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libsrocks

@libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

I am totally confused about this character Anandi

first she does not want her family to force her into marriage but now she is forcing Jagya into another marriage even though she knows how much Shiv suffered because of her tantrums and she has voiced this thought also

she can not tell Saanchi to shut up her nonsense but is yet bothered and irritating her husband with her sulken face...if she is so bothered than why does she not directly talk to Saanchi about it and if she is not then leave it...who cares if Saanchi praises you or not

to be honest Anandi does not come across to me as someone who can become a perfect partner in marriage...is marriage all about in-laws seva, making sure everyone praises her and cooking good food and sharing everything with your husband but rest of time just waste it in making roni surat and no romance

if i were a boy i would have immense respect for Anandi and her patience and goodness but i doubt i would have made her my life partner...she simply has nothing that attractive which can make life more fun to live...Shiv was more fun to watch without Anandi or with Jagya than with Anandi...she hardly cracks a jokes and most of time take everything so seriously...she knows everyone has good and bad times so just have patience and let things unfold itself...just because it's now a bad time does not mean it will always be a bad time

Sorry to all the Anandi fans but this is my personal opinion...i feel for now Anandi is the weakest point in BV...Saanchi-Jagya drama is disgusting but just out of curiosity to see how low Saanchi can fall to have Jagya's attention and to see Shashank people may watch her but AnSh have gone down totally...they simply sit as far as possible and chat about most depressing thing in their families 😭

for now i find Jagya-Ganga-Mannu the strongest point in BV and Sid and Shashank for me are still the star attraction of BV

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mozart66

@mozart66

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Posted: 12 years ago

Good post!

Have to agree with you. Saanchi is disgusting but then Anandi should take her head-on and deal with Saanchi on her own without cribbing to Shiv. I think Anandi is too afraid to ruffle Saanchi's feathers and not strong enough to answer back Saanchi as badi bhabhi. If she can not deal with Sannchi on her own then just leave the problem and concentrate on being happy for herself and Shiv for once!! Enough of rona-dhona and always putting the family first! Shekhars are not regressive, villagers type who would expect their bahu to wait upon them hand and foot! They believe in individual identities, and freedom. Anandi should concentrate on learning other things in life including coming out of her village shell and blending with the city life, making her own friends besides people in the house!! She can do so much now that her in-laws are not strict like the previous ones! She can always be there for the family when needed but not make a life ONLY around them!

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vasanthi.m

@vasanthimrao

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Posted: 12 years ago

I feel the character Anandi is changed..😳 No offence meant to anyone who's playing that character, but just 3 months back, she was most chirping, teasing her husband in the school before she confessed, having fun with him, and now😕

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731627

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Posted: 12 years ago

in yesterday anandi has sulken face but what about anandi happy face when she go outside with shiv in motorbycle and happily hugging shiv ?? v say anandi does not care shiv by not understanding shiv love but that is over now .now anandi happily accept shiv love and during hm track anandi was more excited and happy than shiv .if shiv not miss in hm track then anandi would have not sad face at that time.anandi know well where to be happy and sad and there is reason for anandi to be happy and sad

wives generally discuss her sorrow and happiness to husband only .anandi is shiv wife and she has right to discuss her feeling to shiv and anandi not only discuss her sorrow and happiness but she care about shiv happiness and sorrow also

and i do not want anandi to say shut up to sanchi because it is no use .and also i do not want anandi to care about sanchi likes and dislikes .enough she try to make sanchi happy but still sanchi is not happy with anandi so now it is time to avoid sanchi

Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago

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Blukitten

@Blukitten

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Posted: 12 years ago

She was never perfect she is flawed like any other normal person.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 12 years ago

Anandi comes with her own flaws just like every other character in the show or just like any other human being.

Her strengths -

She likes to make people around happy

She is better than others in the sense she accepts that she a flawed human being and always trying to improve and learn lessons from life.

If things go wrong in her life she does not blame people around her neither does she blame the circumstances.She analyses to see where she went wrong and tries to fix up the situation.

When Jagya was ashamed to admit that she is his wife because she is uneducated and gawar she tried to fix the situation by getting an education.

When she realised that after Jagya left she had nothing left she tried to rebuild her life by concentrating on her school and socialwork.

Her weakness - She tries too hard to please people.

