Urmi Devi and Saanchi are not totally wrong

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libsrocks

@libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

i am totally confused about this track...today after watching the episode i thought everyone is right yet wrong at their places

Urmi devi's anger was right because she lost one good rishta and maybe she is frustated that after that not one proper rishta has come but she is even a fool to have believed a stranger just like that...but i am glad about what she said to Dadisa because deep down somewhere this is Dadisa's character...she is manipulative and to get her needs she does not think about anyone...after so many years of jaap about goodness of Badi Haveli someone finally told the dark truth of this haveli also...so on that context i am quiet happy with Urmi devi...i do not blame Saanchi...which sister can hear so bad words about her brother and specially when they are all false...and if we see Shiv would in one way trapped in this rishta...he was forced to say yes to this marriage because it was Anandi's mother's last wish...and that time no one knew that Shiv was actually somewhere happy about this marriage because he loved Anandi...she was not wrong in saying that Singhs took advantage of his brother's goodness...she was telling in wrong context but right words...when has Singhs ever gave respect to Shiv which he truly deserved?...when has Anandi done something for Shiv which makes us feel that he is indeed special for her?...Shiv has given a lot to Singhs than he has received...so in that case he has been duped...Singhs took advantage of every situation they can and than with lots of words with butter would please Shiv and his family.

But there no use of making such big issue because i doubt Shiv would have agreed to this alliance 😕...but the way Urmi devi told Anandi about stealing her daughter's kismat i would say how is she so sure that Shiv would have said yes to this her daughter? the only bad thing happened in this issue is that Dadisa should not have said so bad things about Shiv...she could have assured Urmi devi about Shiv being good and than proposed Shiv about Anandi...if Shiv would have said yes than automatically he would have rejected Urmi devi's daughter...it has all happened because Dadisa was in too much hurry to marry off AnSh which was totally wrong so i am happy someone made her realized that she did a right thing in wrong way

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divine_ram

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Posted: 12 years ago

Ur words are correct in all sense. DS should stop interfering her children and grandchildren life now. I think this situation will make jagya not get married in hush hush now...he looked heartbroken by the things DS has done to get anandi remarried. DS would stop jagya remarriage plans now.

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dixie123

@dixie123

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: libsrocks
and if we see Shiv would in one way trapped in this rishta...he was forced to say yes to this marriage because it was Anandi's mother's last wish...and that time no one knew that Shiv was actually somewhere happy about this marriage because he loved Anandi...she was not wrong in saying that Singhs took advantage of his brother's goodness...she was telling in wrong context but right words...when has Singhs ever gave respect to Shiv which he truly deserved?...when has Anandi done something for Shiv which makes us feel that he is indeed special for her?...Shiv has given a lot to Singhs than he has received...so in that case he has been duped...Singhs took advantage of every situation they can and than with lots of words with butter would please Shiv and his family.

Anandi in her pre-confession days was not in that mind to do anything special for Shiv. I disagree if you say that Shiv was duped by the Singhs. He knew exactly what he is getting into. He knew everything about Anandi. Ds didn't manipulate him to say yes to marriage. She did it to Anandi but not to Shiv. Shiv in his goodness was helping the Singhs in every possible way.

@bold: I don't get this. Have they ever humiliated Shiv ? Have they disrespected him ?

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Missesha

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Posted: 12 years ago

UD is right in what she said. I did feel sorry for her. She got convinced by a stranger's words. Yes, she should have done more research instead of believing blindly, but I suppose she will learn from her mistakes.

DS was indeed a culprit here.

It's one thing that shiv may have no accepted UD's daughter over A, so UD is wrong in assuming that A stole her daughter's destiny.

Saanchi is absolutely right in her interpretation, not because she is biased against A, but anyone would interpret it that way, given the way the story unfolded

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libsrocks

@libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: dixie123

Anandi in her pre-confession days was not in that mind to do anything special for Shiv. I disagree if you say that Shiv was duped by the Singhs. He knew exactly what he is getting into. He knew everything about Anandi. Ds didn't manipulate him to say yes to marriage. She did it to Anandi but not to Shiv. Shiv in his goodness was helping the Singhs in every possible way.

