WU 17/5/13 Sachi knows best! J's No for marriage

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bonnefille

@bonnefille

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Could anyone please enlighten me who this Urmi Devi is and what conversation did she and dadi sa have about Shiv? I must have missed that particular episode. Thanks in advance.

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mahi12

@mahi12

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: bonnefille
Could anyone please enlighten me who this Urmi Devi is and what conversation did she and dadi sa have about Shiv? I must have missed that particular episode. Thanks in advance.

Urmi Devi 's daughter's marriage proposal first was for Shiv.She knew his family but she didn't know Shiv very well .She met Dadisaa in a temple and since Dadisaa belonged to Jaitser so she tried to ask from her about collector of Jaitser what sort of person he is to get her satisfaction but DS at that time was trying to fix Anandi with Shiv so Dadisaa lied to her and presented Shiv as a very bad person in front of her which scared Urmi and she backed away from this proposal

Later after AnSh 's engagement Urmi devi saw Shiv Anandi along with Shekhars in the same temple She thought of saving Anandi from a bad guy like Shiv who trapped her and told Anandi about Shiv what Dadisaa has told her he is fraud and very bad person Anandi got angry and supported Shiv he is a good person so did Shekhars someone must have fooled her .Then Urmi told an old lady told her this .Anandi connected dots from Urmi devi's explanation about that old lady and realized the old lady was no one else but Dadisaa Shekhars especially choti maa was angry at that time someone bad mouthed her Shiv and broke his fine marriage proposal At that time she was against AnSh marriage .CM wanted to know about that old lady as soon as possible

Anandi later confronted DS over the issue and made her realize her mistake Anandi told Shiv everything but Shiv instead of being angry was very grateful of Dadisaa because he loved Anandi and whatever Dadisaa did was for his welfare nothing thinking bad about him Anandi wanted to tell Shekhars but Shiv said she told him her responsibility over he will tell his family , finding right time but later Shiv never told his family anything till now about it probably he forgot😳

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Surish

@Surish

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Purvim

@purvim

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

BV 4 the no par keise aisa kya achcha jo iss week 4 th no BV aaya.

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redapple1

@redapple1

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Thanks for written update Anita. Don't have much to say regarding the tracks. I feel disappointed the way they show educated girls with no brains.

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Missesha

@Missesha

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+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Anita, thanks for the update. I liked today's episode. It covered many aspects.

J getting close to Mannu without realising and Ganga trying to draw a line between friendship and attachment. Although her perspective was on Mannu's behalf today, eventually it may be for herself one day.

J does not want to marry & he always did not want to, but does he now not want to marry because he just wants more time, or is it because he wants to know a girl long before hand and get comfortable enough to say yes (e.g. Ganga or Saanchi), without necessarily having the burden of marrying that person.

His family needs to understand his state of mind too.

I didn't mind Saanchi firing Anandi today. In her immaturity, she did point out few things to Anandi that contributed to the failure of Ja-An marriage. Adult Anandi was always a mature and dutiful bahu but she always couldn't understand the 'requirements' of her husband. There were many things J had expected from her and told her about them, but she hardly changed. She only tried to change when she felt the fear of losing him, not when they were together.

With Shiv also, she is hardly changing. She has a whole new world to explore but she is just there shifting between Shekhars and Singhs, glued to her philosphies. It's a whole different thing that Shiv is more understanding than Jagya, so A will always be secured.

I also liked the VO today. Anandi was wrong in forcing J to marry and glad it has come out that way.

Looking forward to Urmi Devi's drama and Saanchi's interpretation thereafter.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

Anita -Thanks for the update.

Marriage brokers and their ability to sell alliances😆

Definitely looking forward to UD/DS confrontation.

Anandi and Sanchi - Sanchi may have developed a liking for Jagya and he may be a great guy from HER persepective and she has full freedom to draw her own conclusions about the reason why JAAN marriage failed.But it was downright nasty on her part to comment on that to Anandi.

The fact that Jagya is marrying on Anandi's request and getting married to someone who is chosen by her would have told Sanchi something about the kind of bond they shared.

As for the fact how much truth is there in what Sanchi said is debatable.Anandi was the one who always felt that she had to do something to sustain the relationship while Jagya never did much on his part but always expecting more from her.Anandi was the who had to do balancing act between being an ideal bahu and wife with very little support from Jagya.No wonder she considers herself as a failed wife and let the feeling of inadequacy swamp her.Everybody expected from her and took whatever she had to offer and gave very little back.Only after the failed marriage Singhs and more specifically DS realised her fault and the damage has been done already.Her self esteem shattered.

