yesterday's desponess-so not shiv

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shalluuu

@shalluuu

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Posted: 12 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: elasingh
I think sympathy comes from within and there is also a limit to it.
Endless crying and always displaying victim attitude puts an end to sympathy.

Beside no one can command anyone to sympathise with any person or fictional character.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 12 years ago

#52

@TM - I don't think there is anything wrong with Shiv's behaviour.

He just read the situation wrong.He just went a little too fast for her.

And I don't think Anandi is wrong either.She just needed some more time.

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Ela Singh

@elasingh

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Posted: 12 years ago

#53

17 Long years of suffring...Whjat did she lack during those years except Jagia?

And what did Jagia get for deserting her? Pain, pain and more pain.

I do feel bad for Anandi but I also think she has been compensated enough for her sufferings and now honestly enough of ur tears Anandi.

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sectoreight

@sectoreight

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Posted: 12 years ago

#54

yes, anandi has had an abusive past.

that being said she has also had substantial support and rehabilitation to get out of it. so no sympathy anymore.

if she is scared that shiv will desert her like jagya did, then she should not have married shiv.

if she decided to marry shiv, then she should understand what the expectations are in a marriage.

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vidya0000

@vidya0000

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Posted: 12 years ago

#55

Neither jagya nor saanchi is raising any wall in between ansh. Now, anandhi herself raising wall in their relationship. How long she will do her sympathy drama in the name of her past ? when shiv himself doesn't bothered abt her past.

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Pri_kinmuk

@Pri_kinmuk

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Posted: 12 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: elasingh
17 Long years of suffring...Whjat did she lack during those years except Jagia?

And what did Jagia get for deserting her? Pain, pain and more pain.

I do feel bad for Anandi but I also think she has been compensated enough for her sufferings and now honestly enough of ur tears Anandi.

Ok now this is the limit of insensitivity...

every person has the right to his/her opinion and so do you...

BUT what you have just said above...I have no words...

It is so easy to say...right ?? that what did she lack in those years except jagya??

and I dont want to argue with someone who used words like 'COMPENSATED' !!!! how can a person be compensated for what they had to endure...do u have any idea how much it hurts when the person you love cheats on you and makes you feel like you are some piece of garbage ???? It hurts more than a physical wound can hurt...

and you are saying jagya got pain from deserting her ??? well according to you the so called PAIN he got...he himself invited it by his KARMA...

according to the theme of BV...the CVs wanted to show that from child marriage...it cannot be easy for the boy and girl...because attraction happens...Jagya was at an age where he got attracted to gauri...BUT the STEPS that he took FURTHER was wrong...the WHY he left Anandi was wrong...he did no leave anandi beacuse he did not love her anymore...he left anandi because Gauri appealed to him more...and all that the 'PAIN' as u call it he suffered was not because of child marriage but because of the decision's HE HIMSELF made...

Jagya's parents and dadisa (Singh family elders) can be blamed for the child marriage between Anandi-Jagya !!!!! NOT for the decisions Jagya made...when he was an adult

There is an expiry date on blaming your parents for steering you in the wrong direction; the moment you are old enough to take the wheel, responsibility lies with you

and such insensitive thinking for a women...and using words like she has been compensated for her sufferings...let me tell you one thing...there can NEVER be compensations for such type of wounds...

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731627

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Posted: 12 years ago

#57

requesting moderator to action on some members because some members spamming on bv forum by writing same comment about anandi now days that anandi is mahan .these spamming create unhealthy enviroment in bv forum now days and these spamming hurt anandi supporters

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#58

no use pri they are exactly what I wrote ...

Victim Bashers.

I wouldn't be surprised if one of 'them' opened up a thread in support of those 6 men who raped Damini...saying well she deserved it for travelling alone.

Insensitive..

And such people DO exist in the real world.

But I take solace in people like you who care yaar..

Thank you for simply being human u know.

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#59

I agree with all. If anything was wrong, it was anandi's attitude. And people are calling shiv a 'Despo' ??? Unbelievable!!

The man who stood by her, supported her illogical decisions, gave recognition to her school and above all loved her unconditionally, can he be called a despo ? She must not forget that she is indebted to him all her life.

You mean to say she is still remembering her past with Jagya that she cannot bear his touch ??

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shalluuu

@shalluuu

Inactive

Posted: 12 years ago

#60

its show and just fictiion no need to bring the girl damini in all these,,it would be shame on us if we will bring damani in all these...what happen to her is reality wo kisi serial ki nataunki nahi thii...

so many ppl had symathy with gauri but you people didnt ..tab damini jaisi ladki ko kyu naye lakr aaye

anandi k support k liye to aap kisi ko bhi le aao...

shame shame and shame someone is relating damini the real character with fiction character...

Edited by shalluuu - 12 years ago