W/U 8/01/13 AnSh Best convo/ Real names addressed - Page 5

Originally posted by: libsrocks

i know some of u still have doubts n complains but relax...till now anandi was behaving becoz she was under pressure due to shiv's behaviour...from the way she acted in the end(return of shiv's hashmok anandi)i think now it will be easy for her to forget her past as shiv will never bring up this SR thing again...nothing else was bothering anandi as far as it seems !!!

Hmm...You think it is easy and just like that !! Nice comment - So An will have no problem from now -on coz he will never touch her again !!👏 Bravo !! Excellent !! Coz nothing else was bothering Anandi as far as it seems !!!

What is the purpose of the marriage - why she accept to marry him, just to pleases her mom, or DS or Sings, or to be a good friends with her husband? Again she accept marriage by force, not by her free will ! Why she is doing this to herself ? She is brave young woman, intelligent, determined to fight for woman's rights, she was fighting against child marriage and against agreed marriage as well, coz she understand very well the meaning of LOVE . Why than she has accepted to marry Shiv if she doesn't feel love and compassion - only friendship ? Very nice - but life is not that easy ! This is nice from An point of view, but what about Shiv and his feelings ? What about their planing about family, children and future life ? What is the purpose of living together ? To be only the friends, they shouldn't get married at all.

How long she will going to recall Jagi and the moment connected to him ? Hasn't it already pass too many years since she has being left by J and living alone, without love. Didn't she overcome this for long lasting period of more than 6 years - Jagi needs at least 4-5 years to graduate medicine and at least 2 years for MD graduation ( as Gaury has got this diploma), and if you rememeber she is already working at least one year - so if we calculate all these years it must be 8 years !! Isn't it enough to overcome this lost love, pain, suffering, insecurity etc.,

OK, I admit that sometimes it is not that easy, specially in rural environments, where women do not have the chance to meet someone by free will and to fall in love - usually it happen like in An case, again agreed marriage, where both sides do not love each other equally.

But, CV has to provide for Anandi the second chance, to let move on in her life, to have the normal family and happiness - otherwise what is the message that CV is sending to the divorced women in India ? They should remain alone and serve the family of their ex-husband or to return to her parents, and be punished for being left / abandoned by their husbands, without their faults. Or maybe CV is just testing the audience patience and reaction ?? OK... than let us be patient - we will see how CV will proceed with this issue !

thanks for a clearly written update.

Oh, thank goodness!!! So happy right now 😃 Shivuuu, tu mera hero!

Thanks for the update Esha. Am so happy you got the episode you wanted.

Liked the Mahi-Shiv conversation. Sachi for the first time spoke sense. Thank God for small mercies. Hopefully with the removal of formality in addressing each other, they also grow closer.

A's problem and hesitation is not that difficult for her to get over it. She will be fine sooner than we expect. She is lucky to have an understanding husband as Shiv.

Probably DS might have called S when they might have decided to return to Jaitser or else S would not make a decision without informing his family. I hope Irawati doesn't start misunderstanding A. Doesn't Sachi have to go back to college. Its high time she act her age and stop patronizing her elders.

Originally posted by: Jan50

@skepblan, no we do not tolerate women forced to adjust with any kind of man. If they become impossible break is the only way. But if a man is slightly troublesome, it irritates every one. In the same way though A is a superb girl, but her behavior is irritating. It feels bad to see Shiv bending over backwards too much. Though I did notice a slight irritation on his face when A was mentioning how her mother will be very pleased with their marriage. And I am happy about it because it is human. Whether it is a man or a woman, seeing them troubled by their spouses is annoying.

But some people show too much of feminist attitude, even supporting a person like Gauri. Whose problem has nothing to do with her being abused. She came out of that notorious Bal vivas and helped by some one to become a doctor. Her problem was utter manipulation,selfishness and self pity.such people will only get a guy like J and not Shiv. A person like Shiv will figure her out and not touch her with a ten foot pole.

No. We do accept serials like Banoo main teri dulhan and Koshish wherein a woman is tricked into marrying a mentally unstable man. Or ones like Madhubala where it's woman's responsibility to set a bratty man right. But we have so much nitpicking for a woman if she's reluctant to get intimate with her husband?

Why is it so disconcerting to see a man bend "backwards"? Women do it all the time so what's the problem if a man has to bear with a few things?

Anandi is not showing nakhras or being rude. She rather fell to his feet and expressed helplessness in the intimacy issue. We could've mauled her if she were acting all rude and aloof. But she shared her fears so we can understand her weakness, no?

I don't support Gauri. I just gave an example how an ideal, understanding man can transform a woman's life for better. Gauri was nice to begin with. Only lies of Jagya and Singh family, coupled with BS conditioning by her parents ruined her. If she had an understanding partner she'd have remained good too. But a guy like Jagya only revived her old wounds and made her worse.

In fact Gauri talk makes me think here's the difference between her and Anandi. Anandi softly explains her fears and insecurities. Gauri gets hysterical. So Anandi's way of handling emotional issues is still better. We should understand her condition than get irritated at her.

It's not fair to expect a person to mould herself all the time in an instant. Fact is Anandi did marry for sake of family only. She didn't get attracted or marry of her own choice. Family wants secure future for girl so fine. Girls oblige but they have to be given time to move from respect to love.

The day Anandi realises she loves Shiv, she'll herself come close to him.

I'm happy to see BV show both partners having to work on the relationship.

I agree with your post completely. And I do see that there are lot of people who are saying why was A reluctant. The only difference I can see between reel/real is that probably a lot of women would have thought abt this before marriage..but here probably becase its a serial they ahve shown it afterwards. But otherwise agree with A saying yeh mujhse nahi hoga. It is difficult but not impossible, slowly but surely she would change and later will realise that it was a difficult thing but worth it and right thing to do as J is not worth it.

I think the reaosn for A's reluctance is more to do with what she had imagined J to be more than what J did. Here was a girl who for like 15 years or so..had just one person in her mind..and to replace that image with someone else isn't so easy..So mujhse nahi hoga is very much realistic..

Esha🤗Thanks for the written update

I liked sid's subtle performance but can't say the same with prats. I don't know it's her confused character butchered by cv or I am getting bored of anandi crying and talking slowly most of the time. I think prats will soon loose lot of her BV fans to smriti jha bcos cv r giving a fierce character to her.

Originally posted by: dixie123

Thanks Esha for the update. You are a lucky girl. I remember your first update was an awesome one too..

I am so happy that the CVs didn't throw unnecessary googlies at us and confuse us with AnSh. For once, the convo we expected happened. We were expecting Shiv to be supportive of her and that is what happened.

Anandi doesn't know why she is unable to move on. That is good enough for us as of now instead of some silly 'pyar ek baar hi hota hai' dialogue she told Sumi.

finally, the name calling teasing happened. Have been waiting for that. NS taunting actually led to something good.

About the precap, I hope they show us a good reason why Shiv made the decision he made of not letting his family know of cancelling his hols and Ira having to hear from DS.

Thanks Nivi,

Wow! you remember my first update. Yeah that too was a nice one.

Agree with you.CVS handled the track well and didn't leave us with more confusions regarding AnSh.

I would really be happy if AnSh go out on honeymoon (read vacation). This will give them the time they need with each other. Now that A is out of pressure and fear, she will be in a better mind-set to accept Shiv and his gestures.

I hope CVS give a good time to AnSh romance rather than pushing the 2 back to Jiatser to become Collector and Sarpanch again. Don't know why Shiv is in rush to go to Jaitser. Or is it because he now wants privacy with his Mrs. in CH😉

i told u..u will get the scenes to update...hai naa esha😎