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Posted: 12 years ago
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Since this post talks of Anandi( the character) in general,thought of giving my two cents. I think Anandi is neither perfect nor flawed but perfectly flawed! Her only weakness is that shes too good and too caring. She doesnt try to please ppl to get attention or appraise but because for her, keeping the ppl around her happy is equally important to her own happiness.And actually, Its an extended quality of Mr Shekhar himself who fell in love with her bcoz what he did only for his "loved" ones, she could do for the whole society and even strangers. Her intention to keep relationships filled with love is what makes her special. Yea though she sometimes becomes too serious in doing this...but then it doesnt mean she is depressing naturally.

As for she being boring...I can so not agree! Shes not boring but completely indulgent and careful of the needs of ppl arnd her.And has been sply caring abt her partners.I dont know why she is seeming boring now(bcoz i haven't regularly watched the show)...but before wedding she was all fun with Shiv. Even though the wedding took place out of her wish...she enjoyed each moment of her companionship with S (except when her so called ex came to spoil her life with his drama of amnesia)...she otherwise always tried to respond and indulge with her fiance making sure he gets what he deserves.She even gave sanchi a good answer twice ...once when she said her "beauty lies in eyes of beholder" dialouge and other during mooh-dikhai.

So it will be totally wrong to say that no one would like to make her a life partner...rather having her as a life partner would be a thing of fortune for anyone.


Edited by Malika - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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jub sanchi ke daddu mahi shiv alok sanchi ko daat te hain tub to shut up hoti nahi tub anandi ke shut up kehne se sanchi chup ho jaayegi ??
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_chilly

are u new to indian television...anandi is an epitome of a true tv serial heroine..better get used to it...

That's not so true...Akshara (YRKKH), nidhi (KTLK), Aarti (PV) are not so boring...i am not saying Anandi's behaviour is new to me but i am surprised when she has got a husband like Shiv and a better place than Jaitsar than is so upset most of the time...she is not making her self exposed to anything...she should got out visit places udaipur is shiv's childhood place so visit his school but she does nothing...even with Nathu kaka she is busy in kitchen even though i hardly saw CM and Ira working in kitchen
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika

Since this post talks of Anandi( the character) in general,thought of giving my two cents. I think Anandi is neither perfect nor flawed but perfectly flawed! Her only weakness is that shes too good and too caring. She doesnt try to please ppl to get attention or appraise but because for her, keeping the ppl around her happy is equally important to her own happiness.And actually, Its an extended quality of Mr Shekhar himself who fell in love with her bcoz what he did only for his "loved" ones, she could do for the whole society and even strangers. Her intention to keep relationships filled with love is what makes her special. Yea though she sometimes becomes too serious in doing this...but then it doesnt mean she is depressing naturally.

As for she being boring...I can so not agree! Shes not boring but completely indulgent and careful of the needs of ppl arnd her. I dont know why she is seeming boring now(bcoz i havent regularly watched the show)...but before wedding she was all fun when Shiv. Even though the wedding took place out of her wish...she enjoyed each moment of her companionship with S (except when her so called ex came to spoil her life with his drama of amnesia)...she otherwise always tried to respond and indulge with her fiance making sure he gets what he deserves.She even gave sanchi a good answer twice ...once when she said her "beauty lies in eyes of beholder" dialouge and other during mooh-dikhai.

So it will be totally wrong to say that no one would like to make her a life partner...rather having her as a life partner would be a thing of fortune for anyone.


exactly...she was more fun before marriage but now she is total bore...Shekhars hardly do any housework but now suddenly Anandi is doing everything like cooking...when i look at life of Anandi and the relations she got from Shiv i feel she is not utilizing it to her best...she is settling for the first time in some city then why not go out or do some work...doesn't she have any hobby or something...i remember she made beautiful frame for Ashima than why not do some creative work now when she has so much time...she is too tight in nature...she needs to lossen herself...she is not in army or something...from past few days there has been no romance b/w AnSh and whenever they have scene they just chat about Saanchi, Jagya or Ira.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks

exactly...she was more fun before marriage but now she is total bore...Shekhars hardly do any housework but now suddenly Anandi is doing everything like cooking...when i look at life of Anandi and the relations she got from Shiv i feel she is not utilizing it to her best...she is settling for the first time in some city then why not go out or do some work...doesn't she have any hobby or something...i remember she made beautiful frame for Ashima than why not do some creative work now when she has so much time...she is too tight in nature...she needs to lossen herself...she is not in army or something...from past few days there has been no romance b/w AnSh and whenever they have scene they just chat about Saanchi, Jagya or Ira.

