Why is DS angry with anandi ?

This old lady always blames so,end for her ladesar's deeds. Why is she angry with anandi when jagya as gone to Mumbai according to his wish. When he can forgive jagya why can't she forgive gauri for her mistakes. Gauri mistakes r not as evil as how old DS was few years back. This old lady is always selfish for her ladesar. I am sure if Singh family show the love and accept gauri she will definetely redeem. This all depends on gaurimata nature now. I seriously want anandi to teach DS to stop blaming her as she is no more beendni of the haveli.