Sanch's comments definitely seemed to have reopened those wounds which were healing.

Jagya -Having second thoughts about marriage.Understandable.May be this will make him think about marriage which he has not done till now.

Precap-UD and DS confrontation much awaited scene.But looks like UD is finding fault with Anandi.Anandi has to pay for the mistakes done by unscrupulous DS in her eagerness to do the right thing for her one in billion poti and Shiv who was blinded in his love for Annadi.Hope they set the record straight esp DS.

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Missesha

@Missesha

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+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#18

Aparna, just peeped in AT last page and saw ur post. Happy holidays.

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libsrocks

@libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Missesha
Anita, thanks for the update. I liked today's episode. It covered many aspects.

J getting close to Mannu without realising and Ganga trying to draw a line between friendship and attachment. Although her perspective was on Mannu's behalf today, eventually it may be for herself one day.

J does not want to marry & he always did not want to, but does he now not want to marry because he just wants more time, or is it because he wants to know a girl long before hand and get comfortable enough to say yes (e.g. Ganga or Saanchi), without necessarily having the burden of marrying that person.

His family needs to understand his state of mind too.

I didn't mind Saanchi firing Anandi today. In her immaturity, she did point out few things to Anandi that contributed to the failure of Ja-An marriage. Adult Anandi was always a mature and dutiful bahu but she always couldn't understand the 'requirements' of her husband. There were many things J had expected from her and told her about them, but she hardly changed. She only tried to change when she felt the fear of losing him, not when they were together.

With Shiv also, she is hardly changing. She has a whole new world to explore but she is just there shifting between Shekhars and Singhs, glued to her philosphies. It's a whole different thing that Shiv is more understanding than Jagya, so A will always be secured.

I also liked the VO today. Anandi was wrong in forcing J to marry and glad it has come out that way.

Looking forward to Urmi Devi's drama and Saanchi's interpretation thereafter.

i do agree with you but to some extent...the problem is with Anandi that she finds it hard to change but i would say even Jagya has to understand somethings...Singhs were really demanding towards their bahu...Shekhars felt so happy to see Anandi in such attire but Singhs because of Dadisa would not have be so happy during JaAn's honeymoon...look at Dadisa...she hardly gave any freedom to Anandi which made her so submissive and boring plus the way Jagya used to put up his request was totally wrong...Shiv said that he wants Anandi to wear something different because you like to see the person you love do different things but Jagya told Anandi to wear something different because such things will suit the environment and because others do it.

Jagya did not had the trick of handling Anandi whereas Shiv does but he hardly uses it.

Yes i agree Anandi finds it really difficult to adopt to change but i find that Anandi feels more secure and passionate about Shiv than she was with Jagya...i do not even remember once Anandi telling Jagya that 'she loves him'...Anandi protested to go with Jagya to Mumbai and only when she felt things were going in wrong ways she decided to move with Jagya but here with Shiv she readily agreed to go with him and also change her attire...she also tried different things like bake cake for him and hopefully we may see some more of such things in future.

and about Anandi exploring the new world i think Shiv needs to push her to do that...Anandi always needs a push to do new things or explore new things...Shiv needs to make her see that she has do things beyond moving like a pendulum from Udaipur to Jaitsar...but even Shiv is least interested for now...wonder what has happened with Shiv? 😕 yesterday i was watching some old episodes during intials days of Shiv and it made me wonder where did that guy went of was Kadak Collector with soft heart but a strong and practical mind which made him differ from Anandi...I really miss that Shivraj Shekhar a lot 😭

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#20

@ Librocks - I totally get what you are saying. Ja-An failed largely because of J. If I were to put percentages, I would say J was 90 - 95% wrong while A was about 5 -10%. But Anandi also was wrong somewhere by 5 - 10%.

J was definitely too immature to handle Anandi back then (or probably even now). But A's problem was that she never tried to adapt herself to what J wanted. (I mean adult A). Or say she was too slow to adapt (in cases where she did)

I feel after a failure J has changed so much, but Anandi hasn't changed even today. I don't think she has learnt anything from her failed marriage. She is still on square one.

Ofcourse Shiv is a way more mature person than J so he will handle Anandi in a very different way, than J ever did. So that's all good. AnSh will not face any kind of issues that Ja-An faced, because Shiv is mature and has lot of patience.

But I am just saying that she is too slow to adapt and husbands want a lot more in a wife than just a good cook and home maker. And wives do have to take initiatives sometimes. Always husbands can't push.

Look at someone like Ganga or Phooli or Asha. They took initiatives to move in their lives with the least support system available. But Anandi only moved for the sake of others, always.

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