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Posted: 12 years ago
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Moral of the story so far is, high maintenance women come in all forms.They don't necessarily have to be ultra modern like Ashima. Hope there is no misunderstanding in Shekar's family. Shekhars are so broad minded and generous. Sanchi came up with right statements today about the couple addressing each other by name.there is always high tension for the married couple from both parents family. We need to change a bit in these aspects. Newly married couple should not be bothered with too many rituals by oldies. Already they had an elaborate tiresome wedding.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Loved the episode .. full of fun , emotions,togetherness .. a complete episode. The way Mahi teases Shiv, the way Saanchi put her complaint that they are not addressing properly was correct n very well taken by everyone... depositing money if A says collector saab 😆 was fun ... Mahi being too smart to make money in this situation ... but obviously in a healthy way ... then finally ...
The way today A speaks with S was the best ... This is the bonding which i love about Anandi and Shiv thats why they are different from all the other pairs on screen ... every bit of yourself telling other without hesitation , without any fear ... is the important bond , beauty of the relation ... Anandi because of the fear can't see but Shiv is the soul mate and she knows the only thing is because of fear can't see . The understanding Shiv has is really difficult to find in many grownups . He understands Anandi and her situation . He knows this is going to be difficult for a women to completely surrender herself especially when she did that and already been ditched by the person . A life partner or a partner who came next to someone in your life has to be very calm , full control on your mind , very understanding, open to every aspect of life , ready to accept as it is and knows how to handle the situation .
My beleive is as this is a Big and tough job this was considered in past generations as Men can't do this thats why always being discouraged to not marry a divocy , widow or a rape victim because for them a guy need to have a lots of patience , have to give a lot of love (unconditional) , lots of understanding ... Which is a difficult job .
Hats off to the writers to make a beautiful character like Shiv and maintaining his inner beauty as it is .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think it would have been really nice if she could find a 3rd ma in Meenu after all she is a widow and she would understand how Anandi would be feeling and all.

I hope that they show a more relationship building with her and Meenu and Ira.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#34
My thoughts are exactly the same as yours . I love Balika Vadhu even for me this is the #1 serial of all because of brilliant acting, wonderful story, a different shades of Men in the society like ... Bhairon ( best character), Shyam, Shiv, Dr( i missed his name) n other side Basant, Jagya, Minister etc ... a lovely bonding between a Sumitra-Anandi a beautiful character Dadisa ...
If a person is heartbroken you have to give him space, time and A LOT OF LOVE ... Unconditional love ... EMOTIONS CAN BE REPAIRED BY EMOTIONS ONLY .
👏 for your views.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: smeenakshi76

again wrong voice over. In remarriage, is it only boy's responsibility to help his wife overcome fears,, insecurities? I dont think so. Its' equal from both sides. Girls more responsibility if she's marrying a bachelor guy. Pls give more attention to your voiceovers.

ya u r right.see in punar vivah serial they showed that girl to initiative in their reation.in that show girl is betrayed and left y her husband just ike anandi but stil she moved on
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@skepblan, no we do not tolerate women forced to adjust with any kind of man. If they become impossible break is the only way. But if a man is slightly troublesome, it irritates every one. In the same way though A is a superb girl, but her behavior is irritating. It feels bad to see Shiv bending over backwards too much. Though I did notice a slight irritation on his face when A was mentioning how her mother will be very pleased with their marriage. And I am happy about it because it is human. Whether it is a man or a woman, seeing them troubled by their spouses is annoying.
But some people show too much of feminist attitude, even supporting a person like Gauri. Whose problem has nothing to do with her being abused. She came out of that notorious Bal vivas and helped by some one to become a doctor. Her problem was utter manipulation,selfishness and self pity.such people will only get a guy like J and not Shiv. A person like Shiv will figure her out and not touch her with a ten foot pole.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun

I am shocked at mentality of some members here! Why is it so wrong if a man makes compromises/adjustments for his wife? We expect female characters to tolerate any kind of bullshit (accept even an insane man as husband - as done in many serials) but have problems with mild reluctance of Anandi now?

IMHO Balika Vadhu has balanced it very well. Both males and females need to understand each other and put up with each other's "quirks" (or whatever you call it).

Shyam also helped Sugna like this only and today they are a happy couple.

Intimacy is not a cakewalk for women! Respecting someone is something else but physical intimacy is a huge deal for an Indian woman - more so from rural areas and middle class. You don't just jump in bed! And here we have a woman who's gone through a lot, didn't even want to marry initially but did it all for family. A bit of reluctance is bound to be there.

In some old serials like Kusum and Kumkum also the lead married second time due to family pressure but had intimacy issues. Gradually they became more and more comfortable with their spouses and themselves took the first step towards intimacy.

Why is it wrong to give time to a woman? In India even first time brides are sometimes not ready for intimacy yet their husbands literally force themselves upon them. I don't think it's fair.

BV has balanced it well showing that a man has to be equally a giver in marriage, not just the woman.

In fact, I feel even a wounded person like Gauri needed an understanding guy like Shiv who'd have made her a calmer, happier person (instead she got Jagya due to whom she became even more hysterical!).

BV has shown perfect contrast - Bhairon, Shyam and Shiv are ideal men whereas Jagya, Basant types are typical MCPs who don't give a damn and try to reform later.

Women have needs too. What's wrong if in-laws or husband make efforts to make them comfortable? Anandi's gradually responding, why expect her to quickly accept everything?

Comments in this forum have shown what people's mentality is, regarding women! So much for modernity!


I posted this at the wrong place sorry . My thoughts are exactly the same as yours . I love Balika Vadhu even for me this is the #1 serial of all because of brilliant acting, wonderful story, a different shades of Men in the society like ... Bhairon ( best character), Shyam, Shiv, Dr( i missed his name) n other side Basant, Jagya, Minister etc ... a lovely bonding between a Sumitra-Anandi a beautiful character Dadisa ...
If a person is heartbroken you have to give him space, time and A LOT OF LOVE ... Unconditional love ... EMOTIONS CAN BE REPAIRED BY EMOTIONS ONLY .
👏 for your views.
Edited by smilydear - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: pretty54

I think it would have been really nice if she could find a 3rd ma in Meenu after all she is a widow and she would understand how Anandi would be feeling and all.


I hope that they show a more relationship building with her and Meenu and Ira.


The precap shows what usually happens with everybody, be it love or arranged marriage...In-laws don't fully understand the new person yet and being protective for their sons or brothers usually doubt the poor girl who for a few days is usually in a culture shock of the changed household 😃. The dust settles and s do people with time...Atleast Ira and party wouldn't be as bad as dadisa when first Anandi came to the Singh household. She went through that,,,this is cakewalk...

😊😊
Edited by sakshi.ch - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#39
And the highlight was Shiv's passionate whisper in Anandi's ears 😳...hearing that I would say,,,CHUCK the looser J and grab this one with both hands 😃 ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sakshi.ch

And the highlight was Shiv's passionate whisper in Anandi's ears 😳...hearing that I would say,,,CHUCK the looser J and grab this one with both hands 😃 ..


shiv was smoking hot today !!!

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