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Jagaya does not want to marry His words were indicating towards it He agreed because Anandi forced him on name of her peace, her last wish before going from Jaitser, she will carry a burden in her heart that she could not do something for her family, for respect ,endearment , consideration for his family she forced him to agree ,and voice over cleared by forcing someone to marry you cannot make him marry I don't think he want to know any girl he agreed to Anandi but cannot make himself agree for marriage , cannot prepare himself for marriage There are some fears in him that he shared with DS Understandable .He needs some time and support from his family which unfortunately they are not giving himOriginally posted by: Missesha
J does not want to marry & he always did not want to, but does he now not want to marry because he just wants more time, or is it because he wants to know a girl long before hand and get comfortable enough to say yes (e.g. Ganga or Saanchi), without necessarily having the burden of marrying that person.I didn't mind Saanchi firing Anandi today. In her immaturity, she did point out few things to Anandi that contributed to the failure of Ja-An marriage. Adult Anandi was always a mature and dutiful bahu but she always couldn't understand the 'requirements' of her husband. There were many things J had expected from her and told her about them, but she hardly changed. She only tried to change when she felt the fear of losing him, not when they were together.With Shiv also, she is hardly changing. She has a whole new world to explore but she is just there shifting between Shekhars and Singhs, glued to her philosphies. It's a whole different thing that Shiv is more understanding than Jagya, so A will always be secured.I also liked the VO today. Anandi was wrong in forcing J to marry and glad it has come out that way.Looking forward to Urmi Devi's drama and Saanchi's interpretation thereafter.
I agree with you Sanchi did have some valid points about JaAn relationship that contributed a lot in JaAn 's failure of marriage Anandi did play a part in distancing Jagaya from herself because. Anandi was more of a dutiful bahu then instead of a being wife She mostly preferred family over him Many a times she sacrificed the needs , wishes , desires of her husband over her philosophies for family, even could not produce some time to spend with him . She worshiped him like a god no doubt in that but she was more willing to fulfill the needs of DS and family instead of Jagaya whose wishes and demands from her were not too much but only something that every husband desires from his wife Jagaya indeed does not need someone to worship him like a god but someone who understands him and his needs Jagaya even use to yearn to spend some time with her while she was always busy in serving Singhs and running around them Even when the time they use to get she use to run away after DS . i don't think she got less support from Jagaya He did support her many times before he developed a liking for Gauri In fact his attraction towards Gauri main reason was he visioned in Gauri what he desired from his Anandi, he saw Anandi 's version in Gauri the way he wanted his Anandi but he was not getting from Anandi and also one major fact was Anandi never took Jagaya's support in anything but she always sided with DS and company even though they were wrong he was right but still Anandi sided DS which made Jagaya helpless .
I know major fault was DS's she always kept Anandi busy in serving her and other family , instead of letting her spend quality time with her husband, never let her match his needs but the problem with Anandi is the same Anandi who broke all barriers set by DS later and tried to change herself and match Jagaya's needs when she saw she is losing him why she couldn't do that before when he wanted her to do so? .She had support of him . if she would have tried at that time he 100% would have supported her and he did many times if he expected anything from her he tried to make ways for her for it as well , he revolted in front of DS many times for her old nonsense customs that he does not want Anandi to follow for example eating in his plate but Anandi never took his support instead she was always making him understand DS is right , you should understand , lecturing him her philosophies which were totally wrong
Today Anandi is still same who is more interested and more willing to always be around Shekhars and Singhs ,fulfill their needs, required or not ,instead of focusing on her husband who is again sacrificing goat here .Can't believe they even cut short their honeymoon reason Anandi was missing all family😕 Still her preference is Singhs and Shekhars over her husband The difference lies between Shiv and Jagaya .Shiv is much mature person having an extra ordinary patience above normal human beings to bear her 😆Jagaya was much more younger and immature than Shiv so couldn't bear her for longer but Anandi is still same she will never change I am hopeless🥱
Voiceover was heart pleasing for me I am very happy cvs pointed out flaw in Anandi 's work not made her goddess here as well she was right there too as always She was very wrong in forcing Jagaya to agree for marriage The way she bullied him was completely👎🏼I wish some one or Jagaya himself show her mirror here and make her accept how wrong she was there Only she does not have right to show mirrors to others when they are wrong when she is wrong she deserved to be shown mirror as well and make her realize how wrong she is
