W/U 8/01/13 AnSh Best convo/ Real names addressed - Page 3

Thank you for the update..wowww just love the epi

Originally posted by: brick_red

Thanks for the update.

So the main points are Shiv knew about A's stress and A herself is clueless about the reason behind her fears. And Shiv and Anandi are determined to move forward trusting each other. Good..Good.

Over all a good episode. I liked the teasing by family..😳

But the pre-cap left a very bitter taste. Poor Shiv. He is going to land up in trouble with his family. Why is it so important that a guy should share every piece of news with his parents first, before his wife's family? How does it matter? No need to have such complications in life..Who came to know what first is the least important thing.

again wrong voice over. In remarriage, is it only boy's responsibility to help his wife overcome fears,, insecurities? I dont think so. Its' equal from both sides. Girls more responsibility if she's marrying a bachelor guy. Pls give more attention to your voiceovers.

Originally posted by: smeenakshi76

Dear CVs, please stop this nonsense track now. A still suffering from jagiya syndrome. If she cant move out of it y married to Shiv. She needs time to come of it then how long-Din, mahine, saal? Shiv is looking like becoming pakka Joru ka ghulam. Biwi ki khushi mein hi woh khush. How long he will abstain from touching Anandi. CM's apprehensions were right for this matrimony but shiv was so blind in love. Now doubts r cropping in Ira's mind. Good, atleast she will see her son becoming so ghulam of his joru that he didn't bothered to his family abt his plans of going back to Jetsar. Anandi so happy to know that they are going to Jetsar. Singhs' are hell bent on Pag pheras rasam. It seems all characters in this track are gone out of mind. Surely, present track deserves to be given a miss. better to switch to other shows for some time.

Originally posted by: brick_red

But the pre-cap left a very bitter taste. Poor Shiv. He is going to land up in trouble with his family. Why is it so important that a guy should share every piece of news with his parents first, before his wife's family? How does it matter? No need to have such complications in life..Who came to know what first is the least important thing.

i know some of u still have doubts n complains but relax...till now anandi was behaving becoz she was under pressure due to shiv's behaviour...from the way she acted in the end(return of shiv's hashmok anandi)i think now it will be easy for her to forget her past as shiv will never bring up this SR thing again...nothing else was bothering anandi as far as it seems !!!

Thanks Esha for the update. You are a lucky girl. I remember your first update was an awesome one too..

I am shocked at mentality of some members here! Why is it so wrong if a man makes compromises/adjustments for his wife? We expect female characters to tolerate any kind of bullshit (accept even an insane man as husband - as done in many serials) but have problems with mild reluctance of Anandi now?

IMHO Balika Vadhu has balanced it very well. Both males and females need to understand each other and put up with each other's "quirks" (or whatever you call it).

Shyam also helped Sugna like this only and today they are a happy couple.

Intimacy is not a cakewalk for women! Respecting someone is something else but physical intimacy is a huge deal for an Indian woman - more so from rural areas and middle class. You don't just jump in bed! And here we have a woman who's gone through a lot, didn't even want to marry initially but did it all for family. A bit of reluctance is bound to be there.

In some old serials like Kusum and Kumkum also the lead married second time due to family pressure but had intimacy issues. Gradually they became more and more comfortable with their spouses and themselves took the first step towards intimacy.

Why is it wrong to give time to a woman? In India even first time brides are sometimes not ready for intimacy yet their husbands literally force themselves upon them. I don't think it's fair.

BV has balanced it well showing that a man has to be equally a giver in marriage, not just the woman.

In fact, I feel even a wounded person like Gauri needed an understanding guy like Shiv who'd have made her a calmer, happier person (instead she got Jagya due to whom she became even more hysterical!).

BV has shown perfect contrast - Bhairon, Shyam and Shiv are ideal men whereas Jagya, Basant types are typical MCPs who don't give a damn and try to reform later.

Women have needs too. What's wrong if in-laws or husband make efforts to make them comfortable? Anandi's gradually responding, why expect her to quickly accept everything?

Comments in this forum have shown what people's mentality is, regarding women! So much for modernity!

Originally posted by: smeenakshi76

again wrong voice over. In remarriage, is it only boy's responsibility to help his wife overcome fears,, insecurities? I dont think so. Its' equal from both sides. Girls more responsibility if she's marrying a bachelor guy. Pls give more attention to your voiceovers.

cvs are scaring away bachelor guys never to marry a divorced woman otherwise you will have to take burden of her problems to heal up .? so next time every bachelor guy will think twice before marrying a divorced woman 😆

Thank you sooo much for the WU of this fantastic episode 😳