Realisation Repentance Redemption

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Posted: 13 years ago
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This is all about the never ending love that CVs have for Jaggu.😡

They hate to see him in pain.They don't like Jaggu to go through the pain of loneliness feel the pain of abandonment by the spouse.

In fact it pains them to show Jaggu going through the same pain he has put Anandi through.

She had to bear the pain of having Jagya consummating his marriage with Gauri a few rooms down the corridor and he couldn't even bear the thought of seeing them together and he goes away from Jaitser to escape the pain.

He has used and abused two wives and they are giving him a possible third wife.

I'm no fan of Gauri nor do I condone her behaviour in any way.But how can they bring in a third woman into his life with out actuaaly closing Gauri's chapter.

If they are serious about redeeming shouldn't they be sending him back to Gauri if not to reunite with her atleast shouldn't he be finding out what has happened to her.

I do believe that it was very stupid of Gauri to fall for some one like Jagya and going ahead consolidating her relationship by getting married to him is even bigger stupid act from her and opting stay on with him even after knowing that her marriage is not recognised by law is a suicidal move on her part.
Doesn't he have any sense of responsibility?

Agreed she was vicious manipulative and tried to separate him from his family if he doesn't want to continue his relationship with her it is his decision.After having lived as husband and wife for so many years how can he be allowed to walk away from her without even looking back once to find out the consequences of his relationship with her?

First he dumped Anandi without actually caring what might happen to her as she was uneducated and lived in village and had no means to support herself.Never gave a thought to her.

Now he has abandoned Gauri.She definitely has her own faults. But as a man again he failed to look into the consequences of what might happen to her.She may be educated and more capable than him will be able to support herself .But has he given a thought of the consequences?Didn't it occur to him that she might get pregnant?

His behaviour with Anandi and Gauri shows where he places women in his life.They are something who can be used and discarded as per his convenience.
Why should a man like him be allowed to get away with treating woman like toys?

Even after his return to haweli after the repulsive drama of amnesia where he convinced that he is a changed man he went to DS and then Shiv to asking them to return Anandi to him.He has not taken the feelings of Aanandi into consideration at all.

Finally he decided that he did not deserve Anandi and accepted the fact that he lost her forever.
Instead of staying back and facing the pain of seeing Anandi and Shiv together he ran away from it in search of a path to redemption.

Now we hear the news that there is going to be a another woman in his life.Why should he be having a woman in his life so soon?
Shouldn't he be made to go through the pain of losing a spouse?Shouldn't he be made to realise the loneliness and misery that Anandi went through at least to some extent?

If he has to be put on the path to redemption he should be at least be made to go through some of the pain that Anandi went through if not all.Then only his redemption will be more convincing.

Redeeming Jagya by making him help and fight for the rights of another balika vadhu look after his parents and work for the betterment of people of Jaitser are fine but they are definitely not enough.

He has to be put through the same pain that Anandi has gone through and also be made to deal to realise the pain that his actions have caused and be made to repent for the way he dealt his relationship with Gauri and go back to Gauri and close the relationship in an honourable way if he cannot continue in that relationship.These two thing have to be considered as the first steps towards his redemption.

WITHOUT THESE TWO STEPS HIS REDEMPTION WILL BE HOLLOW AND A SHAM





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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very well written, Jag needs to undergo at least half the pain Anandi went through , then only he will start realizing and then he can go for redemption.

Looks like Cvs are jumping to redemption without realization and repentance ( never felt he really repented over his past deeds)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Aparna - wonderful analysis

The moment I heard about the new entry in J's life, it raised a lot of concerns. Cvs may bring in the new entry for TRP reasons, story movement etc. But, what is the message that they are sending out to the larger audience out there? That women can be taken for granted, toyed with and discarded whenever it suits an individual's whims and fancies??😡😡

I do not want to comment on what the character sketch of the new entry is going to be. Hope the new character is strong willed, who has a mind of her own (irrespective of her educational/social background). To show J helping a 'abla naari' and thereby getting his redemption and becoming enlightened is the most stupid thing that CVs can ever do. Let him not be painted as knight in shining armour 😈 going forward..

I have not watched J's character journey, but from whatever have seen from May, J comes across as as an individual unwilling to acknowledge a woman's strength and her intelligence. The gender insensitivity part that he has been displaying and the deep seated patriarchal mindset that he has, so far have to be addressed by CVs.

Finally, he may realize, repent, and his redemption may happen. But, for all the emotional battering that he put Anandi through, the emotional scars that he gave her intentionally or unintentionally - for those he can never be pardoned, even if A has forgiven him for the sake of his parents and DS 😡😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: NDDgirl

Very well written, Jag needs to undergo at least half the pain Anandi went through , then only he will start realizing and then he can go for redemption.


Looks like Cvs are jumping to redemption without realization and repentance ( never felt he really repented over his past deeds)


Exactly.I don't have problems with redemption of J's character.But his redemption without him realising the mistakes that he did and facing the consequences of those mistakes his redemption is meaningless.
The change has to come from with in and that happens only when he is faced with the consequences of his actions.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Gowri -It looks like they are trying to white wash him rather than trying to make him change from with in.

I am not saying that he should be going back to G and resume his relationship with her but he lived with her for so many years and almost produced children with her and he walks out on her without ever looking back?Even if G deserves that treatment the relationship they had doesn't derve this kind of treatment.The relationship does deserve an honourable and convincing closure..

Even if he ends up helping this new woman gives her a new life and help her stand on her two feet will that wash away the fact that he dumped two women without thinking the consequences of his acts?


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

@umam
Gowri -It looks like they are trying to white wash him rather than trying to make him change from with in.

I am not saying that he should be going back to G and resume his relationship with her but he lived with her for so many years and almost produced children with her and he walks out on her without ever looking back?Even if G deserves that treatment the relationship they had doesn't derve this kind of treatment.The relationship does deserve an honourable and convincing closure..

Even if he ends up helping this new woman gives her a new life and help her stand on her two feet will that wash away the fact that he dumped two women without thinking the consequences of his acts?



@ bold --True Aparna ..
If CVs really wanted him to be shown as someone realizing what he has done, they should have shown him thinking and analyzing his actions, which they have not until date (except for those few lines on a paper)
Changes from within come in when there is introspection of actions and not running away from his actions (past and present) and his responsibilities.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Aparna. Brilliant post. Totally agree with you, these are my views too.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i think v should watch episode because in article it is sure that jagya will help sriti but it is not sure that he will marry sriti or not and if he really want to marry sriti he should tell everything about his marriage with anandi and gauri and also to gauri too.infact i m more concern about gauri baby and i feel if cvs really planning marriage of sriti and jagya then should bring new guy for gauri for sake of baby and if they cant bring new guy for gauri then i will prefer remarriage of jagya and gauri for sake of baby
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Right apply there is not closure of previous relationship and they are showing him moving to another.. what cv will give example to our society.. no matter what you did with woman.. you will get chance in life again and again.. isn't he is insensitive about gauri and his relationship that he cant even thin to give proper ending.. just telling on her face that I don't want to see your face again is not ending of relationship.. he done that same with anandi.. and he is doing again.. completely agree with your post

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Posted: 13 years ago
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prati it is fault of woman also .why they marry such type of man and i hope sriti will not marry him if she come to know that jagya is already married .if she refuses to marry then jagya cant do anything .jagya ki himmat isliye to bhadhi thi kyonki gauri jagya se shadi ko tayar ho gayi thi
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