She is coming across as a total bore because the CVs have made her that way.
This KB and Shekhars track was meant for A to bond with Shekhars and get to know them and share a slice of life with them.But the CVs have chosen to make her do same old things that she did in Badi haweli.That's why it is looking like a repetition of what she did in Singh household.
Like I have been saying time and again about A bonding with Shekhars - they should have come up with innovative tracks but they chose the easy way out by opting for Saas bahu nanad drama.

As for her relationship with Shiv she is very grateful for all the support he is giving her in the Shekhar household while she is trying to get to know them on a one to one basis.

As for creative stuff - Didn't she try to do something new by baking a cake which she had nver done before?

The most important trait of Anandi which is what makes her so special is that likes to make people around her happy not because she wants them to like her but she wants to make them happy.She is upset about Sanchi because she couldn't figure out a way to make her happy.
That's why she was asking him about Sanchi and how to reach out to her.
As for her letting herself go and loosen her inhibitions and let go of insecurities - These things do take a long a time even in real life -she never thought she will fall in love but she did never thought she would trust a man again but has learnt to trust again.Just to say I love you she had to sum up all her courage to do so.How can all her insecurities and fears disappear overnight love cannot make them disappear overnight love can only help her loosen up and let go of her inhibitions in a slow manner with the help of her husband.

As for her stepping out of the house to do something with her life I guess that will happen sometime in the near future.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks

I am totally confused about this character Anandi

first she does not want her family to force her into marriage but now she is forcing Jagya into another marriage even though she knows how much Shiv suffered because of her tantrums and she has voiced this thought also

she can not tell Saanchi to shut up her nonsense but is yet bothered and irritating her husband with her sulken face...if she is so bothered than why does she not directly talk to Saanchi about it and if she is not then leave it...who cares if Saanchi praises you or not

to be honest Anandi does not come across to me as someone who can become a perfect partner in marriage...is marriage all about in-laws seva, making sure everyone praises her and cooking good food and sharing everything with your husband but rest of time just waste it in making roni surat and no romance

if i were a boy i would have immense respect for Anandi and her patience and goodness but i doubt i would have made her my life partner...she simply has nothing that attractive which can make life more fun to live...Shiv was more fun to watch without Anandi or with Jagya than with Anandi...she hardly cracks a jokes and most of time take everything so seriously...she knows everyone has good and bad times so just have patience and let things unfold itself...just because it's now a bad time does not mean it will always be a bad time


Sorry to all the Anandi fans but this is my personal opinion...i feel for now Anandi is the weakest point in BV...Saanchi-Jagya drama is disgusting but just out of curiosity to see how low Saanchi can fall to have Jagya's attention and to see Shashank people may watch her but AnSh have gone down totally...they simply sit as far as possible and chat about most depressing thing in their families 😭
for now i find Jagya-Ganga-Mannu the strongest point in BV and Sid and Shashank for me are still the star attraction of BV


to choose someone as a life partner, cracking jokes is the only important thing?? everyone has a different nature n she's always shown as the person who cares and worries about all her family members.

as far as ive seen her, she loves and cares for shiv so much! she spends good amount of time with him! so whats wrong in her as a life partner? obviously she'll share all her feelings with her husband. they wont show us their intimate moments all the time.

also, shiv doesnt come across as a very outgoing person either. he keeps to his work and his family. and thats how he is! and we and anandi love him like that, so why should anandi start exploring udaipur etc when thats not in her interests! they do go out as a couple and spend quality time together! they both r similar to each other in that aspect!

i dont feel at all that she's not a good life partner!
Edited by poorvab - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

in yesterday anandi has sulken face but what about anandi happy face when she go outside with shiv in motorbycle and happily hugging shiv ?? v say anandi does not care shiv by not understanding shiv love but that is over now .now anandi happily accept shiv love and during hm track anandi was more excited and happy than shiv .if shiv not miss in hm track then anandi would have not sad face at that time.anandi know well where to be happy and sad and there is reason for anandi to be happy and sad


wives generally discuss her sorrow and happiness to husband only .anandi is shiv wife and she has right to discuss her feeling to shiv and anandi not only discuss her sorrow and happiness but she care about shiv happiness and sorrow also

and i do not want anandi to say shut up to sanchi because it is no use .and also i do not want anandi to care about sanchi likes and dislikes .enough she try to make sanchi happy but still sanchi is not happy with anandi so now it is time to avoid sanchi


very well said!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks

if i were a boy i would have immense respect for Anandi and her patience and goodness but i doubt i would have made her my life partner...

@BOLD - That is the reason why they came up with a character called Shivraj Shekhar who is the mirror image of Anandi - A male Anandi.Only someone who is exactly like Anandi can understand her and love her the way she deserves to be loved and know that he will be loved back in the same way.Shivraj Shekhar is the perfect husband for a woman like Anandi and Anandi is the perfect wife for a man like Shivraj Shekhar.

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