WU 5/4/13 J agrees to get married for A's sake!!!

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divine_ram

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Jan50
Thank you andv for the update and also your good analysis emphasizing the friendship bond bet J and A. Loved Sheetsden and Brick-red's posting too. Two imperfect beings able to talk things out. Even though i did not like emotional blackmailing some one to marry. In this case Anandi almost bullied him
Saying he has been nothing but selfish all along and he has not changed.
This serial has given a totally new definition to selfishness. Not marrying thinking one does not want to
Be unfair to the person he or she would marry is selfish because he/she is hurting the parents, but totally not thinking about the feelings of the future spouse is unselfish?

Both anandi and jagya are not thinking about how unfair it is to the other person. Anandi was unfair to shiv asking him to marry only on her mothers wish. It's another story shiv loved her so much that he was willing and confident that he will win her love back. But seeing the past record of jagya I want him to realize the need of a true partner from he heart and not just marry for the sake of parents. Hope cvs show jagya accepting the marriage willingly and not like anandi.

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AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Ani - thank you for the detailed WU. Agree with A that all of J's actions are motivated by his wants/whims/wishes... still its not wise to impose ones own wish/whims/wants on another and that is what Anandi has done here.

Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 12 years ago

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mandy001

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

thanks for wu...no shiv so need to watch it...u gave detailed wu nd i thnk it ws nt intersting.

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livelytanu

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Thanks 4 da update! 😊

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Libra123

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Jan50
Thank you andv for the update and also your good analysis emphasizing the friendship bond bet J and A. Loved Sheetsden and Brick-red's posting too. Two imperfect beings able to talk things out. Even though i did not like emotional blackmailing some one to marry. In this case Anandi almost bullied him
Saying he has been nothing but selfish all along and he has not changed.
This serial has given a totally new definition to selfishness. Not marrying thinking one does not want to
Be unfair to the person he or she would marry is selfish because he/she is hurting the parents, but totally not thinking about the feelings of the future spouse is unselfish?

Totally agree with you on that. If someone is not ready to marry, but blackmail them emotionally saying you are selfish and need to do it for you family is not going well with me. Jagya was selfish all his life. Totally agree on that. But even the part where he went to lakshmigung to do charity work, how is that selfish, he is not ready to Marry, how is that selfish..infact he is correct..if you cannot do justice to your wife as a husband, it is a crime ..it like insulting the marriage...he is ready to take up all the responsibilities of his family...but again force marrying...it is not something I liked...

I really liked that jagya agreed for the sake of anandi. He does not want her to feel bad befor leaving, he wants her to be happy...

2 actors who need a big applaud today are Shashank and toral...acting directing wise... Terrific episode.. Writing is good...but I am kind of confused with the theory of selfishness here?..

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Suchi-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

@libra I think that is what they are trying to show .. the dynamics of Bal vivah it can really mess up people's head.

A is soo burdened by the ehsaan of Singhs that.. she is unable to see that even though what she is saying is right.. ( About J thinking only of himself etc) she has brought that matter to convince him of something which is not right.

two wrongs do not make one right.

what I loved today is A is not mahan :) she is making a mistake like anyone would. Different POVs and different principles.

Its nice though

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vidya0000

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

Wonderful episode !! shashank and toral were fantastic.
thanks for the written update.

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mukta13

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

after reading the updates,i saw the epidode.i realised one thing that if BV brings in gud storyline also,with this particular get up of toral,the serial would be super duper flop.please guys don't start bashing me,but i can't accept toral,they could have got some gud replacement.

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sush_

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

thanks for the wu anitha.today's epi was worth watching. Both actors shashank n toral did a good job.Glad that there were no FB's in the whole scene..what anandi spoke was truth to some extent that the things jagya did in past were due to his selfish nature.But now his selfish nature is also thinking abt the girl who steps into his life who expects his love. With his current nature he can't imagine to remarry eventually the girl faces rejection. Anandi underwent the rejection due to gauri,she underwent trauma for years then how she was unable to think abt the girl.The girl will also undergo same trauma.What abt her family? "India mein shadi se do dil hi nahi do pariwaar jud the hain."what abt the girl's family?How sad they will be.We all know that it is ganga whom he will get married to but just once think ganga was not in the situation.Hope DS doesn't start -searching beendini process immediately.Give him some space to breath, wish bhairon stops her.About sanchi. is she in her +2 o_O

Edited by sushiani - 12 years ago