Urmi Devi and Saanchi are not totally wrong - Page 2

@TM

I agree with you.

Singhs and especially DS are hypocrites and shameless.

They are selfish and manipulative people who want the best for themselves but forget about others.

I applauded UD for showing DS the mirror tonight! 👏

DS is shamelessness personified. First she left no stone unturned to coerce Anandi and get her to agree to marry Shiv. But when Jagya came and requested her to bring Anandi back in his life, she, in a show of UTTER shamelessness, went to Anandi to accept Jagya and refuse Shiv even as engagement had already been done!! 😡

Look how she and Sumitra types pin point flaws in girls but when it comes to them they'll lie to glory!

How can you think of defaming someone who you're going to get your daughter/DIL married to? How can you think that person or his family won't know about it and they won't mind it if they learn about it?

Sanchi's outburst was 101% justified tonight. No sister would tolerate such shit about her brother. Sanchi is not bad per se. She is naive and outspoken but she is only attached to her brother and wants the best for him. This is why she did not like a divorcee that too from a village marrying her highly educated brother.

I support her shouting at Singhs' haveli and later at KB about this issue. It was understandable.

UD was foolish to have not verified the claims of DS. But then who thinks that an elderly woman from respectable family would lie just to break off your daughter's rishta?
She should have been more vigilant and shouldn't have hastily stopped the rishta talk with Shekhars. But her anger is justified because it was a great rishta. An IAS officer is always a coveted groom.

I blame Anandi for not telling UD (at that time) that all this BS about Shiv was wrong and that he was complete opposite of what she'd heard about him.

Shiv is also at fault for not taking this up with any member of his family and leaving it as is, thinking everyone will forget about it.

Rest of the Singhs also only made a face and then hoped this matter would get buried itself. (as they do with every blunder their family members commit)

I give two thumbs up to UD and Sanchi for showing mirror to hypocrite Singhs and that manipulation ki murat Dadisa!

Even at old age they have no shame, no sense, no consideration for others!

And yes, I agree Shiv (and in past Shyam) has done more for Singhs than they have done for him and his family. These manipulators even wanted to stop his transfer from Jetsar by using their influence and shameless DS called him at any time he was busy in office or with his wife at night! DS used him like a slave and sent him to find Jagya. They always took full advantage of his good nature, obedience, sincerity and respect.

Anandi has done minicule for Shekhars in comparison and is not the giver in her relationship with Shiv. Saving him at Kashmir was the only big thing she did for him.

Singhs still keep meddling in Anandi's life and did not think twice before sending her ex husband to her house with gifts (creating odd situation). It is to Shekhars' credit that they do not mind such things. They've always been very tolerant and open minded towards Singhs.

I would not mind if they lose their patience or react strongly at this news. No one tolerates others spreading BS about their young son or daughter!

DS was bribing servants and docs crazily to hide about Sugna's pregnancy before marriage. She hid about Jagya's first marriage when she wanted to buy little Gauri as his new bride. Sumitra and DS are hiding about Jagya's past and portraying him as ideal to all girls' families.

They won't tolerate anyone talk about their family's real flaws and blunders. They'll hide their own scars.

But it did not take DS one minute to defame a good guy like Shiv and repel prospective rishtas for him!

It's not even an action done out of love and attachment for Anandi. It was just a desperate attempt to assuage her guilt for ruining Anandi's life.

i really don't understand what big was there about what Anandi did was Shiv in Kashmir...if you love your husband obviously you would fight for him and Anandi did not physically fought with anyone...she was already at the winning side...i ask all the wives in this forum had this situation or any such incident would have happened with their husband would they have left him and told the bride's dad that ok ok you say he is Vikram than take it...i have no issues.

Good post @libsrocks 👍🏼

urmi devi's anger was justified as she lost a good rishta for her daughter..she is feeling cheated by DS..agree...that shiv would have rejected this rishta is another subject altogether.

Sanchi is also not totally wrong...and am sure shekhars will also be maha upset with anandi..n this drama will drag for some time..
DS also should not have spoken about shiv like that...😕..that was selfish of her.

I also agree it was wrong of anandi to request shiv to marry her to fulfill her dead mother's wish...but then during that time she was still in trauma, since shiv supported her so much..she kind of depended on him...n developed that bond with him which gave her confidence to be able to ask him.

but i dont agree that shiv was forced into this marriage...much before anandi's mother died or this urmi devi rishta...shiv had fallen in love with anandi 😳 and he wanted only her happiness...so like a true lover he agreed to marry her and waited till she was ready for him...perfect love story as per me...and because of this...my respect has increased multifold for shiv..😊..

btw..i am so eager to see how shiv handles this situation...😳😆

Originally posted by: Skepblun

DS was bribing servants and docs crazily to hide about Sugna's pregnancy before marriage. She hid about Jagya's first marriage when she wanted to buy little Gauri as his new bride. Sumitra and DS are hiding about Jagya's past and portraying him as ideal to all girls' families.

