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Today I found that how helpless and insecure Singhs are - there are three perfectly able bodied male adults (BB and Makhan!) in the house - two adult woman capable to doing household chores without fail - abundance of wealth and no worries about the next meal - and they will still need someone to look after them physically or emotionally. The family has prefect bonding with each other - they share their happiness and sorrows without any hesitation - they have personal doctor and lots of support from villagers - yet they cannot be left alone without anybody's 'bharosa'.
Another perfectly able bodied man left the haveli in his own will - for the sake of repentance - which was clearly explained in his letter. The family understands his reason for leaving and coping with that. But how can they cope it without anybody's 'bharosa'? How can they find their son using their own resources? So unfair! At least they needed someone with the capability of shedding buckets of water who could remotely organize a search party for the lost son?
However, Khajan and Bhago were extremely strong - they had constant worries about their next meal, much less support from rest of the world and no one to visit them (unless they are in death bed, of course) to ask about their health or mental condition. Poor Khajan - in his hut lonelier than ever - even he gets to speak over the phone - there is no mind reader to worry about whether he is okay or not.