@bold: I don't get this. Have they ever humiliated Shiv ? Have they disrespected him ?

but don't you think it was wrong to include shiv in bhago's promise...she wanted her daughter to get married but indirectly she forced shvi to say yes to an alliance where the girl was not even ready

about Singhs disrespecting Shiv i have seen many examples...telling Anandi to pretend to be Jagya's wife and than how Dadisa backtracked with her words when Jagya pressurized her to talk to Anandi about marrying him and than always interfering in Shiv's private moments...Shiv has done a lot for Singh but in comparision i am yet to see Singhs do something good for Shekhars

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divine_ram

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: libsrocks

but don't you think it was wrong to include shiv in bhago's promise...she wanted her daughter to get married but indirectly she forced shvi to say yes to an alliance where the girl was not even ready
about Singhs disrespecting Shiv i have seen many examples...telling Anandi to pretend to be Jagya's wife and than how Dadisa backtracked with her words when Jagya pressurized her to talk to Anandi about marrying him and than always interfering in Shiv's private moments...Shiv has done a lot for Singh but in comparision i am yet to see Singhs do something good for Shekhars

True...anandi should feel guilty for forcing shiv to marry her for her mom wish. Shiv was not ready to get married at that time. But shiv knows what he is getting into by worrying anandi. Nobody lied to him about the rista.

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dixie123

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: libsrocks

but don't you think it was wrong to include shiv in bhago's promise...she wanted her daughter to get married but indirectly she forced shvi to say yes to an alliance where the girl was not even ready

about Singhs disrespecting Shiv i have seen many examples...telling Anandi to pretend to be Jagya's wife and than how Dadisa backtracked with her words when Jagya pressurized her to talk to Anandi about marrying him and than always interfering in Shiv's private moments...Shiv has done a lot for Singh but in comparision i am yet to see Singhs do something good for Shekhars

Even after Shiv knew Anandi was not ready he was ready to wait for her. He told DS not to force Anandi but he didn't say I am going to back-off from the marriage because Anandi is not interested. Bhago EB'ed Anandi only after knowing that Shiv was in love with her daughter. Bhago and Ds did what they did only to make Anandi agree to marriage. they were not trapping Shiv. Shiv didn't like Anandi to forcefully agree to the marriage. But, I wouldn't say she trapped him. He could have said no if he wanted to. But, he didn't because he loved her.

Shiv agreed to Anandi's pretend drama first. DS was embarassed when she spoke with Shiv about this. Ofcourse Shiv has done lot to the Singhs... that is his nature. He is the male Anandi.

singhs have givne umpteen dinners/lunch to the Shekhars 😆.. I guess there has been no ocassion till now like that where the Singhs have had to do something for the Shekhars..

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SPuja

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: libsrocks

but don't you think it was wrong to include shiv in bhago's promise...she wanted her daughter to get married but indirectly she forced shvi to say yes to an alliance where the girl was not even ready

about Singhs disrespecting Shiv i have seen many examples...telling Anandi to pretend to be Jagya's wife and than how Dadisa backtracked with her words when Jagya pressurized her to talk to Anandi about marrying him and than always interfering in Shiv's private moments...Shiv has done a lot for Singh but in comparision i am yet to see Singhs do something good for Shekhars

@bold above, the culprit here was Anandi, she asked with folded hands to Shiv 'kar lijiye mujhse shadi' . If she was not ready for marriage, she should not have asked Shiv for this. DS went to Bhago to make Anandi agree for marriage, but she could not have guessed beforehand that Bhago will die and make her last wish regarding Anandi's marriage.

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Purvim

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Posted: 12 years ago

Ud puri tarah se to nahi par kuchh had tak galat hai. kyunki uski beti ki sagayi shiv se hui hoti to hum man shaktein the ki Anandi bich mein aa gayi par yahan to aisa kuchh bhi nahi hua hai. aur Shiv ki maa ne bhi urmi devi ko yeh kyun nahi bataya ki uska beta Anandi se pyaar karta hai? kyunki who yeh to jaanti hi thi ki shiv ANANDI SE pyaar karne laga hai.

Edited by purvim - 12 years ago