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arnav97

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

bal vivah victims can go for any number of marriages after initial marriage break up😉😉

Edited by arnav97 - 12 years ago

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princessglory

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

fantastic actor shanshank missing from gpa shame on u colors

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Both Jagya and Anandi are victims of Balvivah and Anadi being a girl had suffered more than Jagya.

She had to move into a strange house learn to live with strangers and lost her childhood and all the rights of a child.

Jagya was not affected at all in childhood.But only thing he lost was his right to choose a girl he liked.

Going by the story Anandi came out stronger and as a winner

Jagya because the way he dealt with the circumstances came out as a loser and ended up falling in a pit.

Just like Anandi's story is inspirational Jagya's story also has a message that one should not get carried away by all that glitters.If one insists on making their own choices he should learn to judge the value of things properly.

Both Gauri and Jagya landed in a deep pit because of their decisions and how they handled life.

But if they show both Gauri and Jagya come out of the mess with each other's help that would have made a very inspirational story also.

Any way fall and rise of Jagya has a message too.

If you are weak in the face of adversity you will fall and if you are strong in the times of trouble you will rise.If they show Jagya facing troubles and becoming stronger it will be a message how a weak person can become strong too.

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Nandita

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: princessglory
fantastic actor shanshank missing from gpa shame on u colors

He is enjoying holidays with his new girlfriend...have you not seen his holiday pictures...so do not blame colors...go and watch the pics on face book.

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poiu123

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Jagya is a victim of Dadisa and not Bal Vivah. It reflects a part of our society where the male child is spoilt , pampered and indulged by parents which has serious implications on his character and behavior in later life.

There was a huge contrast in the way Jagya and Sugna were treated by Dadisa.

Edited by poiu123 - 12 years ago

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vidya0000

@vidya0000

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

@nandita that could not be the reason. we really missed shashank from gpa.whatever, the reason may be.

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shalluuu

@shalluuu

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

shashank always take less interest in the award shows and parties...

everytime they people use to say that anandi and jagat are victim of child marriage and with that rubbish issue they allow victim to marriage two times...jagat got married with gauri and anadi with shiv

if writers are talkig about child marriage/...move to villages of rajasthan u will come across many old age people who married under this tradition

even i m rajasthani my grandparents had child marriage...their brother ,sister and all their relatives who belong to their age had child marriage...humne to kisi ki multiple marriages nahi dekhi...in the villages people are more adjustable

just to increase their so called trps...creatives always bring the new character and move the stories and now there is third entrce for jagat...

Edited by shalluuu - 12 years ago

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Sukanya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

It is all about relationships. Not only the relationship between husband and wife,but,between members of a family as well. how they reach out to each other in time of need and try to understand and reciprocate.

All marriages do not go horribly wrong. True,that Jagya and Anandi had a Bal Vivah. But so did Lal Singh. Why Lal Singh's marriage was successful,when he too went to Mumbai,got educated and enlightened like Jagya?

Jagya married Gauri out of his own free chioce,yet,that too went awry.

The truth,as I feel it, is how you look at relationships and value them. Jagya did not know the value of any relationship that he shared with any one. He just did not learn it from his childhood. He had no fear for elders in the family and went on doing wrong things since he was a child. His was a pampered childhood and both Sumitra and Bhairon failed as parents. They should have reined him in when there was time.

So there was a message for every one in BV;

1. For children:-learn to love and respect each relationship you share

2. For parents:- while you love and pamper your kids,by no means,do. But,also see to it that they are punished when punishment is due. Children must know that they have a boundary within which they have to move. If they cross it,it calls for action.

3. for the grandparents:-love thy grand kids. But,let the love not make you blind. Blind love harms a lot many people in its wake and you become the worst sufferer.

And last but,not the least, Bal Vivah is wrong as kids do not understand the meaning of marriage and consider each other only as play mates.

Marriage,therefore,should have the consent of both the people who understand and value the notion of marriage. That is why,Shiv sought Anandi's consent and gave so much importance to it . He had time and again advocated to Dadisa not to pressurise Anandi into any kind of agreement.

Lastly,love and respect win all. An autocratic matriarch,who burnt the books of her grand daughter -in-law,went to insurmountable length to see to it that this grand daughter -in-law settle down.

That was,indeed,something!!

Edited by mocking_bird - 12 years ago

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

@Sukanya - Nice post .👍🏼

Though this show failed in convincing the masses about the ill effects of child marriage, they did succeed in highlighting many other issues such as infidelity and healthy upbringing of children, which was in a way very nice.

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Sukanya

@mocking_bird

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Shinya
@Sukanya - Nice post .👍🏼

Though this show failed in convincing the masses about the ill effects of child marriage, they did succeed in highlighting many other issues such as infidelity and healthy upbringing of children, which was in a way very nice.

Thanks Shinya. And how are you? Happy New year to you n family.

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