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Posted: 12 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

no use pri they are exactly what I wrote ...

Victim Bashers.

I wouldn't be surprised if one of 'them' opened up a thread in support of those 6 men who raped Damini...saying well she deserved it for travelling alone.

Insensitive..

And such people DO exist in the real world.

But I take solace in people like you who care yaar..

Thank you for simply being human u know.




I agree suchi...

I simply fail to understand the psyche of such people...

If there is such insensitivity...with already so much happening in today's world...bashign someone without genuine reason...

yea...but there are people like you said who care...and goodness ~understanding still does exist...

anyway...to each his own...let them learn on their own...

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Posted: 12 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: sectoreight

well, personally, I cant stand shiv bashing -- calling him despo and not able to control his male urges.

give him a break! he is 32, newly married. He caressed her elbows standing behind her and told her that he has looked forward to intimacy with her since some time now.
if anybody is the victim, it is shiv.
victim of being married to anandi 🤣🤣

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Posted: 12 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: Shinya


I agree with all. If anything was wrong, it was anandi's attitude. And people are calling shiv a 'Despo' ??? Unbelievable!!

The man who stood by her, supported her illogical decisions, gave recognition to her school and above all loved her unconditionally, can he be called a despo ? She must not forget that she is indebted to him all her life.

You mean to say she is still remembering her past with Jagya that she cannot bear his touch ??



shiya for them anandi is everythig she cat do any mistake...i cat beleive how they have used the name of damini in support of anandi...😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
#64
Those who called shiv a despo were joking about it.. but if people actually took out the time and look into the discussion...

we said Shiv was right and so was Anandi.
Shiv was behaving normal as a husband in love would do and Anandi on the other side is also right cause she just needs to see all the dimensions of the relationship and understand it.

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Posted: 12 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: Shinya


I agree with all. If anything was wrong, it was anandi's attitude. And people are calling shiv a 'Despo' ??? Unbelievable!!

The man who stood by her, supported her illogical decisions, gave recognition to her school and above all loved her unconditionally, can he be called a despo ? She must not forget that she is indebted to him all her life.

You mean to say she is still remembering her past with Jagya that she cannot bear his touch ??



Its not about whether or not she is able bear Shiv's touch...
Its about the vulnerable position Jaggu Bhai had left her in...
When she loved J., she loved him with all her heart and mind in place.
But what did she get in the end.,
He had done nothing but cheat her love ., her feelings., her emotions.
Now., to feel., all those beautiful feelings that she has felt with some other man., however extra ordinary he is quite difficult considering her bruised past.
Only a sensitive enough man like Shiv can understand this and he will definitely do.
Even if she puts forth her apprehensions vocally or no., he will understand when to back off., sensing her responses.
For a Man like Shiv., I don't think even OTT dialogues or heart to heart talk is required to understand her psyche regarding this matter...its only required for US to keep our minds at peace...😆😆
Edited by adi2512 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: Pri_kinmuk



Ok now this is the limit of insensitivity...

every person has the right to his/her opinion and so do you...

BUT what you have just said above...I have no words...

It is so easy to say...right ?? that what did she lack in those years except jagya??

and I dont want to argue with someone who used words like 'COMPENSATED' !!!! how can a person be compensated for what they had to endure...do u have any idea how much it hurts when the person you love cheats on you and makes you feel like you are some piece of garbage ???? It hurts more than a physical wound can hurt...

and you are saying jagya got pain from deserting her ??? well according to you the so called PAIN he got...he himself invited it by his KARMA...

according to the theme of BV...the CVs wanted to show that from child marriage...it cannot be easy for the boy and girl...because attraction happens...Jagya was at an age where he got attracted to gauri...BUT the STEPS that he took FURTHER was wrong...the WHY he left Anandi was wrong...he did no leave anandi beacuse he did not love her anymore...he left anandi because Gauri appealed to him more...and all that the 'PAIN' as u call it he suffered was not because of child marriage but because of the decision's HE HIMSELF made...

Jagya's parents and dadisa (Singh family elders) can be blamed for the child marriage between Anandi-Jagya !!!!! NOT for the decisions Jagya made...when he was an adult

There is an expiry date on blaming your parents for steering you in the wrong direction; the moment you are old enough to take the wheel, responsibility lies with you

and such insensitive thinking for a women...and using words like she has been compensated for her sufferings...let me tell you one thing...there can NEVER be compensations for such type of wounds...

We all have our opinions. Sometimes we relate to a certain character and sometimes we cant.
Like you cant relate to Jagai's pain, sameway I cant relate to Anandi.
She looks fake to me...And I do have an idea of the kind os situation Anandi faced. And precisely
that is why I used"compensated."
Edited by elasingh - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#67
yes aandi is victim...but if she still wat to be victim with shiv its her choice


its my humble request dont bring the real victim of life damiini all these...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: shalluuu

shiya for them anandi is everythig she cat do any mistake...i cat beleive how they have used the name of damini in support of anandi...😭


What can we say? Just ignore !
A sensitive issue like Damini's is brought under this topic... ridiculous!

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Posted: 12 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: shalluuu

its show and just fictiion no need to bring the girl damini in all these,,it would be shame on us if we will bring damani in all these...what happen to her is reality wo kisi serial ki nataunki nahi thii...


so many ppl had symathy with gauri but you people didnt ..tab damini jaisi ladki ko kyu naye lakr aaye

anandi k support k liye to aap kisi ko bhi le aao...

shame shame and shame someone is relating damini the real character with fiction character...


Agree with you completely. Shameful.
Let her rest in peace.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yes let damini rest in peace...its not good to bring her...

and we know very well where to reply or not?????

kisi ko point out krne ki jrurat nahi hai...

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