W/U 19/02/13 (Gauri returns)

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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: hooked

I beg to differ a bit. -

Love does strange things to people. J was totally in sync with A when he went, even after the ragging when he came back - A helped him chin up and go back to pursue his dreams. But once J went blind for Gauri - the logic flew out of the window.

This is why Love is considered such a wild card. There is a reaosn we have lines like - all is fair in love and war. These are inexplicable emotions that want to listen to no reason coz they deal with the heart and not the head.

DS can't be blamed for J going nuts on Gauri. Same as CM cudn't do anything about Shiv going nuts for Anandi. It so happened that CM came around to like A, but do you think Shiv wud have listened to anyone but his own heart even if Daddu had opposed this rishta ?

However, I do think DS is worrying uselessly, coz now J is aware of all of Gauri's acts and deeds and he is not enamored anymore by just a pretty picture of what she used to want him to see. J too has lost. His kid - and he was shown to already care a great deal for it and he was the one who truly grieved for it. J just wants to close things formally, he won't get trapped. Wish DS could rest easy soon.

Hooked can i argue with you when it comes to DS? It think NO...you love her too much😆.

Ok..on a serious note, here i wasn't blaming DS for J falling in love with G. I agree with u on this. I was talking about her worry of J being trapped. He is a grown up man. He shuld be able to do things sensibly. He shouldn't have acted impulsively soon after listening to Ganga's advice. He could think, wait till the next day...convince his family in a matured way and leave. But no...he acts like a child .First,he doesn't think on his own( Ganga has to advice him about his life!)...then, after he takes a decision, he can't act on his own...he runs to A for whatever reasons.I think this kind of personality is the result of DS's pampering. She always protected him...and made A be his next protector. She covered up and backed him when he did mistakes. She never taught him how to fish instead gave him fish. This made him weak. So she fears the most even today that any tom dick or harry could trap her grandson for his weak personality.

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rukhsar.crazy

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Posted: 12 years ago

#42

thanks for the update missesha

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Smriti

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Posted: 12 years ago

#43

Thanks for the WU. Haven't watched the epi yet...observations r based on update

So Ansh are running in short supply this week & will be heavily rationed till J returns frm Gauri darshan or not!!! CVs ka eco funda is clear as far as Ansh are concerned...greater demand, less supply, hence enhancement in overall equity...which they hope translates to better trps when finally the demand is met.

Admire Ganga's guts & honesty...she seems some one to reckon with! Look forward to her completing the education of DS which was started by Anandi. But as far as Jughead is concerned DS SHALL never change...in fact she is grooming J no 2 in the form on Nandu...another spoilt, spineless, pampered brat. And really don't like this whole thing becoming about Anandi faililng or winning...even BS has lost it this time. Utter non-sense. He just came & informed her...she did not egg him on to go.

Anandi & Singh parivar need a break from each- other! But she needs to realize that first. Today we will witness some more such dama when A despite being advised to the contrary will go to haveli.

Btw A has honed the wifely skill of asking dear hubby for advice & then doing exactly what you initially set out to do & convince him too.

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ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 12 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: tanvismile

no matter how much u exaxurate gauri say bla bla the bottom line she just behaved badly and kept one truth secretly for her man ,ur ganga also can understand but u cant
why dont u demand sorry from ds who kiiled basant s wife,who took advantage of gehna s poor parents,who was ok basant raped gehna
,one good thing she did to marry anandi to shiv why becoz jagya left her and she was feeling guilty ,but can those sins just wash away .Did she say sorry for all these .Gauri is nowhere close to these.

no matter how much you defend Gauri present how many bottom lines blah blah blah i cannot say Gauri as victim or support Gauri being a victim 🤢neither i will support her disgusting works and no repentance from her side yet because i am not her fan like you and i don't find the reasoning you are giving for her sins any valid reasons for stooping so low and wow first time knowing anyone lying and fooling her man to have him only for herself and never let him go to his family is for him what a true love🤢 she was not doing anything for him but she was only satisfying her revenge planning and plotting for that purpose her challenge My Ganga also understand lol how much she knows her that she understands ? yesterday she said i don't know much about her

Dadisaa has repented all her sins she is rectifying them in true sense Earned apology from all what Gawari and her parents have done? have they even accepted one of their sin yet ?🤢The day they will do any one thing to rectify their so many sins then compare them with Dadisaa

Edited by sidra08 - 12 years ago

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

#45

Esha - Thanks for the written update.

