Thanks for update Anita š¤
O i think i should start with a sorry note for wednesday to all my update readers I thought i 'll be able to do update as soon as i'll be free from the work load that my boss put on me but unfortunately i could only get time now therefore couldn't do update .I am really sorry for disappointing my fellows here who must be waiting impatiently so sorry fellows
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Coming to episode I will write one thesis on it because i have a lot much to sayš
I have a mixture of feelings towards it Some things i really loved some things i really hated
But let me praise the acting part first which was awesome in the episode .Shashank was terrific in the episode š He was just perfect š.Toral was good but i still think Shanky won from her because the guy is indeed unmatchable for his skillful delivery of emotions , his voice modulation as per emotions of his character , his body language everything is just perfect š
The first store room scene was symbolic narrating many things .Telling Jagaya's emotional state who is realizing his mistakes and trying to punish himself for that . Jagaya's emotional state is pretty clear I have seen some members bombarded a lot of criticisim on poor guy from last couple of episodes that his redemption is not true but i think his redemption is very true and it has been pretty clear .He is going through an emotional struggle between his past and present that produces a mixture of emotions from him and it is absolutely natural for him to feel this way whenever he sees Anandi with Shiv, He cannot produce a broad smile on his face each time , so sadness , pain , tears , frustration, anger ( frustration and anger is on himself not on AnSh which is pretty clear ).He is in same emotional state as Anandi was when she use to see Jagaya with Gauri ,. Pain , anger , frustration This time period even she went through .Even she made it in herself something was wrong in her therefore this happened with her She lost a precious person in her life same is with Jagaya here but unfortunately like Anandi he doesn't have anyone to say he is complete innocent in what he has landed into It has been constantly rubbed on his face on how wrong he had been therefore he has given himself into yes he was wrong so his anger , and frustration on himself he lost a precious person in his life due to his own mistake that comes out whenever he sees Anandi with Shiv , his pain comes up ,
To come out of it , it will take him some time but that does not mean now he is mean , selfish , his redemption is not true , Its perfectly natural human reaction he is going through and all is needed is some time for him to come out it Currently everything is so early for him so he will take his time to heal up What marks his redemption is very true his ego don't interfere here and make him think any wrong and make any issue of it The six alter egos don't come and interfere in anything but from each come out the white Jagdish .Through every trial he is emerging as successful by not giving one damn to his egos What can be better proof than this he is redeeming to a better person not turning negative and in this episode he clearly proved he don't intend to cause pain to anyone For happiness of others he will sacrifice his desires too ready to face all pain but won't let any sadness for others because of him so i think it's time for us to give him one chance and see things for once understanding him instead of jumping on his neck each time and without understanding anything just criticize him then its us who are proved wrong not he
The first scene also told the unbreakable friendship bond between Jagaya and Anandi which faced all storms of time but was always there and still is there and in time of need they always helped each other . The kid Anandi who was unfairly punished and locked in store room at that time only her best friend Jagaya came to help her , soothe her and this time when Jagaya himself is unfairly punishing himself to the extremes by putting himself in the darkness of harsh punishment it his one best friend Anandi came to bring him out of it .and i think this classical friendship bond between these two is giving a wonderful message against child marriage So young children can only be friends Childhood is an age of making friends not husband and wife , same happened with Jagaya and Anandi Their child marriage broke but their childhood friendship is still surviving and the last hand shake scene was also beautiful that marks beginning of new relation for them . Re continuing their friendship at its best
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Now for next I am hugely disappointed with Anandi emotionally blackmailing Jagaya for marriage She crossed all limits . Never expected that from herš¤¢ From her own experience with Shiv , her being forced into marriage , how much misery she caused to herself and her partner when she just married for sake of mother's wishes this is what she learnt to emotionally blackmail a person to this extent to make him agree to marryšš¼ ,Very OTT and very wrong . I don't blame Jagaya here for anything it is not his immaturity that he, couldn't convince his family he tried , he requested , he presented his points , he cried , he was being strict but who is willing to listen to him for once apart from his father Bhairo? .Its others including Anandi who are acting so immature and stupidly towards his emotional state and forcing him to agree to their desires what they think best for him . not understanding his emotional state for once he needs some time This is not right time for this
