Ganga compromising her self respect. For her this family becomes her own family. She thinks Sumi is only angry on her. When ever she will realiz Sumi's intention and hatness we all know she will leav Haweli. Where Ratan's goons waiting for her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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a very very sensible topic @ leavesand waves.. 👏

i dont have words to describe sumitra's behaviour... except deduce that she is blind with mother's love... at the same time... wonder... why she is extra warm towards Saachi.. is it because of the fact that saachi is shiv's sister who everybody admires and respects so much... or saachi has painted a very rosy picture of herself in front of the singhs... 😳

ganga on the other hand... is a very sensible girl, who unfortunately was pulled into the evil of baalika vadhu... and married off at a very early age... she gathered the courage to run from her inlaws and was rescued by jagya and started living with the singhs... if you remember... ganga had wanted to leave the singhs household... but due to DS drama.. was forced to stay back and complete her education... now that she has passed... i want her to leave the BH.. on her own initiative.. and not on the asking, threatening of some family members...

then the question arises... where will she go?? to some relatives house?? nope, she doesnt have any... to some anathashram?? nope, she can become an easy prey to RS and inlaws... come back to BH?? then why did she leave in the first place? 😕

so, right now, its a watertight case... hopefully the cvs handle this track sensibly... and dont show something stupid...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't know why ganga need to be defended as she has done nothing wrong.I totally agree with you @TM.

Why will Ganga live singh's house after ds holding her back emotionally.Ganga took this family as her own family.And each and every family member among them including sumi has said she will have to live here and doesn't need to go anywhere.Did you see the way in yesterday episode ds said 'nazar na laag jaye chori ko' and gave that money to makkhan.It clearly says how much ds like ganga and how can she hurt her.Anandi asked her to take care of that family because they need it and ganga promised her that she will take care of singh family.And thats enough from the side of Ganga why she is still living in singh's house.What self respect!If she leave haveli it will be showing attitude.As she can't reveal that sumi is behaving badly with her.Only girls like sanchi and gauri shows this kind of attitudes in the name of self respect.If singh's are helping her then Ganga also helped them many times as she thought it to be her responsibility.Its another thing that sumitra has become such ungrateful creature.I think she herself can't leave them because she got attached to them emotionally because she had no family to show so much care.

Her result was out and she passed,it was the most happiest day of her life.She even touched Jagya's feet to show her gratitude,this is called real human being who has no ego to show how grateful he/she is unlike gauri who took the help of bhairo in a complete different way.Though I think touching feet was not necessary but anyways.Then Ganga hears thats its Jagya's birthday.So she became more happy and gave the idea to ds.Whats wrong in that!Sumitra was also happy though she has made faces at first but then she was happy with the idea.She works in singh's household not as a servant but to help them,that shows how much self respect she has.In my opinion after what ds said to Ganga when she wanted to leave haveli Ganga should never think of going anywhere as it will be an insult to ds.
Edited by shankythebest - 12 years ago

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