While it is a good thing to win hearts with your goodness she doesn't realise that she needs to alter her tactics to win over people.That's why she comes across as person with good heart but a bit boring with her goodness.

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_Manali_

@_Manali_

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Posted: 12 years ago

No one is perfect in this world

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: libsrocks
I am totally confused about this character Anandi
first she does not want her family to force her into marriage but now she is forcing Jagya into another marriage even though she knows how much Shiv suffered because of her tantrums and she has voiced this thought also

she can not tell Saanchi to shut up her nonsense but is yet bothered and irritating her husband with her sulken face...if she is so bothered than why does she not directly talk to Saanchi about it and if she is not then leave it...who cares if Saanchi praises you or not

to be honest Anandi does not come across to me as someone who can become a perfect partner in marriage...is marriage all about in-laws seva, making sure everyone praises her and cooking good food and sharing everything with your husband but rest of time just waste it in making roni surat and no romance

if i were a boy i would have immense respect for Anandi and her patience and goodness but i doubt i would have made her my life partner...she simply has nothing that attractive which can make life more fun to live...Shiv was more fun to watch without Anandi or with Jagya than with Anandi...she hardly cracks a jokes and most of time take everything so seriously...she knows everyone has good and bad times so just have patience and let things unfold itself...just because it's now a bad time does not mean it will always be a bad time

Sorry to all the Anandi fans but this is my personal opinion...i feel for now Anandi is the weakest point in BV...Saanchi-Jagya drama is disgusting but just out of curiosity to see how low Saanchi can fall to have Jagya's attention and to see Shashank people may watch her but AnSh have gone down totally...they simply sit as far as possible and chat about most depressing thing in their families 😭
for now i find Jagya-Ganga-Mannu the strongest point in BV and Sid and Shashank for me are still the star attraction of BV

I agree with you. when a marriage breaks, its not just one party's fault... but both are equally responsible.

Anandi was in her own world cooking and serving her in-laws.🥱... she could not even be alarmed seeing gauri's closeness to her husband or jagya behaving indifferently to her.

And now she is working hard to please sanchi.. cant believe it !!😲

as you said, if shiv fell in love with an 'uninteresting' woman, then he himself must be one !

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Sanaa

@sweet_chilly

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

are u new to indian television...anandi is an epitome of a true tv serial heroine..better get used to it...

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libsrocks

@libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: surabhi01
in yesterday anandi has sulken face but what about anandi happy face when she go outside with shiv in motorbycle and happily hugging shiv ?? v say anandi does not care shiv by not understanding shiv love but that is over now .now anandi happily accept shiv love and during hm track anandi was more excited and happy than shiv .if shiv not miss in hm track then anandi would have not sad face at that time.anandi know well where to be happy and sad and there is reason for anandi to be happy and sad

wives generally discuss her sorrow and happiness to husband only .anandi is shiv wife and she has right to discuss her feeling to shiv and anandi not only discuss her sorrow and happiness but she care about shiv happiness and sorrow also

and i do not want anandi to say shut up to sanchi because it is no use .and also i do not want anandi to care about sanchi likes and dislikes .enough she try to make sanchi happy but still sanchi is not happy with anandi so now it is time to avoid sanchi

i agree that Anandi hugs Shiv and everything but most of the time Shiv initiates everything and Anandi hardly tries something special to make Shiv happy...who said it's no use to shut up Saanchi?...i had a classmate like Saanchi and use to tolerate/avoid her nonsense comments on me as much as i can but when i thought that things were out of limits than i shouted her once and for all...and after that she never dared to speak roughly with me...she either use to ask for some work related help or just keep shut but never made any comments...Saanchi is throwing nonsense because she knows Anandi will never reply back...she is taking Anandi for granted...Anandi is her badi bhabhi and i don't think Shekhars will be upset if once Anandi will tell her to be in her limit...and if she cannot shout then why not ask Saanchi directly what exactly bothers her that she is rude with her then ask Shiv about it...about Anandi being happy she smiles once in a week and cries or sulks 3 times in a week...i would have understood such behaviour had she been with Singhs where Jagya was rude to her and Dadisa was after her life but here every makes her feel so special and her husband is always on toes to make her wife feel happy but yet she sulks and too only for one girl who is youngest in family

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