Originally posted by: libsrocks
exactly...she was more fun before marriage but now she is total bore...Shekhars hardly do any housework but now suddenly Anandi is doing everything like cooking...when i look at life of Anandi and the relations she got from Shiv i feel she is not utilizing it to her best...she is settling for the first time in some city then why not go out or do some work...doesn't she have any hobby or something...i remember she made beautiful frame for Ashima than why not do some creative work now when she has so much time...she is too tight in nature...she needs to lossen herself...she is not in army or something...from past few days there has been no romance b/w AnSh and whenever they have scene they just chat about Saanchi, Jagya or Ira.
She is coming across as a total bore because the CVs have made her that way.
This KB and Shekhars track was meant for A to bond with Shekhars and get to know them and share a slice of life with them.But the CVs have chosen to make her do same old things that she did in Badi haweli.That's why it is looking like a repetition of what she did in Singh household.
Like I have been saying time and again about A bonding with Shekhars - they should have come up with innovative tracks but they chose the easy way out by opting for Saas bahu nanad drama.
As for her relationship with Shiv she is very grateful for all the support he is giving her in the Shekhar household while she is trying to get to know them on a one to one basis.
As for creative stuff - Didn't she try to do something new by baking a cake which she had nver done before?
The most important trait of Anandi which is what makes her so special is that likes to make people around her happy not because she wants them to like her but she wants to make them happy.She is upset about Sanchi because she couldn't figure out a way to make her happy.
That's why she was asking him about Sanchi and how to reach out to her.
As for her letting herself go and loosen her inhibitions and let go of insecurities - These things do take a long a time even in real life -she never thought she will fall in love but she did never thought she would trust a man again but has learnt to trust again.Just to say I love you she had to sum up all her courage to do so.How can all her insecurities and fears disappear overnight love cannot make them disappear overnight love can only help her loosen up and let go of her inhibitions in a slow manner with the help of her husband.
As for her stepping out of the house to do something with her life I guess that will happen sometime in the near future.