WU 5/4/13 J agrees to get married for A's sake!!! - Page 3

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Posted: 12 years ago
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thanks Anita for the wonderful update!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Some part of me wished Shiv was there with anandi while she convinced J. Does he know how much she has suffered in the hands of the same dadisa who is her fav now?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thank you for the wonderful update. Loved reading all of your posts in this thread. Whatever I wanted to say has been said 😊 Other than emotionally blackmailing Jagya for marriage the episode was good. After farewell party, we have to watch welcome home party.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anita, thanks for updating.

As some of you have mentioned, the definition of selfishness needs to be revised.

J has had two failed relationships and hence if he does not feel the need for a partner, why does he have to be blackmailed by the whole world, especially his Ex into getting married. I really felt bad for him. Time would have been a good healer and something could have come up. The guy was badly suffocated especially because his wrong deeds were badly rubbed on his face, that he had to give in. But will it be for the right reasons, let's wait and watch.

For Anandi: I don't know if she was really thinking of J's happiness here. I felt as if it was one more 'achievement' for her to 'convince' J. By hook or crook just do it, so that she is not burdened of how her family will 'live' after she has left Jaitser.

It was Anandi being selfish by not thinking of what Jagya wants and how the new bride may feel.

On one hand she says he would make a good partner but then when he says no, he automatically becomes selfish? Two contradictory statements by Anandi.

After 2nd marriage, she herself hasn't done any justice to Shiv, how can she fail to understand what J is going through?

She was emotionally blackmailed in re-marrying, and now she is blackmailing J to do the same. Is she indeed a well-wisher???

It would have been better if A had told him that he should marry for his own happiness, and if he is not ready, give him the space and get him ready in stages. Not just bully him.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anandi has become the Rajni kant of Tv serials. There is nothing on this earth that she can not do.
Whether grabing Manu from Rat singh and running and single handedly facing the gun or making her ex husband agree to marriage. I thought she will be shown to catch the bullet fired from Rat singh during the chase.
Any way Toral looked very beautiful and cute in the red dress. She is really a great romantic partner
For shiv than Pratusha. She is acting very well also. But i want to see more of Ganga.
Now A is in her bride finding mission. Will this cause a problem in her sasural since Sanchi is interested in J and A will not think Sanchi is suitable. She may go for Ganga.
Hope cvs finish with all the rituals fast and get on with the story.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jagia threw a trump card at Anandi when he told her to find the bride. That was a smart move.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jan50

Jagia threw a trump card at Anandi when he told her to find the bride. That was a smart move.


I too liked that... She was hell bent on him getting married, suffocated him to the core... well then ride along...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anita - Thanks for the WU.

BTW some one has copy pasted your WU at some other site.


Coming to the episode - It was a good episode with just one well conceived scene.

It was very symbolic.Long time back Anandi was locked up in that darkroom where the sole source of light came from Jagya.Even if he could not unlock the room and take her out he made the darkness bearable for her by keeping her company and cheering her up.The sole source of light in color in her otherwise bleak life.
Today Anandi came searching for him only to find that he has locked himself in darkness of his own creation and her leading him out of the dark room saying that if she locked herself up in dark room like he did she would have never become beti of the house.

Anandi overcoming the circumstances which were not under her control and moving on to make a better life and telling Jagya to come out the circumstances which were made worse by his actions to move on to make a life for himself.

The way Anandi figured out Jagya and what makes J tick is really good -It is all about I me myself and mine attitude.I am glad she finally told him that.
Previously it was his own pleasure that made him oblivious to others feelings.
Today it is his own fears regarding his abilities that is making him oblivious to others feelings.

A has noticed that J loves being around kids and he does enjoy the task of taking care of Ganga. May be that's what convinced that he would make a good husband this time. Anandi understood that his reason for saying no his because of his doubts about his being good husband material that's the reason why he is saying no despite his yearning to have afamily.

Though this forced marriage track is not very acceptable but I guess it works from the story they are trying to tell.If A resorting to emotional blackmail to make J agree for the marriage J retaliated by asking her to find a bride for him.Both the acts are OTT.

As for the last scene where they shook hands as friends some how it did not look like a closure to a relationship but a beginning of a new relationship.

As for the performances T has come up with a very convincing performance.The fact that A and J go long way back is reflected in her performance today.Even when she made references to the JG marriage and her marriage with J it looked very convincing.
This is a result of good writing and execution which is backed by good performances.
As for Shanky he was excellent with such perfect expressions.

The scene would have worked very well even without all those overdose of Avika Avinash scenes.






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Posted: 12 years ago
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You are right Aparna, some of the sites are shamelessly copying the update's. They have found a way to copy 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks for the update Anita.

Anandi telling Jagya about his selfish deeds in the past was good. She was able to tell him all that she probably never could have all these days.

The Ebing... It is both right and wrong depending on the perspective I think.

From Anandi's POV, she was in the same position that Jagya is in today. She didn't want to get married and would not have got married if it was not for EB. So, she understands what she would have missed out if she hadn't married Shiv. So, probably from that angle she wants Jagya to lead a life that will give him real love.

It is wrong to have EBed him.. because there is no guarantee that Jagya will end up with a jeevan saathi like hers. It is his happiness that is important in a marriage too..

Edited by dixie123 - 12 years ago

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