I know people are not very happy with the current track of J leaving for Mumbai after he had gyan darshan from Ganga and asking Anandi to take care of his family's reaction.

I am one of the few who seem to be liking it..

Because they have shown both A and J behaving as per their habits.J running to her and expecting her to take care of his problems and A taking responsibility of solving his problems.Because this is what the total sum of their relationship.

I suppose this is what the makers are trying to convey - that this is not exactly a result of a mature relationship but a result of a long standing habit as a result of child marriage.

I hope they go to the next level soon and show them getting out of this habit.Anandi getting out of this with the help of Shiv and J with the help of Ganga who seem to have a very sensible head on her shoulders.

Ganga was very impressive in this episode.

It is a bit funny when Anandi told them the same thing they were not willing to listen but they listened and gave it a thought when Ganga told them the same thing.The angry reaction to Anandi's was not because they thought she was interfering but they considered it as a wrong decision on her part as in immaturity.

Was it just a result of reinforcement by Ganga of what Anandi said earlier or was it a result of something else?

I think the haweli people should blame themselves for raisng a son who couldn't differentiate between a real diamond and cheap glass piece instead of blaming Gauri.

As for AnSh - Anandi has finally realised the advantage of having a partner who is her equal in every way.She uses him as a sounding board.This aspect was not there in JAAN relationship.She kept her thoughts and doubts to herself.

I do like the way they are showing the contrast between two mature individuals who are bound by marriage and two teenagers who were pushed into marriage.

As for the precap - DS and her over heated imagination 😆

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Missesha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#46

Aparna, I really liked your analysis.

Although the track was not interesting to me, I agree and believe that both A and J behaved as per their nature.

Just that I have had enough of CVs showing A-J paths crossing, when there is no need. Hopefully things change and we see them both taking a long break from each other.

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mahi12

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Posted: 12 years ago

#47

@Aparna ...agreed that both Jagaya and Anandi were not interfering in each other 's lives it is like old habits don't go away this fast .They know very well they are not together any more. What Jagaya did was just follow his old habit of running to Anandi for help and Anandi with her old habit of pulling Jagaya out of trouble decided to help him out.This is something they both did without thinking properly just happened from them because this habit has been there from their childhood days.But the thing is viewers are eager to see them coming out of these old habits and move on in their lives which they have to do without each other but cvs are testing viewers patience 😆But hopefully after this incident the next level of their relation will start and we see them realizing in given time that they have to come out of these old habits Anandi moving out of this with the help of Shiv and Jagaya with the help of Ganga who is indeed very sensible and will manage the lives of Jagaya and Singhs both the way Anandi.did .No problems with Jagaya Anandi's friendship and their crossing paths but they need to have some life without each other as well after all they have to live a long life without each other

Edited by mahi12 - 12 years ago

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: Missesha
Aparna, I really liked your analysis.

Although the track was not interesting to me, I agree and believe that both A and J behaved as per their nature.

Just that I have had enough of CVs showing A-J paths crossing, when there is no need. Hopefully things change and we see them both taking a long break from each other.

Esha I think that is the crux of the story.About how they get out of this habit and what is required to get them out of this habit of theirs and how a bond formed out of habit cannot be considered as a termed as a relationship.I agree they could have shown some other ways to bring out this.

Now at least there wont be people saying that A is helping J because she is still in love with him.Because they have shown her to be completely in love with her husband.

Probably with Ganga's help he will come out of it.He also has to get out of that habit of looking upto Anandi for help.

They obviously cannot be showing this habit of a life time changing overnight.So they will be lot of crossing paths and it will only be a gradual change. Afterall this is the main part of the story.

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Smriti

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Posted: 12 years ago

#49

Very well put Aparna! This is indeed the crux of their relationship. And J has finally found someone other than A who can bring out the better side of him...who has a strong moral & ethical core unlike Gauri. J is the kind of man who needs a positive influence in his life to stay on the right path. indeed Ganga may help ease the Singh parivar burden of A & help her move on. Actually this will be interesting to watch.

PS..funny we used the same expression😊

Edited by smriti81 - 12 years ago