.I don't appreciate Anandi for counting Jagaya's mistakes in front of him she counted that numerous times before This time she used as a trick to force him to agree to marry which is worth of condemning not appreciating .Which trick she didn't use yesterday ? From emotional torturing him for family's sake Dadisaa won't rest in peace , for your parents who are in so much pain to counting his mistakes and calling him selfish he has not yet changed to blackmailing him she is leaving with a burden on her heart . Very Very disappointing having her own experience, knowing Jagaya's emotional state and also telling him in her previous lecture not to marry under pressure What she did now ? She didn't pay any attention to Bhairo's words , neither Shiv;s words but she is acting complete selfish here she just wanted to free herself from a burden she couldn't help her family here for that she has put Jagaya into immense burden and pain and made him so helpless he has to agree because he didn;t want to cause to pain to anyone because of him but Anandi is seriously disappointing She was so happy after he agreed not for once realizing what she has put him into
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I appreciate Jagaya here He sacrificed his desires for sake of happiness of others .He acknowledges how much Anandi has done for his family so he doesn't want her to leave with a heavy heart He wants her to happy in her life therefore he gave into her wishes That shows what a good person he is becoming Though i really felt sorry for him He was in immense pain but trying to put a smile on his face for Anandi's sake and the way he was wiping his tears when she left How Anandi couldn't see his pain there . Anandi definitely sheer disappointment .I think someone should show her a mirror too about what she was doing in her time , how she was crying why i am not allowed to take decisions of my life and here she is following double standards š„±She forcing her decisions on Jagaya what she thinks is best for him and his family and also calling him selfish because he is not agreeing to marry for family's sakeš¤¢ These are indeed double standards which i despise and she is totally blinded towards how much pain she has caused to her partner Shiv with her forced marriage when she was not ready Its his patience and love for her that her marriage is still there otherwise she would be on verge of another divorce She needs to see a mirror here and also needs to understands she is lucky to get Shiv . Jagaya's emotional state is different He has also faced a hell of a life with Gauri who couldn't be satisfied with him and the relation end up breaking so its so difficult for him to have confidence here but Anandi is not willing to understand him for once Anandi was calling him selfish but the truth is he is only person who is acting selfless here He is totally concerned about his partner when he is not ready to give anything to her he is not willing to take responsibility of anyone because unlike Anandi he doesn't plan to pretend to sleep on table avoiding SR , or hiding here and there from his partner and he has faced a hell of a life with an unsatisfied partner but making Anandi understand anything these days is hitting your head on a wallš„±
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I really felt sorry for Jagaya the way he was made helpless and forced to agree to marry something his heart and mind is not willing to accept yet but Anandi left no option for him otherwise he would be left under more pain and guilt he causing pain to everyone .She made him so guilty there thats very wrong of her .Wonder what is ahead for Jagaya ?.He is in worst situation than Anandi No one apart from his father is willing to understand him and give him some time and space to heal up .I hope Bhairo takes this matter under his control He is only sane person otherwise rest including Anandi has lost it .They need to understand marriages are not only done for family's sake but with one's own conviction too just like one should not think about i me myself only but convince family for marriage too Thats how marriages succeed Marriages cannot be forced
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Jagaya asking Anandi to find life partner i think it was request he did from a trustable friend because he himself is so helpless and less confident here and the one who is over confident that marriage will be solution of all his problems he made a request to her she was so happy for it .Wonder whom she will bring in front of him ? Sanchi or Ganga . Ganga is at too early stage for growing feelings for Jagaya and i don't think anyone's eyes will fall on her she will take her time to completely be in love with him and see him as her life partner but Sanchi is on a rocket jet wonder if she shows change in her attitude try to be goody goody will Anandi consider her ? Lets see but i must say poor Jagaya where he is trapped into .No one is willing to understand him for once They are forcing him , scratching his wounds , giving him more pain for current time rather than solving his problems .
Please give him some time to heal up If he has done few mistakes that doesn't mean he has lost his right to live as per his wish Yes his despair is wrong They need to bring him out of it but this emotional blackmailing , forcing , emotional torture is no way It is increasing his pain Time is healer of wounds Time will heal him up and if he is destined to be with anyone no one can stop it neither he so why forcing and torture? It is baseless in my view Lets see what happens but i hope now he will get some time as Anandi won't find partner for him so soon so he can heal up until or unless Dadisaa don't torture him much by starting his marriage preparations even before finding bride for him Sigh lets see what is in store for poor Jagaya here How much marriage torture on him before he finds his soul mate in Ganga and marries her
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