They won't tolerate anyone talk about their family's real flaws and blunders. They'll hide their own scars.

But it did not take DS one minute to defame a good guy like Shiv and repel prospective rishtas for him!

It's not even an action done out of love and attachment for Anandi. It was just a desperate attempt to assuage her guilt for ruining Anandi's life.

Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

Good post @libsrocks 👍🏼

urmi devi's anger was justified as she lost a good rishta for her daughter..she is feeling cheated by DS..agree...that shiv would have rejected this rishta is another subject altogether.

Sanchi is also not totally wrong...and am sure shekhars will also be maha upset with anandi..n this drama will drag for some time..
DS also should not have spoken about shiv like that...😕..that was selfish of her.

I also agree it was wrong of anandi to request shiv to marry her to fulfill her dead mother's wish...but then during that time she was still in trauma, since shiv supported her so much..she kind of depended on him...n developed that bond with him which gave her confidence to be able to ask him.

but i dont agree that shiv was forced into this marriage...much before anandi's mother died or this urmi devi rishta...shiv had fallen in love with anandi 😳 and he wanted only her happiness...so like a true lover he agreed to marry her and waited till she was ready for him...perfect love story as per me...and because of this...my respect has increased multifold for shiv..😊..

btw..i am so eager to see how shiv handles this situation...😳😆

reason of urmi believing dadisa is that urmi must be thinking dadisa must be knowing shiv very well because shiv and dadisa living at same place at that time

One thing I dont understand. Anandi as a sarpanch failed to expose dadisa and this is one of the reasons rankling Urmidevi Was anandi an impartial sarpanch?

Urmi's anger is justified Swarthi, Jhooti, Makkari. dadisa was always like this. And as of now she has become reformed.

Shiv is in too much love with anandi and his reaction maybe somewhat different.

Those who dig pits for others, fall in those very pits.

Originally posted by: libsrocks

i am totally confused about this track...today after watching the episode i thought everyone is right yet wrong at their places

Urmi devi's anger was right because she lost one good rishta and maybe she is frustated that after that not one proper rishta has come but she is even a fool to have believed a stranger just like that...but i am glad about what she said to Dadisa because deep down somewhere this is Dadisa's character...she is manipulative and to get her needs she does not think about anyone...after so many years of jaap about goodness of Badi Haveli someone finally told the dark truth of this haveli also...so on that context i am quiet happy with Urmi devi...i do not blame Saanchi...which sister can hear so bad words about her brother and specially when they are all false...and if we see Shiv would in one way trapped in this rishta...he was forced to say yes to this marriage because it was Anandi's mother's last wish...and that time no one knew that Shiv was actually somewhere happy about this marriage because he loved Anandi...she was not wrong in saying that Singhs took advantage of his brother's goodness...she was telling in wrong context but right words...when has Singhs ever gave respect to Shiv which he truly deserved?...when has Anandi done something for Shiv which makes us feel that he is indeed special for her?...Shiv has given a lot to Singhs than he has received...so in that case he has been duped...Singhs took advantage of every situation they can and than with lots of words with butter would please Shiv and his family.

But there no use of making such big issue because i doubt Shiv would have agreed to this alliance 😕...but the way Urmi devi told Anandi about stealing her daughter's kismat i would say how is she so sure that Shiv would have said yes to this her daughter? the only bad thing happened in this issue is that Dadisa should not have said so bad things about Shiv...she could have assured Urmi devi about Shiv being good and than proposed Shiv about Anandi...if Shiv would have said yes than automatically he would have rejected Urmi devi's daughter...it has all happened because Dadisa was in too much hurry to marry off AnSh which was totally wrong so i am happy someone made her realized that she did a right thing in wrong way

i agree with one thing that you are confused about this track. sure dadisa should not have told those lies about shiv, but she didnt say any thing so horriable that urmi devi had to break of the rishta imidiately. Dadisa did want shiv to marry anandi, because in her eyes he was the perfect man for anandi. shiv and Anandi are progressive people, and they care about society and helping other people. they are like minded. but dadisa didnt know what was in shiv's mind. Anandi is like Dadisa daughter, and her affections for her are such. they are more motherly then grandmotherly, and all she was looking out was for Anandi's wellfare. though she made a mistake. and yes urmi devi has the right to be upset. but she doesnt need to be stuck on it. creating trouble in other people's life as well. just because she had a set back. that is ungracious and meen.

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

True...anandi should feel guilty for forcing shiv to marry her for her mom wish. Shiv was not ready to get married at that time. But shiv knows what he is getting into by worrying anandi. Nobody lied to him about the rista.